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Poop!~

Not sure if this counts as an overshare but we just discovered how to use an infant suppository! Yey!

Anyway, Mira (baby niece) has been trying to poop for two days until yesterday and she is unable to. Her poop would just get stuck in her butt, like peeking out but never coming out, and she would cry like she's being tortured. My dad gave Sora some suppositories to use but we have no idea how to use it because nephew didn't have problems pooping when he was a baby. The first time Sora did it, she put just a little bit in (because we didn't know how much we should use), left it there, put Mira's diaper on and then saw the suppository on her diaper with no poop. It didn't work so last night was again the torturous cries of Mira because she can't poop properly.

Again, I googled how to use an infant suppository and apparently we were supposed to put in as much of the suppository in until it stops going in (Sora ended up pushing like an inch and a half of it in) and then hold her butt cheeks closed so that it doesn't come out again. And then we were supposed to wait for ten minutes before it worked. So that's what we did, and just barely two minutes later, success! She pooped like three inches of hard clay and no more crying.

That was a relief. I do not want to hear torturous baby cries again.

Planning a Baptism

It was Sora's birthday on the 2nd actually. She didn't want to celebrate big so we just bought a cake, a Sans Rival one, and ate it at home. It was sooo good. The downside is now I am broke. I have less than $2 in my wallet but that's fine. I am choosing to believe that it will be fine mostly because there is no other choice.

Sora also suddenly decided that they were going to have their youngest kid, Mira, baptized on the 16th. That's in two weeks. We have no invitations, we have no idea where to find useful giveaways, and they have still not reserved a place in the church where the kid is going to be baptized. I do not know how some people live this way. I have to have everything planned in my life or I panic and everything crashes down but now we're in a rush to do things within two weeks that should be done in at least a month. Their budget isn't a lot either so we're going to have to tighten our belts, as they say, and find the cheapest but of quality things that we can find.

We've decided on mini rosaries as giveaways and I would make the invitations and thank you tags for the giveaways. Sora and her husband are looking for a cheap buffet place for the guests after the baptism. Since Sora is stuck at home taking care of two kids, one is in elementary but he goes home during lunch to eat so she has to take care of him too and the other is 6 months old, and her husband works in a very unflexible schedule, then I'm going to have to scour the market for where I could find mini rosaries. Online isn't an option because the stores that we found that sells really cheap don't do COD and we prefer COD to prevent scams and such especially since this is a rush situation.



Sora has eleven people on her list as the godparents of Mira. Eleven. That's just her list, her husband's list would be different. And I thought the eight godparents of her first born was already a lot. I think in other countries there are only usually just two people for godparents but in this country, you hoard them because they tend to disappear over time. I had six when I was baptized and I only remember and am in contact with only one now. I guess that means people don't take being a godparent very seriously here? Idk. I also don't know how they're going to find a buffet that could feed that many godparents and relatives. Sora's husband has a lot of siblings and they would all, most probably, come.



I feel bad that I can't contribute financially to this event. But it's my nephew's 8th birthday too on the 18th and I promised him a long time ago to take him to this play park at the mall where it really costs a lot for his birthday (parks are rare in this province, rice fields are abundant). I also have that thing about the house and the checking account. I am also not sure when I would be receiving the money to open the account so it's causing some anxiety.

Getting back into Journaling, maybe.

Today was a little stressful to say the least. I just found out that in order to open a new checking account with pretty much all the banks, I have to have an existing account with them for at least six months before they can "consider" giving me a checking account. Dammit, that means i have to go open an account where the housing development company said I should open it. I suppose it's for the best. At least I don't have to worry about the my account application being denied since it's pretty much an auto-grant thing.

But now, I have to go to Angeles City, the next town, just to get the endorsement letter from their main office and then find where the bank is. But the fun doesn't stop there, oh no, before I actually open the account, I still have to find the money to put in it. Thank God for networking. My sister, Sora, knows someone who can lend us money for the opening of the account and the initial monthly payment.

I suppose it's going to be okay. I still have to wake up early tomorrow though. I'm so sleepy but I still need to wake up in four hours to work.

xoxo Patchouli
I've started to write again. I'm trying to finish the stories ive made ten years ago. It was for my friends, it is still for my friends, only ive lost the urge to write over the years. I hope i finish these this time..

Drama

When will the day come that my sister and her husband would not fight over some stupid facebook comment for twenty four hours? See, I told her she didn't have to get married, but did she listen to me? Noooooo~

Beginning of the looong weekend

I'm sick with the cold and I'm bored out of my mind. Of all the days PLDT could break down, it decided to do it on November 1st when it knew everyone who isn't at the cemetery is at home trying to connect to the internet. *sigh*

Since i'm home anyway, i must try to write.

New obsession~

My head's full of Jang Geun Suk right now, I can't even.. but I think It's starting to dissipate coz he's starting to weird me out.



Oh and I found The disappearance of Haruhi Suzumiya in youtube, wheeeeee~!

Also, I want that book, Shit Girls Say.

new fandom

does jang geun suk really have no livejournal fan group or am i just really horrible at looking? anyone out there who knows if there is, please point the way,..

Ju-on?

I don't see ghosts. That is a very well known fact. But lately...

About a month ago, I saw someone go up the stairs. Well, actually, I saw someone's legs as they were going up the stairs. Our stairs go about 7 steps halfway and then turns at a 90 degree angle for another six steps to the second floor. It was at the turn that I saw the legs. I thought it was my oldest younger sister, Friday but when I asked my youngest sister, Kitty, she said Friday hadn't come home yet.

Since then I've seen people pass by, go up or go down the stairs through the corner of my eye.

What surprised me was when my dad asked me if I'd been seeing "things" around the house. When I told him I'd been seeing things around the stairs, he told me that that's where he'd been seeing things too.

It only started when Friday came back. Come to think of it, we started getting horrible luck about money when she came.

I wonder if Friday bought back something with her.

Positivity

Today I am happy because none of us own a gun in my house otherwise I think I would've killed myself already.

My dad complains that he doesn't have money but he refuses to go to work and earn some. One of my younger sisters says she's going out to apply for a job but goes on dates instead. I wonder how she bought a new celphone when she doesn't have a job.

Anyway, to keep myself busy I've decided to advertise again for a penpal. I got an email one so I'm trying very hard to be friendly and to be interesting and stuff although I think I'm trying too hard again.

And so, the new Arashi communities also scan the contents of the potential members' LJ blog to see if they're active. I've got 23 posts on this one and I've been a member of LJ since 2008, since I got hooked on Arashi. 

I am so going to be rejected.