Lets see, how should I describe myself. Well, lets start by describing some other folks (and hopefully not in an offensive way). You know the generic bubbly young twinks that are kind of nice to look at but once you get to know them they just end up being a bitchy annoyance? The kind that always come across shy and lacking in backbone and confidence and seem to want nothing but to get bent over and fucked? The kind where you think it's kind of cute the first time they need help getting a spider out of the bathtub but after the hundredth one (you've got a spider problem buddy) you wish would just sort of grow a pair? 

Well that's not me. 

Now, do you know how every once in a great while you'll come across one of those generic looking bubbly young twinks that are kind of nice to look at but you find yourself wary of getting to know them, just expecting that the chances of them being one of those types mentioned above are high, but then when you actually get to know them they surprise you? They have a mind for something other than "Omg, do I look hot in this?" They may get a kick out of the occasional poppy girly party song, but they can also name their favorite song from a band that you've mentioned that you thought nobody else knew about. The kind that doesn't come off shy and lacking a backbone, but gladly offers a winning grin and a paw for a shake when you step up to say hi because to them everyone is a friend until proven otherwise. The kind that may love to be taken care of, but doesn't mind at all being the big spoon in the cuddle when you've had a bad day. And for fuck's SAKE the kind that can get the spider out of the bathtub on his own (as long as he doesn't have to kill it. That thing is going in a cup and getting thrown outside). 

THAT is me! 

I've got that stereotypical lithe build of a twink (I very probably wouldn't win in a fight, but if talking doesn't do the trick, you most likely won't see me back down from it). I've got the slightly higher pitched voice with just the tiniest hint of the sibilant S that slips out on certain words. I like to dress in ways that flatter my form, but budget comes before fashion (it doesn't have to be Gucci or Prada to look dashing). And speaking of "dashing", you may occasionally hear words like "fabulous" slip out of me, but hopefully I'm one of the few that can pull off a word like that without someone nearby rolling their eyes and mumbling a quiet "fag" under his breath. But hey, if you want to, go for it. I know I'm not the most masculine guy ever and I learned a long long time ago to wear words like that as a badge of pride. 
All in all, I'm a pretty accepting person. Respect is the name of the game, so show a little respect and you're sure to get a good deal back in return.