fff april 10
Thankful that our Easter luncheon went really well. We needed to make some adjustments to ensure roomie’s mom had plenty of space to maneuver her walker. It’s amazing how much furniture needs to be moved to accommodate an extended dining table. Roomie had her images of Christ’s appearances after His resurrection and we read verses around the table. Two of our friends joined — one of which was the nurse who’d helped roomie with her mom’s wound care. So thankful for these two.


With all the running around and errands and plant nursery hopping, I forgot to mention that the Ford Ranger surpassed 200,000 miles. While I had it in to get shocks replaced, the front desk guy noted that he had a car in that was 12 years younger than mine that had more miles than mine. For all the years I drove 50 miles each day to and from work, there were nearly as many years just putzing around town. So thankful for this amazingly reliable vehicle. When roomie and I first became roommates in the ’90s, we often wished one of us had a truck for all the hauling we were doing with church projects (we drove compact sedans at the time). We said whoever needed a new vehicle next was getting a truck — and we did in 1999. Maybe because it was so often used for such projects, our gracious Lord gave us a low-maintenance one.


You know how certain topics just converge over a short period of time? One of the audiobook offers I came across recently was for learning Korean. Some of my other reading lately has Korean protagonists. Then my Dad decided for our weekly outing to go to Korean for lunch, for a change. We had a great time together, now our second time at this restaurant. Below right are banchan (side dishes) that arrived before our entrees (bibimbap and soondubu jjigae).


My daffodils finally bloomed! They are the tiny kind that seem to do better in my garden. And also the passiflora (passionfruit vine) has begun blooming. These seem short lived, but more are coming. I’m growing the vine for its fruit rather than for the crazy looking flowers. We’ll see how successful I am at keeping it contained. Bonus: rain expected this weekend!


When a friend asked what my plans were for the day, I nonchalantly said I was going to email the volunteer project leaders with a heads-up for garden project-related deliveries. It turned out a bit more complicated to pull together the details from emails and conversations to nail down dates and timing for bulk mulch delivery by one guy, bagged mulch/soil by another, and plants by me and another guy. I thought a last minute review the next morning with fresh eyes would be best. Late the night before, one of the dates changed! So glad I waited before sending out 13 emails that would need corrections.
Hope you have a snag-free, relaxing weekend, friends.

Hellebore ‘Ice n’ Roses’
He lives!
As for me, I know that my Redeemer lives,
And at the last He will take His stand on the earth.
Even after my skin is destroyed,
Yet from my flesh I shall see God;
Whom I myself shall behold,
And whom my eyes will see and not another.
My heart faints within me!
Job 19:25-27
Worthy is the Lamb that was slain
That has redeemed us to God by His blood
To receive power and riches
And wisdom and strength
And honor and glory and blessing
These lines above from Handel’s ‘Messiah’ are the second verse of ‘I Know That My Redeemer Lives’. I love the hope in these words. He is risen!

fff april 3
There are busy weeks and then there are BUSY weeks. This was one of the latter and I have a feeling it’s an on ramp to several more at top speed. But first, some faves:
First, roomie’s mom was released from the hospital in more stable condition. Roomie still has a lot to do for her recovery every day, but a friend who’s a nurse helped some aspects. So thankful she was available at just the right time. When roomie’s mom needed a powered recliner to more easily lift her feet and then help her out of the chair, roomie found a shop that had one that was the right size for her mom. Still a ways to go, but thankful for so many answers to prayer.
For the big volunteer day near the end of this month, I visited the nursery and put in the plant order for the schools, but had to go elsewhere for some that this shop didn’t have. Also, as the project leader for the local school, I worked on some mural designs for the principal and district to approve before we could line up paint and supplies. Mulch delivery schedule to schools was also finalized. Thankfully, details are coming together nicely.
In the midst of all the running around, we managed to keep our brunch date with a friend and lunch with some other friends. It was a good time to decompress and catch up and share in our lives together. The bouquet above is what I brought from the garden to the brunch.
What had been predicted to be barely measurable rainfall turned out to be 0.4″ which was enough to make the garden happy. Partly cloudy days with beautiful fluffy clouds made it a joy to snatch whatever time I could eke out. Here are some developments: the first ever bloom on my passionfruit vine, blackberry blooms that might set fruit for real this year, buds forming on the dahlias, and eye-catching leucospermum bursting with flowers that last for weeks on end.




Roomie and I were returning from a Maundy Thursday service when someone texted roomie that they thought my phone had gotten left at the church. Back we drove, thankful it was caught in time so that I wouldn’t be without it when we’re so busy. As we headed home the second time, I noticed the turn signals weren’t working. Before we groaned about having to squeeze in a trip to the car shop, a quick check with our favorite chatbot said it’s likely a fuse or triggered by using hazard lights (which we used when I ran in to get my phone). Switching on/off the hazards restored the turn signals! Yay!
Edited to add: A terrific plant share! We continue to have an influx of new faces to the event. I brought mostly flower seedlings and brought home a little fern, a few terra cotta pots and saucers, lemon, grapefruit, geranium cuttings, and a sugar snap pea. It was loquat season and everyone who had a tree or a friend with a tree was sharing fruit. Those who didn’t have plants or fruit to share brought baked goods. We had a great time. Then roomie met me and neighbor for coffee and catch up.


