## Description

Replaces #2116 
Fixes #3468

This adds a `Resolver` trait to abstract over DNS resolution. It
contains methods to resolve IPv4 or IPv6 addresses, and TXT records.
Because the trait needs to be dyn-compatible for our usage (we don't
want to have a generic for the DNS resolver on the Endpoint), all
methods return boxed futures that contain boxed iterators.

To not pay the cost of boxing when using the default hickory-based
resolver, the iroh `DnsResolver` internally contains an enum which is
either the default resolver or the boxed custom resolver.

Users can implement the `Resolver` trait on whatever struct to use a
completely custom DNS resolver.

## Breaking Changes

Changes in `iroh_relay::dns` (reexported from `iroh::dns`):
* `DnsResolver::lookup_txt` now returns `impl Iterator<Item =
TxtRecord>`
* `TxtLookup` and `TXT` are removed.

Changes in `iroh_relay::node_info` (reexported from `iroh::discovery`):
* `NodeInfo::from_txt_lookup` now takes `domain_name: String, lookup:
impl Iterator<Item = crate::dns::TxtRecordData>`

Moved items:
* `iroh_relay::node_info::LookupError` was moved to
`iroh_relay::dns::LookupError`

## Notes & open questions

We likely want to still add a builder for our DnsResolver to allow
setting a few more of the common options on the hickory resolver. But
with this, people that want to use some completely custom way of
resolving DNS records can do so.


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## Change checklist
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- [x] Self-review.
- [x] Documentation updates following the [style
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if relevant.
- [ ] Tests if relevant.
- [x] All breaking changes documented.
- [ ] List all breaking changes in the above "Breaking Changes" section.
- [ ] Open an issue or PR on any number0 repos that are affected by this
breaking change. Give guidance on how the updates should be handled or
do the actual updates themselves. The major ones are:
    - [ ] [`quic-rpc`](https://github.com/n0-computer/quic-rpc)
    - [ ] [`iroh-gossip`](https://github.com/n0-computer/iroh-gossip)
    - [ ] [`iroh-blobs`](https://github.com/n0-computer/iroh-blobs)
    - [ ] [`dumbpipe`](https://github.com/n0-computer/dumbpipe)
    - [ ] [`sendme`](https://github.com/n0-computer/sendme)