The Tilt Parenting Report

We asked 440 families across every stage of the journey — newly diagnosed to navigating young adulthood — what it’s really like to raise a neurodivergent child. Here’s what they told us.

When I launched Tilt Parenting in 2016, I was a mom in the thick of it — searching for real community, concrete strategies, and the simple reassurance that I wasn’t the only one struggling. Tilt was built from that place.

Ten years later, I wanted to ask: how are families actually doing? What has changed? Where are we still stuck? What do parents need most right now?

Last summer, I surveyed 440 parents and caregivers of neurodivergent children. And seeing what came, all together — the exhaustion, the love, the resilience — was pretty profound.

This report is for every parent who has ever felt unseen, overwhelmed, or alone in this. You are not alone. And you are extraordinary.

Debbie Reber, Founder, Tilt Parenting

What the Data Shows:

4.70 / 5

Feeling unseen by community and schools — the #1 rated challenge, above school systems, finances, and family stress

71%

Of parents are formally diagnosed, strongly suspect, or are actively exploring their own neurodivergence

77%

Name podcasts as their #1 source of parenting information — above specialists, books, and family doctors

73%

Feel confident in their ability to support their child — hard-won confidence built over years of learning and advocacy

“[I wish people knew] how isolating it is. I feel like our situation calls for casseroles and check-in texts, but we get left out and ignored.”— Survey respondent

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Tilt Parenting, LLC is an educational resource, podcast, consultancy, and community with a focus on positively shifting the way neurodifferences in children are perceived, experienced, and supported, and supporting parents raising differently wired™ kids so these exceptional kids can thrive in their schools, in their families, and in their lives. It was founded by Debbie Reber in 2016.

 

 

 

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