parseSSD overload is ambiguous.

Added specialization for ParseSSD functions with different return values. Unfortunately needs call cv::gapi::parseSSD<GArray<Rect>> for second version of ParseSSD. But all samples use first version of ParseSSD with tuple in return value.

Returned overloads, removed defaults from second function variant.

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• The feature is well documented and sample code can be built with the project CMake

Magic commands:

force_builders=Custom,Custom Win,Custom Mac
build_gapi_standalone:Linux x64=ade-0.1.1f
build_gapi_standalone:Win64=ade-0.1.1f
build_gapi_standalone:Mac=ade-0.1.1f
build_gapi_standalone:Linux x64 Debug=ade-0.1.1f

Xbuild_image:Custom=centos:7
Xbuildworker:Custom=linux-1
build_gapi_standalone:Custom=ade-0.1.1f

build_image:Custom=ubuntu-openvino-2021.3.0:20.04
build_image:Custom Win=openvino-2021.2.0
build_image:Custom Mac=openvino-2021.2.0

test_modules:Custom=gapi,python2,python3,java
test_modules:Custom Win=gapi,python2,python3,java
test_modules:Custom Mac=gapi,python2,python3,java

buildworker:Custom=linux-1
# disabled due high memory usage: test_opencl:Custom=ON
test_opencl:Custom=OFF
test_bigdata:Custom=1
test_filter:Custom=*