Added CUDA 12.4+ support #3744

Tries to fix #3690 for CUDA 12.4+
Related patch to main repo: opencv/opencv#25658

Changes:
- Added branches to support new variadic implementation of thrust::tuple
- Added branch with std::array instead of std::tuple in split-merge and grid operations. The new branch got rid of namespace clash: cv::cuda in OpenCV and ::cuda in CUDA standard library (injected by Thrust). Old tuple branches presumed for compatibility with old code and CUDA versions before 12.4.

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- [x] There is a reference to the original bug report and related work
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