Would you ever take someone back after they cheated on you, and why? What could change your mind?
Well, this won't be a difficult question, I don't think. I personally don't think I would ever take somebody back after they cheated on me. After my first boyfriend and I broke up, I heard all sorts of stories about how he apparently cheated on me, but my first thought was why didn't anyone tell me during the relationship? Not one single person told me. I was only informed after it was too late to do anything about it or even preserve my dignity. I still don't know for sure if he cheated on me, but now I know that during most of our 2 year relationship, people pitied me for not knowing about the rumors. But back to the prompt. I think cheating is unforgivable. I would never be able to trust the person again. After being lied to in a relationship, I won't let it happen again. And if it does happen again...it'll be the last thing he does as my boyfriend and he will be thrown out on his sorry booty. But there are extenuating circumstances, unfortunately. :/ I can say all that now, but that's because beyond my own feelings, I wouldn't have any attachment to the guy. But say it's ten years from now and I'm married with 2 kids. If their father cheats on me, I don't know what I would do. I would be angry, of course, but...I wouldn't want my children to be upset. I know if something happened between my parents I would be devastated. I could never adjust to divorced parents, and I would never want to subject my children to that. I honestly...just don't know. Cheating is unforgivable. But a mom would do anything for her children. But I don't know if I could do that. :/ Hmmm. Great, one more thing for me to worry about in the future, haha.
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