The wounded man has thrown the baby out with the bath water, when it comes to women. Men who cannot help a woman with something as simple as a flat tire, is a man disconnected from his Sacred Masculine Fire. Or a man who decides to end the date by dropping her off on the side of the road, without taking her home is a masculine man with NO Sacred Fire. This is also a man demonstrating zero moral grounding, with poor integrity.
When this happens he is now controlled by his environment. Instead, he controls his environment, and from there he can help women as they need it or finish the date without giving of himself. (Anytime a woman gets into your car with you, it’s like a contract. If you kick her out in the middle of no-where, and something happens to her IT ALL FALLS ON YOU. So finish the contract with your highest integrity, and take her home. This is as much of a lesson for you as it is for her.)
A healthy practice with boundaries opens the door to his chivalry, which is the “action” of this healthy Sacred Fire, and a proud integrity.
The Sacred Masculine is about 10 steps beyond what is described as masculine today (end of 2025).
It is NOT just strength, it is the full range from what is gentle to what is firm, and without breaking. A man who hits a woman no matter the situation, is a man with NO sacred fire, and one who strongly lacks moral grounding. “Every time a man controls his emotions, he fans his Sacred fire”. This fire feeds his integrity, then raises his heart above the clouds into freedom, and this is what paves forward his peaceful direction.
If a woman is threatening your life, then by all means let her have it. Honestly, that line is way out there. So be the wisdom.
Chivalry is moral grounding, which is integrity. From this grows “self-worth”, which lands you in self-loyalty, and self-loyalty from a spiritual “realization” practice brings about the behavior of the Sacred Masculine Fire. Because this SMF is so much more than just physical. He’s not only aware of the gentleness of his strength. Or the ability to NOT kill when he surely can, and from the builder that he is… Yet the full range of his emotions, as the healer that he is… Mental, emotional, physical and spiritual. His Sacred Fire from a spiritual perception has a whole other level to it… I’ll save that for another post.
In a relationship:
This SMF has everything to do with his emotional “Frame”; how NOT to be reactionary, and why.
In an argument: She is verbally coming unglued, it is important for him to NOT react. Just be emotionally centered in your core, with NO verbal reaction. Remember, he is the Rock.
His stoic presence creates a brick wall, where her emotional out-bursts can only go this far, and NO further. Her manipulations can ONLY crash against this wall, and NOT effect him. This behavior changes the dynamics of the interaction, where she is Hot, he is Cool. She needs to emotionally unload, and she does it verbally. For her to be effective he will support her by being her Rock to crash on, and all he has to do is “be present”. NOT her words, her crying or her rage. He can tell when she falls into this pattern when she wants something outside of his range to give. Or it’s an emotional out-burst, and it just needs to run it’s course. Still, he is firm in his integrity; he is unchanged by her behavior. This dynamic is essential for a healthy relationship. So when he acts on chivalry in an established relationship, she will see it as a big deal. Because without this Frame the relationship is cloudy with no form.
Or when he starts a new relationship with this Frame, she knows what to expect as things progress. This Frame is his leadership; his integrity, his Sacred Fire, and the potency of his chivalry.
Women want to see this Frame from men in their early 20’s. When in truth, it comes with the emotional maturity of the King (the 3rd of the 3 stages of men. –From the works of Alison Armstrong). And only a few men show it earlier.
Chivalry can be expressed effectively at any age.
I am aware however, that chivalry is a personal choice, and not everyone has within them the Will Power to remain at peak performance. The truth of who all he can be, has been hidden from us deliberately for the gain of the one, over the sovereignty of the many.
So if you’re watching the screen, and you hear a message of Fear then change that channel. And only listen to the words of Love and Unity, and you too will walk tall with the empowerment of your Sacred Fire.
Go in peace…
Chivalry IS His Sacred Fire
December 22, 2025
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The Tree That Keeps Giving
October 26, 2025
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This video has brought to the surface a memory, like a brick wall, reaching back to when I was 3. I can remember the house I was in, the room in that house, and the people present. A feeling that started “then”, and has lingered since.
This video has reminded me of who I am; another layer of learning about the self.
As the shadows grow long… Where the old cycle ends, and another completely new awakens. Just like a tree that keeps giving.
My blessings to you…
https://www.youtube.com/embed/_aHGpfXtgRg
No Greater Lesson Than Experience
October 26, 2025
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There are some things that can’t be taught; they have to be “grown into”, as in learned through experience.
