To celebrate our birthdays and our housewarming, James and I had a party. Unfortunately it was not as much fun as it could have been (for me at least) as I spent most of the night wrangling the dog and keeping him boxed up in various rooms (I'd take him out to drink, eat and go to the bathroom) I finally had enough or torturing my dog and just brought him out with his leash and harness. At first it was attention overload and he was jumping on people and licking and being mildly annoying, but things got better for him as the night progressed, and the people not afraid of our excited puppy actually took time to pet, socialize and meet him.
I can understand people being afraid of dogs and I can understand people not liking being jumped up on or being licked, but we will never break these habits unless he is socialized and taught not to do those things. He needs to know that lots of people or a new person is not a big deal, and I think e will get it over time.
Eventually Tibby got to the point where I just let him off the leash and let him mingle after he had calmed down a bit. To my immense relief, the worst dog phobic person left soon after and I think Tibby actually calmed down a lot from that. He had a bad scare or was hurt pretty badly or something when one of our friends left and shut the front screen door in his face or on his paw or something. He freaked out big time and yelped and carried on for a good10-20 seconds. At the moment he is shy of our front door and event he livingroom.
It wasn't all bad for him however. He got lots of pets from dog friendly people as I said before and even bits of bread given to him in the guise of training. I felt horrible hearing him yelp like that, and I expected to see a bloody paw or a nose or a broken toe the way he was carrying on. However he is fine and sleeping perfectly content on his blanket in the office. (Yes he has a blanket in the office and one in the bedroom as well)
Because our friends come in a large variety of people from James' highschool friends to people we met online, obvious little cliques began to form after awhile, which annoyed me, especially when people decided to 'escape the party' by disappearing into my spare room to 'escape the annoying people'. My spare room was cluttered, messy and full of clothes that needed to be folded and that I was int he process of sorting before the party started, so I was less than amused at the cavalier use of my house.
One friend pretended to be drunker than he was, just to annoy the people who eventually disappeared into my spare room and another friend ended up being far drunker than anyone thought when he decided to be ill in my kitchen, my toilet and in my backyard -.- Currently, he is sleeping off the worst of it in the same spare room I kicked people out of (yay for futons).
While the night sounded negative, it actually was pretty enjoyable. I got to see a few old friends of mine who made the night automatically better for me, the dog was super relaxed after awhile and the night ended fairly well.
I also forgot to mention that Before the party started, I took Tibby for an evening walk which is something normally don't do because his car chasing starts to get progressively worse, anyway, while I was out, I met the local social dog group! Tiburon was really shy and awkward at first, but I think seeing the group will help him become a much better dog, especially if he burns off some excess energy running around with a bunch of other dogs.
I want to get a sign that says 'Dogs welcome, People tolerated.