Many, likely even most of my posts are kept under friendslock.
No big deal, I'll add pretty much anyone who wanders through.
All I ask is that you leave a msg saying where you found me and why you added me.
I don't add people who don't tell me why.

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Another conversation in FetLife...
Someone asked the womens what they felt a Real Man was...
Many interesting responses, though mostly uninspired to be honest
But one person responded with a link to Rudyard Kipling's "If"

 

 

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NOT ALL WOMEN ARE SCREAMERS. Also, we don't all moan loudly, call you a big stud and beg to be fucked (If we do, we're probably joking or drunk).

This is my biggest peeve, I've lost track of how many of my partners have bitched about me being too quiet. I don't scream, I only occasionally moan, I'm very very rarely loud. And if the sex is really good I'm too incoherent even to talk unless you thing "GGGGG bbbbbtttth" is sexy :P

This doesn't mean you're doing it wrong. In fact, with me? The better it is the more likely I am to go completely silent. This is likely because I'm so focused on enjoying how amazingly fucking awesome it is to even remember to breathe except for the occasional pant or gasp. If I'm clinging to you, barely breathing, generally that means that my mind is gone and the only thing in my reality is the sensations that your body is giving mine. THIS IS A GOOD THING!

PS: Some women have more subtle orgasms where the sensation is centered around her clit. Just cause you cant' feel it pulsing around your cock doesn't mean we're faking it. (I have no idea how Porn sparked this misconception, considering you can't see that on screen...)

PPS: When pulling a woman's hair, do not yank it from the front or the sides. Reach under her hair at the nape of the neck, run your fingers through it a bit and then take a handful. Tug it lightly at first, then harder if she responds well. We don't actually like it when you just grab and try to pull our hair out by the roots. Also, while some women with long hair may like it if you wrap it around your fist and pull, most of us have this weird feeling that it fucking hurts cause you are pulling some of it out from the scalp. A small handful of hair caught between your fingers and sorta-gently tugged is far more effective with those of us who enjoy it, and less likely to piss off the ones who don't.

PPSS: We don't all like our faces shoved down onto your cock, some of us have very active gag reflexes and forcing us past that point will result in you having a lap full of vomit.

kthxbai

PPSSS: Not all women like Anal, and "Oops" is not an acceptable way of finding out whether or not she is okay with it.

and another


More versions and verses here

"Being loyal to desire, giving certain desires time to show themselves more fully and reveal how they might make their way into life, is a form of sexual living. Broadly speaking, it is an erotic way of life."

Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer
Ran into a snip from this song so had to look up the lyrics... I listened to it on youtube but it was too noisy and sloppy.

Still, a couple of good lines

the truth
is you could slit my throat
And with my one last gasping breath
I'd apologize for bleeding on your shirt

and

Cause I'm a wishful thinker with the worst intentions

Momentary stupidity, moping over Himself once again.
He was in town last weekend, just a couple of hours away, teased about coming to visit
but as usual, no follow through
and of course he was with the one he blew me off for

so

keep trying to force myself to give up, to forget, it just never goes away


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