Closes #820

*(description copied from #820 (comment)

`build-*-manifest` CI jobs are failing like this:

```text
docker.io/rapidsai/staging:docker-cuvs-bench-820-26.02a-cuda13-py3.10-amd64 is a manifest list
Error: Process completed with exit code 1.
```

([build link](https://github.com/rapidsai/docker/actions/runs/19864919436/job/56926457521?pr=820#step:4:23))

Looks like in newer versions of `docker`, builds create manifest lists by default instead of single image builds:

* NVIDIA/gpu-operator#1940
* NVIDIA/k8s-driver-manager#132
* docker/build-push-action#1339 (comment)

This opts out of that using the configuration option added in docker/build-push-action#1343

It also updates all `pre-commit` hooks, to avoid needing another CI run for #820

Authors:
  - James Lamb (https://github.com/jameslamb)

Approvers:
  - Bradley Dice (https://github.com/bdice)

URL: #821