http://www.nyupress.org/books/Out_in_the_Country-products_id-11057.html
About the book:
http://queercountry.fromthesquare.org/
I've just read bits about it online today... I wish I could articulate what bugs me so much about it. On the one hand, I'm sure I'll find many parts I concur with, or at least share a lot of experiences with. But, other parts of what she says are to the effect of, be the perfect homo, make excuses for the people in your area, online gay friends are a substitute for RL queer community, etc. Yawn. I deeply suspect that it's going to be painfully naive and rose-tinted at points, and much too homo uncle tom for my liking. There's probably a better way to put that, but yeah...
This may not be a romantic or idealistic statement, but for the majority of queers, Harvey Milk's advice, move to the nearest city, is sound advice, not only for safety concerns, but because queer or straight, urban areas offer economic and social opportunities that much of rural America cannot. There is not a need anymore for half the population to be family farmers, that's just how it is, and we waste a lot of money on romanticizing an inefficient and isolating way of life, through TV, religion, the notion of "traditional values", and more tangible things like too-small of school districts, local government infrastructures and road systems
TLDR I'm still gonna buy the book and will write about it later, so I guess the author achieved her goal there. Maybe it'll be better than I think.
About the book:
http://queercountry.fromthesquare.org/
I've just read bits about it online today... I wish I could articulate what bugs me so much about it. On the one hand, I'm sure I'll find many parts I concur with, or at least share a lot of experiences with. But, other parts of what she says are to the effect of, be the perfect homo, make excuses for the people in your area, online gay friends are a substitute for RL queer community, etc. Yawn. I deeply suspect that it's going to be painfully naive and rose-tinted at points, and much too homo uncle tom for my liking. There's probably a better way to put that, but yeah...
This may not be a romantic or idealistic statement, but for the majority of queers, Harvey Milk's advice, move to the nearest city, is sound advice, not only for safety concerns, but because queer or straight, urban areas offer economic and social opportunities that much of rural America cannot. There is not a need anymore for half the population to be family farmers, that's just how it is, and we waste a lot of money on romanticizing an inefficient and isolating way of life, through TV, religion, the notion of "traditional values", and more tangible things like too-small of school districts, local government infrastructures and road systems
TLDR I'm still gonna buy the book and will write about it later, so I guess the author achieved her goal there. Maybe it'll be better than I think.
cheerful
giddy