Keeping some mystery hidden on that map for another story.
Not everything is meant to be taught. The best lessons are the ones that we learn for ourselves, because in “that” learning is where original wisdom emerges.
My blessings to you…
https://www.youtube.com/embed/mBs86Noajr0
What She Does Not Want Him Too Know
September 4, 2025
Deep Waters, Reflections Empowerment, illusion, Transformation Leave a comment
When a person chooses to look at something long enough, and deep enough… The answers come into view.
When a person chooses to look at the truth of something with intent, and in this case “what a woman is”. Then the illusion of what a woman is not, begins to fall away. What appears through the fog is someone who is the fabric of transformation as long as it relates to smoke and mirrors... On the edge of chaos, some more than others.
As he awakens to this, he discovers that the only way to relate to her, is if he can become:
As water with NO form…
As air with NO momentum…
As a mud slide with No destination…
Or as fire with No fuel.
“The rubber-band man”. He must loose his form to match her formlessness.
A man must embrace his independence and solitude, as what gives him empowerment. This is where the bulk of his attention needs to be. It helps for her to know what her needs are, and for him to keep that line of communication open so she feels safe in the asking.
Because once he awakens to this illusion, and he finds himself giving the bulk of his attention to her then he risks going mad… On the edge of simping.
So he must shift his attention, because he values his attention for his peace above all. To maintain this he must demand from her a higher standard; an attitude that matches the golden ratio of combined outcomes. She has to step it up.
What he gives to her is undivided attention with clear and precise direction, when she’s in the asking… And only when they come face to face, while the tone is gentle.
To love her is to know her… And he has to respect his own emotional boundaries or chance going up in flames.
Earth is a classroom with hard lessons of duality. Men and women are NOT polar opposites, yet we are VERY different from each other non the less, LOL.
The man is the rock in an open field, and she is the wind… Asking for everything and nothing all at once; she knows not what she wants.
He provides safety for her ever transforming wind.
And she is authentic in respecting his stable peace, as the rock she needs him to be.
Blessings…
NOTE:
* I intuitively see all this as the Sacred Feminine reawakening, and about to blossom.
* I love how when something is seen or when one pushes through an issue… “That arrival” means one can no longer go back to the old ways. “Always moving forward”.
* I believe all this to be growing pains. Because when we finally shift from the 5th density, and into the 7th vibrational frequency. All this will either guide us into higher living… Or help us with finding the exit door to the great journey home to God.
What is Containment
August 10, 2025
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Containment in a relationship is managing the home around her; as in stocking the home with supplies when it’s not in her to do so.
Containment is managing life around her so she feels well cared for… It’s about navigating life with confidence, and being that ROCK that every woman needs.
All this comes from his ability to provide her physical and emotional basic needs.
And the finer details of containment is diving into her box of snakes, and digging her out of her own emotional mess; talking her off that ledge.
Providing for her something that is carefully designed just for her, so she knows she’s special from the rest. An action that shows his sacred masculine is in full support of her feminine.
These men are often the ones who display emotional availability, and the ones who have more patience for her crazy shenanigans.
Men who know not of containment or don’t have it in them to perform such acts. The ones that don’t have her well-being at heart. Those can, and often do experience more friction in their relationships. Because when we act from the heart, we aren’t scaring each other or pranking our lover for the fun of it. Heart energy provides the most-high ethical actions. (Containment is learned, to which anyone can obtain.)
Pranking or scaring a loved one often just for the fun of it. Or worst, for the video of it… This becomes karmic. And when we work through these karmic discords, we no longer need to go through such heart-breaks, and instead we are free to embrace the wisdom of such actions like Containment, without the fear of rejection. Forgiving such actions clears the karma field, and removes the response of discord. Hence creating clear sky’s for containment.
My blessings to you…
What Most Women Haven’t Learned About Themselves
May 20, 2025
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Women fall in love with the Right man, then have good sex with THAT connection. Women have to “be in love” for good sex to happen.
Men have sex, then find connection from that “right” experience; men seek out the Right woman through the sexual experience.
This is where men and women are opposites.
Women thinking they too can be like men by having high body counts, will fiercely crash and burn. Until they recognize how to NOT cross those emotional boundaries about themselves.
