The idea of packing the key (`sds`), value (`robj`) and optionally TTL
into a single struct in memory was mentioned a few times in the past by
the community in various flavors. This approach improves memory
efficiency, reduces pointer dereferences for faster lookups, and
simplifies expiration management by keeping all relevant data in one
place. This change goes along with setting keyspace's dict to
no_value=1, and saving considerable amount of memory.

Two more motivations that well aligned with this unification are:

- Prepare the groundwork for replacing EXPIRE scan based implementation
and evaluate instead new `ebuckets` data structure that was introduced
as part of [Hash Field Expiration
feature](https://redis.io/blog/hash-field-expiration-architecture-and-benchmarks/).
Using this data structure requires embedding the ExpireMeta structure
within each object.
- Consider replacing dict with a more space efficient open addressing
approach hash table that might rely on keeping a single pointer to
object.

Before this PR, I POC'ed on a variant of open addressing hash-table and
was surprised to find that dict with no_value actually could provide a
good balance between performance, memory efficiency, and simplicity.
This realization prompted the separation of the unification step from
the evaluation of a new hash table to avoid introducing too many changes
at once and to evaluate its impact independently before considering
replacement of existing hash-table. On an earlier
[commit](#13683) I extended dict
no_value optimization (which saves keeping dictEntry where possible) to
be relevant also for objects with even addresses in memory. Combining it
with this unification saves a considerable amount of memory for
keyspace.

# kvobj
This PR adopts Valkey’s
[packing](valkey-io/valkey@3eb8314)
layout and logic for key, value, and TTL. However, unlike Valkey
implementation, which retained a common `robj` throughout the project,
this PR distinguishes between the general-purpose, overused `robj`, and
the new `kvobj`, which embeds both the key and value and used by the
keyspace. Conceptually, `robj` serves as a base class, while `kvobj`
acts as a derived class.

Two new flags introduced into redis object, `iskvobj` and `expirable`:
```
struct redisObject {
    unsigned type:4;
    unsigned encoding:4;
    unsigned lru:LRU_BITS;
    unsigned iskvobj : 1;             /* new flag */
    unsigned expirable : 1;           /* new flag */
    unsigned refcount : 30;           /* modified: 32bits->30bits */
    void *ptr;
};

typedef struct redisObject robj;
typedef struct redisObject kvobj;
```
When the `iskvobj` flag is set, the object includes also the key and it
is appended to the end of the object. If the `expirable` flag is set, an
additional 8 bytes are added to the object. If the object is of type
string, and the string is rather short, then it will be embedded as
well.

As a result, all keys in the keyspace are promoted to be of type
`kvobj`. This term attempts to align with the existing Redis object,
robj, and the kvstore data structure.

# EXPIRE Implementation
As `kvobj` embeds expiration time as well, looking up expiration times
is now an O(1) operation. And the hash-table of EXPIRE is set now to be
`no_value` mode, directly referencing `kvobj` entries, and in turn,
saves memory.

Next, I plan to evaluate replacing the EXPIRE implementation with the
[ebuckets](https://github.com/redis/redis/blob/unstable/src/ebuckets.h)
data structure, which would eliminate keyspace scans for expired keys.
This requires embedding `ExpireMeta` within each `kvobj` of each key
with expiration. In such implementation, the `expirable` flag will be
shifted to indicate whether `ExpireMeta` is attached.


# Implementation notes

## Manipulating keyspace (find, modify, insert)
Initially, unifying the key and value into a single object and storing
it in dict with `no_value` optimization seemed like a quick win.
However, it (quickly) became clear that this change required deeper
modifications to how keys are manipulated. The challenge was handling
cases where a dictEntry is opt-out due to no_value optimization. In such
cases, many of the APIs that return the dictEntry from a lookup become
insufficient, as it just might be the key itself. To address this issue,
a new-old approach of returning a "link" to the looked-up key's
`dictEntry` instead of the `dictEntry` itself. The term `link` was
already somewhat available in dict API, and is well aligned with the new
dictEntLink declaration:
```
typedef dictEntry **dictEntLink;
```
This PR introduces two new function APIs to dict to leverage returned
link from the search:
```
dictEntLink dictFindLink(dict *d, const void *key, dictEntLink *bucket);
void dictSetKeyAtLink(dict *d, void *key, dictEntLink *link, int newItem);
```
After calling `link = dictFindLink(...)`, any necessary updates must be
performed immediately after by calling `dictSetKeyAtLink()` without any
intervening operations on given dict. Otherwise, `dictEntLink` may
become invalid. Example:
```
/* replace existing key */
link = dictFindLink(d, key, &bucket, 0);
// ... Do something, but don't modify the dict ...
// assert(link != NULL);
dictSetKeyAtLink(d, kv, &link, 0);
     
/* Add new value (If no space for the new key, dict will be expanded and 
   bucket will be looked up again.) */  
link = dictFindLink(d, key, &bucket);
// ... Do something, but don't modify the dict ...
// assert(link == NULL);
dictSetKeyAtLink(d, kv, &bucket, 1);
```
## dict.h 
- The dict API has became cluttered with many unused functions. I have
removed these from dict.h.
- Additionally, APIs specifically related to hash maps (no_value=0),
primarily those handling key-value access, have been gathered and
isolated.
- Removed entirely internal functions ending with “*ByHash()” that were
originally added for optimization and not required any more.
- Few other legacy dict functions were adapted at API level to work with
the term dictEntLink as well.
- Simplified and generalized an optimization that related to comparison
of length of keys of type strings.

## Hash Field Expiration
Until now each hash object with expiration on fields needed to maintain
a reference to its key-name (of the hash object), such that in case it
will be active-expired, then it will be possible to resolve the key-name
for the notification sake. Now there is no need anymore.

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Co-authored-by: debing.sun <debing.sun@redis.com>