82562: changefeeccl: Projections and Filters in CDC. r=miretskiy a=miretskiy

Add a variant of CHANGEFEED statement that allows specification
of predicates and projections.

```
CREATE CHANGEFEED [INTO 'sink'] [WITH opt=val, ...]
AS SELECT .... FROM t WHERE ...
```

This changefeed variant can target at most 1 table (and 1 column
family) at a time. The expressions used as the projections and
filters can be almost any supported expression with some restrictions:
  * Volatile functions not allowed.
  * Sub-selects not allowed.
  * Aggregate and window functions (i.e. functions operating over many
    rows) not allowed.
  * Some stable functions, notably functions which return MVCC
    timestamp, are overridden to return MVCC timestamp of the event.

In addition, some CDC specific functions are provided:
  * cdc_is_delete: returns true if the event is a deletion event.
  * cdc_prev: returns JSON representation of the previous row state.
  * cdc_updated_timestamp: returns event update timestamp (usually MVCC
    timestamp, but can be different if e.g. undergoing schema changes)
Additional CDC specific functions will be added in the follow on PRs.

Few examples:

* Emit all but the deletion events:
```
CREATE CHANGEFEED INTO 'kafka://'
AS SELECT * FROM table
WHERE NOT cdc_is_delete()
```

* Emit all events that modified `important_col` column:
```
CREATE CHANGEFEED INTO 'kafka://' WITH diff
AS SELECT *, cdc_prev() AS previous
FROM important_table
WHERE important_col != cdc_prev()->'important_col'
```

* Emit few colums, as well as computed expresions:
```
CREATE CHANGEFEED INTO 'kafka://' WITH diff
AS SELECT warehouseID, (totalItems - orderedItems) as itemsAvailable
FROM warehouse
WHERE region='US/east';
```

When filter expression is specified, changefeed will now consult
optimizer so that the set of spans scanned by changefeed can be
restricted based on the predicate.

For example, given the following table and a changefeed:
```
CREATE TABLE warehouse (
  region STRING,
  warehouseID int,
  ....
  PRIMARY KEY (region, warehouseID)
);

CREATE CHANGEFEED INTO 'kafka://' WITH diff
AS SELECT *
FROM warehouse
WHERE region='US/east';
```

The create changefeed will only scan table spans that contain `US/east`
region (and ignore all other table spans).

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For foundational work, see:

- #81676
- #81249
- #80499

Addresses:
- #56949
- #31214


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Release Notes (enterprise):
CHANGEFEED statement now supports general expressions -- predicates and projections.
Projections allow customers to emit only the data that they care about,
including computed columns, while predicates (i.e. filters) allow them
to restrict the data that's emitted only to those events that match the
filter.

```
CREATE CHANGEFEED INTO 'kafka://' AS SELECT * FROM t WHERE NOT cdc_is_delete()
```


Co-authored-by: Yevgeniy Miretskiy <yevgeniy@cockroachlabs.com>