When women have sex for the sake of sex, and NOT for the “Right Connection“. Then she has crossed an emotional boundary, and feelings are not Only hurt. There is a war that is started from her non-responsible reaction, in blaming the man for her hurt feelings. Instead. From her lack of knowing herself, and learning to NOT cross her own emotional boundaries. Will she have a far better emotional outcome. AND the men she encounters will feel safe to trust her again.
Women are going through this immense growing pain. Something I believe will last at least 20 years, and from ALL ages.
Women who get hurt by men will often, and subconsciously remove from men what they hold dear. And consciously or unconsciously she sees this as his financial enterprise, and “that“ is done by emasculating him. It’s when a woman emasculates a man consciously, does she become truly evil. (the accumulation of heavy 3rd density karma)
Emasculating a man removes him from his grounding rod; all that protecting and providing is very automatically subconscious in men, “that“ which keeps him morally grounded in all sorts of relationships. And this balance in men, is what women need from men over-all; that which gives her a strong inner sense of well-being. “So she shot herself in the foot !? LOL”
The women and men that are NOT responsive to all this are awake. They are also the ones NOT exposed to social media, feminism or porn. Which is a VERY small group at this point or… Have awoken from this matrix, and no longer controlled by this programing.
I am so grateful I am one.
When women feel hurt by men, they emasculate men.
When men are hurt by women, they dis-empower women by removing themselves from the equation.
To bring about change, we have to flip the script.
The one who feels hurt is the ONLY one who has the power for change. I have a method for healing. However there are many methods for healing, and it’s important for you to find the one that speaks to you. For when we remove the emotional charge of hurtful words and actions, we begin to experience the softer edges of life outside of the matrix.
My blessings to you…
Celebrating The I Am Presence
May 9, 2025
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I found this video to be VERY empowering when crystalizing oneself onto the higher timelines.
My love and blessings to you all…
https://www.youtube.com/embed/xvJTldhoNpg
The Passing of a Friend
April 27, 2025
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Kent was someone I knew for about 10 years starting at the last 2 years of high school. He was 2 years older than I, yet just as profound as anyone in our little group. My last year of high school was in ’82, and I moved west to Montana in the spring of ’90.
He was tall and broad. Living in the North woods of New Hampshire.
Our friendship was subtle until it wasn’t, then it was rich. Where we went that extra step to be sure the other was okay. He would pull me out of my books, and include me in activities.
As far as the rest of our friends would know, our deep connection was expressed as a secret. Both of us are very heterosexual. Brother to brother, in this life as the last.
I will not forget the time he asked me to go to Boston with him, because he promised to deliver other friends to the airport. And all because he knew I had been there many times before. We got there easily enough, it was our return trip that went sideways. Kent got into a small fender-bender with a priest, of all people. The car became un-useable, and it was on a Sunday. I called mom and got the address of friends in town, then jumped on the subway.
Now Kent had never been outside of his county, and the subway in the BIG city was brand new to this naive, quiet, tender giant. We’re standing there on the subway. He’s got a death-grip on the back of my shirt, and I’m reading the map posted on the wall. He does not let go of me until we’re knocking on Dougie’s door. The next day we take the bus home, and a week later we came back with other friends to fix, and collect his car.
When I moved west, we started to loose touch. 20 some odd years later, I’m on Facebook, and get a notice that Kent is dying of cancer. So I give him a call. It was good to catch up. However, he was pretty angry with God at that point, so I backed away from that topic. I did however, reassure him that when the time came, “this was not his first rodeo… He would know what to do, and where to go”. And “brother to brother, I love you”.
The first time Kent came to me was close to the end of that first week after his passing.
He was SO Happy to find me, and SO excited in this new environment (Heaven) that he found himself in. “You have got to see this”!!! He proclaimed. Looking at the high vibrational colors (for there are colors in Heaven that we cannot see here on Earth), and the high frequency “new-ness” of life in every twig, every pebble.
At one point I said, “This is as far as I can go, I have unfinished business over here, and I must return”. He nodded in agreement. And as I watched him go, he was all-of-a-sudden absorbing everything here-there, and everywhere all at once.
About a few weeks later: he came to me again.
This time I found myself standing just outside of a greenhouse, with the door open, and Kent coming out covered in rich dark soil. Holding a small plant. The roots entangling his fingers of both hands, then wrapping around his arms all the way up to his elbows… In absolute amazement, and need to share with me, the life and communication he was having with this plant. Then looking out across the land at all the other plants with this same communication of creation of life with each other. I kept nodding, and saying “yes, it IS amazing”. While seeing the truth of his experience.
