…_flags (apache#50993) (apache#51089)

Pick apache#50993

Introduced by apache#51050

The build block maybe be `clear_column_mem_not_keep` in build phase when
the operator is closed.

```cpp
Status HashJoinBuildSinkLocalState::close(RuntimeState* state, Status exec_status) {
    if (_closed) {
        return Status::OK();
    }
    auto& p = _parent->cast<HashJoinBuildSinkOperatorX>();
    Defer defer {[&]() {
        if (!_should_build_hash_table) {
            return;
        }
        // The build side hash key column maybe no need output, but we need to keep the column in block
        // because it is used to compare with probe side hash key column

        if (p._should_keep_hash_key_column && _build_col_ids.size() == 1) {
            p._should_keep_column_flags[_build_col_ids[0]] = true;
        }

        if (_shared_state->build_block) {
            // release the memory of unused column in probe stage
            _shared_state->build_block->clear_column_mem_not_keep(p._should_keep_column_flags,
                                                                  p._use_shared_hash_table);
        }

        if (p._use_shared_hash_table) {
            std::unique_lock lock(p._mutex);
            p._signaled = true;
            for (auto& dep : _shared_state->sink_deps) {
                dep->set_ready();
            }
            for (auto& dep : p._finish_dependencies) {
                dep->set_ready();
            }
        }
    }};
```

```
*** Aborted at 1747343165 (unix time) try "date -d @1747343165" if you are using GNU date ***
*** Current BE git commitID: e7a3e78 ***
*** SIGSEGV address not mapped to object (@0x1) received by PID 7474 (TID 9641 OR 0x7f3f8c0e5640) from PID 1; stack trace: ***
 0# doris::signal::(anonymous namespace)::FailureSignalHandler(int, siginfo_t*, void*) at /root/doris/be/src/common/signal_handler.h:421
 1# PosixSignals::chained_handler(int, siginfo*, void*) [clone .part.0] in /usr/lib/jvm/java-17-openjdk-amd64/lib/server/libjvm.so
 2# JVM_handle_linux_signal in /usr/lib/jvm/java-17-openjdk-amd64/lib/server/libjvm.so
 3# 0x00007F4368F76520 in /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6
 4# doris::Status doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<7>::finish_probing > > >(doris::vectorized::MethodKeysFixed > >&, doris::vectorized::MutableBlock&, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*, bool) at /root/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/join/process_hash_table_probe_impl.h:738
 5# std::__detail::__variant::__gen_vtable_impl (*)(doris::pipeline::HashJoinProbeOperatorX::pull(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) const::$_1&&, std::variant > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber, doris::JoinHashTable, HashCRC32 > > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber, doris::JoinHashTable, HashCRC32 > > >, doris::vectorized::MethodKeysFixed > >, doris::vectorized::MethodKeysFixed, HashCRC32 > > >, doris::vectorized::MethodKeysFixed > >, doris::vectorized::MethodKeysFixed, HashCRC32 > > >, doris::vectorized::MethodStringNoCache > > >&, std::variant, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<2>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<8>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<1>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<4>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<3>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<7>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<9>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<10>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<11> >&)>, std::integer_sequence >::__visit_invoke(doris::pipeline::HashJoinProbeOperatorX::pull(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) const::$_1&&, std::variant > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber, doris::JoinHashTable, HashCRC32 > > >, doris::vectorized::MethodOneNumber, doris::JoinHashTable, HashCRC32 > > >, doris::vectorized::MethodKeysFixed > >, doris::vectorized::MethodKeysFixed, HashCRC32 > > >, doris::vectorized::MethodKeysFixed > >, doris::vectorized::MethodKeysFixed, HashCRC32 > > >, doris::vectorized::MethodStringNoCache > > >&, std::variant, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<2>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<8>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<1>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<4>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<3>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<7>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<9>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<10>, doris::pipeline::ProcessHashTableProbe<11> >&) at /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/variant:1013
 6# doris::pipeline::HashJoinProbeOperatorX::pull(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) const at /root/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/hashjoin_probe_operator.cpp:281
 7# doris::pipeline::StatefulOperatorX::get_block(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) at /root/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/operator.cpp:670
 8# doris::pipeline::OperatorXBase::get_block_after_projects(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) at /root/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/operator.cpp:381
 9# doris::pipeline::PipelineTask::execute(bool*) in /mnt/hdd01/ci/doris-deploy-master-local/be/lib/doris_be
10# doris::pipeline::TaskScheduler::_do_work(int) at /root/doris/be/src/pipeline/task_scheduler.cpp:144
11# doris::ThreadPool::dispatch_thread() at /root/doris/be/src/util/threadpool.cpp:622
12# doris::Thread::supervise_thread(void*) at /root/doris/be/src/util/thread.cpp:469
13# start_thread at ./nptl/pthread_create.c:442
14# 0x00007F436905A850 at ../sysdeps/unix/sysv/linux/x86_64/clone3.S:83
```

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