Thankful for the pockets of quiet for contemplation and to anticipate the coming joy of Resurrection Day. Isaiah 50:7 “For the Lord God will help Me; therefore I will not be disgraced; therefore I have set My face like a flint, and I know that I will not be ashamed.”
fff march 27

morning light in the garden, looking southward
It was a hard week with roomie’s mom needing to be hospitalized. We are thankful for many things, however, including roomie being close at hand to help and doctors getting her mom stabilized fairly quickly. The facility where she’d been admitted had just gotten connected with a larger medical group, meaning all the doctors have access to her records more directly, a big help in her complicated health situation.
Thankful my mom’s final visit to the dentist for a multi-part ordeal procedure went well and with a lot less pain than she’d anticipated.
Thankful for the many (also multi-part!) answers to prayers that roomie’s brother is transitioning fairly smoothly to a new residence. People offering furniture and all kinds of other generous kindnesses are just icing on the cake.
Yes, we are out of the 90s and basking in low 80s with an on again/off again chance of rain next week, maybe even dropping into the high 60s. Bonus: I scored a small rain barrel from my buy nothing group. Just needed a transfer pump since it doesn’t have a spigot.
While I was heading to the hardware store, I noticed the CHECK ENGINE light was on. Looked online to see whether this was an emergency or not. In my vehicle, when the light flashes, it means Stop Whatever You’re Doing And Get To A Mechanic Shop Posthaste. Since the light was steadily on, I ran my errands before driving to the shop. The guy said he was really busy, but he’d run the scope and see what codes came back. Turns out, it was my gas cap that had worked its way loose. WHEW. With roomie’s mom in hospital and brother moving, now would’ve been a bad time to be without my own wheels.
Gardeny bonuses: With more temperate days, the blooms keep coming but they last a bit longer than a moment. Front Iceberg rose hedge is at its peak, as is backyard Monsieur Tillier. Roomie revived her miniature garden with new plants and a tidied path. And adorable tiny pots of ajuga used for the next women’s event got planted.




Whatever the weather, hope you have a lovely weekend and find something to be thankful for!

fff march 20

lavender loves being next to the hose bib where it gets a little extra moisture
I’m not that fond of August weather in August, much less August temperatures in March. We were a degree from 100F this week and the garden is very confused (we’re “cooling” down to high 80s next week). Just have to enjoy the brief cool mornings and its lovely light. Here are some of my garden faves despite the sweltering heat:
Monsieur Tillier rose is about to peak in a few days. Crazy, huh?

Nicotiana alata’s delicate and fragrant blooms are only open before 9am and after 6pm.

I’ve misnamed these as sisyrinchium (blue-eyed grass) before, but they’re really aristea inaequalis, a member of the iris family. Blooms keep to the same schedule as nicotiana.

Naturalized freesias means I never quite know where they’ll settle or what color they’ll be. These are among oakleaf pelargoniums and pittosporum shrubs.


More from the roses: Golden Celebration buds don’t last long in this heat. And a close up of Monsieur Tillier.


A plant share friend gave me a small clump of this geranium last fall but had forgotten what color the blooms were. With its first bloom opening, I think this geranium incanum (hardy geranium) is likely ‘Sugar Plum’. Looking forward to it establishing itself in my garden.

And a few bonuses: My friend’s turtle sculpture from found hardware is keeping watch over pelargonium ‘Apple Blossom’. Neighbor’s parent company makes carpet and rugs. We used her employee discount to get this very soft yet durable outdoor rug. Germination success rate for blackberry lily seeds was very low, so I’m thrilled for this lone guy emerging. And thrilled that this new batch of strawberry plants are actually going to set fruit. Hurray!




I know many of you are celebrating each sign of warmth and spring. For us in the midst of this heat wave, we are just trying to keep everyone and every plant hydrated! Happy weekend, friends.

fff march 13
More than one of you has commented that it seems I’m busier than when I was working. I’m certainly feeling it with the various projects. Blessings abound and here are (at least) five!
One of the guys who helped with ideas and construction on the instrument center partners up with another neighbor for an art show. He likes to make whimsical art with found objects (palm leaf sheaths become elephant portraits, for example) and beverage containers and corks become scenes on panels made from repurposed pallets. She makes art with glass including these glass panels attached to open books. She etches animal portraits onto the glass. Fun to see and talk with the artists. I don’t normally have art up in the garden, but I was enamored with his turtle made from hinges, doorbell housing, and maybe some kind of escutcheon plate.




Even though the Santa Ana winds were whipping through the southland (30-35mph gusts), I had a few hours outside potting up seedlings, finding a spot for plants I’d picked up at plant share, taking down garden umbrellas before the wind did (one did get lifted and blown into neighbor’s side yard).
When the house internet went down for more than a few minutes, I tried the recommended resets but finally got the word to ask for a tech. Scheduling mix-ups left us with no internet for about 4 days. But I had prayed that we’d get an experienced tech who had everything he needed — and that’s what we got. It took him nearly 2 hours to complete the tests and replacement of our modem, ONT, and connection at the source. Bonus: he’s an avid gardener and we had plenty to talk about.


I spent a lot of time at school campuses this week, meeting up with project supervisors, photographing project sites, writing up details, calculating mulch and drop-off route. It’ll be a while before I get them straight in my mind, but am so thankful that my phone photos have the location in its metadata. Printed out school satellite photos helped pinpoint project sites and great for making notes.
Bonus: It’s easy to imagine creating a school garden, but experienced project leaders (and, increasingly, school staff) are moving away from plantings unless there’s a committed garden club or associated church group partnership. This means a much smaller number of plants I’m responsible to order and deliver — yay!




We are entering at least a week of 90F temperatures, so I’m going to celebrate these buds and blooms, hints of color to come before they burst open and fizzle out in the hot days ahead.
Oakleaf geranium, ‘Apple Blossom’ pelargonium, ‘Wynyabbie Gem’ westringia, unnamed salvia from plant share friend, unnamed cranesbill geranium from same plant share friend among ‘Third Harmonic’ alstroemeria leaves, cerinthe (self-sown seeds).












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