His appearance was becoming less human, and more Spirit; bright, enthusiastic… Not at all like the man I knew on earth. This was Kent in his true authentic God-self.
About 3 or 4 months later: I found myself standing on top of a treeless hill at dusk. Kent traveled across the galaxy at well over light speed to find me, and when he found me standing there he proclaimed “are you coming”??? With this great need for me to follow him. (Kent had chosen a planet for his next life, far on the other side of this galaxy. With a life span of 400 years; a long time to process all that he is.) I said “not just yet, I have work to finish here. We will meet again, and we will recognize this flair; this amazing friendship and connection we share”. And with that off he went.
With blessings…
Notes…
What I’ve been shown as to the death process, and how Heaven presents itself:
* There is no “light at the end of a tunnel”, and instead it’s a black void; a moment to realize the situation has changed, and a reintroduction with one’s spirit guide.
* Then finding oneself in The Reviewing Room. In front of a screen, seeing all the actions that was in alignment with God, and all that was not. As in the neglect of one’s self, and or the neglect of others. Without ego we have a GREAT need to fix this back into the alignment with The Loving God. Hence the action of reincarnation; the opportunity to correct the discord.
* Heaven or Summer-land is an environment that provides the experience of Creation; What’s it like to be a stone in a stream, a animal or to be weather, and or how to be magical change or… And in Kent’s situation, he was not only in amazement of the communication between plants, yet more importantly the communication between plants and people.
* We choose all the chief functions of one’s next life:
Who are the parents, and what is it about them that is needed to heal, and come into better alignment with God’s Grace; mend or complement one’s personality to be.
Key experiences that promote the growth and expansion through lessons.
It’s amazing how much is predesigned… That which is an experience that cannot be avoided.
Moving through the ranks from the never ending story; one dedicated motion into frequency and grace.
The Thinning of the Veil
March 19, 2025
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The thinning of the veil between the spiritual world, and the physical world is nearly non-existent. And because of this EVERYTHING spoken is manifesting.
So, how can we talk about negative things without it manifesting?
This is how it’s done:
Surround yourself, and the other person with the belt (or tall tube) of white light.. Like 6 to 10 feet from the floor-up. “I call in the electric belt of protection”, surrounding yourself and the other person.
Then call in the Violet Consuming Flame, to form a circle around you, with the intention of every negative spoken word, that will be transmuted instantly into light.
This needs to be done every time you feel the need to express in a negative way. As a means to continue without consequences.
My blessings to you…
Alchemist of the Healer
December 2, 2024
Deep Waters, Reflections Life Affirming, Moral grounding, Spiritual Wisdom, spirituality Leave a comment
The Sacred Masculine or the Sacred Feminine is a layer of consciousness that is the alchemist of healing. For men it’s the act of being gentle; physically gentle, emotionally gentle, spiritually gentle… This application grants the individual what may seem as super powers. Coming from a man who has the ability or strength to hurt on many levels, and because he can he chooses the strength NOT too. By choosing a Love response over the Fearful reaction, he’s discovered a super-power; the alchemist of the healer.
And for the feminine it’s through the act of nurturing; the healing of nurturing, the fulfillment of emotional nurturing, nurturing that provides movement in any person either up close or from afar…
When a person looks carefully through all applications along this path, then one begins to awaken to spiritual wisdom; the action of higher knowledge, creating the atmosphere of higher living; higher vibrational experience. It’s when this knowledge becomes automatic does it become spiritual wisdom; as in tools in your toolbox.
This personal direction enhances all personal relationships many times over. “Life affirming to your beloved”. As much as one receives from this, comes directly from how much one puts into this.
Social media is the Deep State Cobol’s playground for reprogramming people into small minds. Everything to do with social media removes this moral grounding. So if you want to take the holistic path? Then it’s time to turn off that screened in world or at least tone it down too “that” which serves. It is that simple. Social media, modern feminism, and porn are the 3 that completely remove moral grounding, and all it takes is the flip of that switch; choosing that higher vibrational experience; the Right thing over that easy thing, and awakening that spiritual wisdom that is the sculptured landscape, and revealing the unique you.
My love and blessings to you…
PS. The more that you’re in alignment with your light (your design; your personal purpose), the stronger your integrity is, and the less you can be controlled.