Born with Teeth
by Kate Mulgrew
Raised by unconventional Irish Catholics who knew "how to drink, how to dance, how to talk, and how to stir up the devil," Kate Mulgrew grew up with poetry and drama in her bones. But in her mother, a would-be artist burdened by the endless arrival of new babies, young Kate saw the consequences of a dream deferred. Determined to pursue her own no matter the cost, at 18 she left her small Midwestern town for New York, where, studying with the legendary Stella Adler, she learned the lesson that would define her as an actress: "Use it," Adler told her. Whatever disappointment, pain, or anger life throws in your path, channel it into the work.
It was a lesson she would need. At twenty-two, just as her career was taking off, she became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter. Having already signed the adoption papers, she was allowed only a fleeting glimpse of her child. As her star continued to rise, her life became increasingly demanding and fulfilling, a whirlwind of passionate love affairs, life-saving friendships, and bone-crunching work. Through it all, Mulgrew remained haunted by the loss of her daughter, until, two decades later, she found the courage to face the past and step into the most challenging role of her life, both on and off screen.
We know Kate Mulgrew for the strong women she's played--Captain Janeway on Star Trek; the tough-as-nails "Red" on Orange is the New Black. Now, we meet the most inspiring and memorable character of all: herself. By turns irreverent and soulful, laugh-out-loud funny and heart-piercingly sad, BORN WITH TEETH is the breathtaking memoir of a woman who dares to live life to the fullest, on her own terms.I used to watch
Voyager with my dad and I listened to Kate narrate the audiobook for
NOS4A2 by Joe Hill. Which she did a great job with. And then Audible must have suggested her memoir and I bought it.
I finally listened to it to balance the historical fantasy fiction (
The Unicorn Hunters) I'm reading. I can't read and listen to the same genre at once.
Kate did a great job with the narration and putting emotion into it. Sometimes a person can be reading their own story and it's so stoic. But because of her previous work I didn't doubt Kate.
Kate's life is very interesting and I was engaged (
Star Trek pun!) to hear about her family, her mother's depression, her career and balancing it with motherhood. But what made me the most emotional was hearing the surprising story of the daughter she gave up for adoption and trying to find her again. I was crying at work when Kate and her daughter reunited.
I was so relieved that she didn't get the
"a" word and chose adoption instead.
I was heartbroken by, disappointed in, and angry with the behavior of Catholic Charities. I don't like when Christian organizations don't live up to the call to be good Christians. I can also say that about non-religious organizations too. Do better. (I wonder if the couple Kate chose ever got to be parents. My heart broke for them to be disappointed twice.)
It was also truly sad to hear about her sisters who died so young and her mother's grief. It made my heart ache.
My only gripe is though her and her family are not practicing Catholics, they have to stop saying the Lord's name. I cringed every time the Second Commandment was broken. It's the main reason I deducted some points from my rating.
Oh and I guess I would also add that I wasn't that interested in her love life escapades. That could have been edited down.
I also liked that they added Kate's interview moderated by Rosie O'Donnell at the end of the book. It added some more context.
3.75 out of 5 Teeth.Memorable quotes:( quotesCollapse )