Category: Empathy

A Much-Needed Feel-Good Story…

Photo by Anna Tarazevich on Pexels.com In this time of frequently tumultuous and too-often horrific news, it's been a rough week. So I thought I'd offer a story of simple human-to-human kindness. My friend showed me a photo of her face after a recent fall. It was brutal: her normally delicate features were marred by … Continue reading A Much-Needed Feel-Good Story… →

How to Help Ukraine–and Why It’s NOT a Lost Cause…

Photo by Mathias Reding on Pexels.com 1. Make a contribution... To President Zelenskyy's state fund: https://u24.gov.ua/ Consider this comment forwarded by Jessica Craven: [I]f everyone who voted for Kamala Harris gave $10, we’d raise 750M. It’s a good way to boost democracy and stick it to Trump and Vance. Or to one of the organizations … Continue reading How to Help Ukraine–and Why It’s NOT a Lost Cause… →

On Cruelty vs Empathy and Kindness…

https://twitter.com/tribelaw/status/1771190402604818651?s=51&t=nVuexwyjz5lAYgTHGa2APw Please watch this two-minute snippet from Illinois Governor JB Pritzker's June, 2023 commencement address to the graduating class of Northwestern University. There are many distinctions to be made between the two men running for president this year. The contrast between cruelty versus empathy and kindness strikes me as one of the most basic and … Continue reading On Cruelty vs Empathy and Kindness… →

This Is What It’s Sometimes Like to Remain on Twitter…

https://twitter.com/buitengebieden/status/1708577083541049389?s=51&t=nVuexwyjz5lAYgTHGa2APw It feels borderline precarious, but I’m still side-by-side (virtually) with some remarkable folks I’d never otherwise meet. I need to maintain my sense of balance, but it’s often fun, as shown above. There’s no doubt it contains a slippery slope, but please read below for more of why I’m hangin' on—or in. I continue … Continue reading This Is What It’s Sometimes Like to Remain on Twitter… →

Winning Over White Supremacists–One Hater at a Time

I am writing this piece with images of the January 6th insurrection at the Capitol still very fresh in my mind. It is a huge stretch to think of those brutal, sadistic, remorseless thugs and imagine summoning an iota of compassion for them. But others of their ilk--and many psychologists and researchers--say that’s precisely what’s needed. They call themselves the “formers”: former Klansman, neo-Nazis, or generic white supremacists or other racial extremists who are now devoted to guiding those who’d followed similar paths to come to a better life.

My Friend Responds to “You Broke It; You Fix It!”

I noted in my previous post that the title I used above was a response from my friend, an African American woman, to my efforts last year to encourage dialogue on race in America.

She sent me her reactions to the events described in Wednesday's post (which she liked) via email, and I feel her words are yet another important message for us white folks to hear. We hear them, but do we really hear them?

Can we feel them? Can we picture ourselves in the situations she describes? And how will--or will--any of this affect our actions going forward?

Can we transform the outrage we feel now to effect changes, staying the course, because it won't be quick or easy?

Here's my friend's response:

Don’t You Think the World Could Use a Little Anger Management? Here’s a Way That Just May Help…

Well, sure: the holiday season is, ironically, a time of stress. But we know there are high levels of anxiety that have preceded this supposedly joyous time and will surely follow us into the New Year/decade. 

I don’t have to itemize the list: it’s as close as your newspaper or electronic device. All sorts of problems and calamities—natural and manmade—have been occurring just about everywhere.

We can’t change the world, but we do have some control over how we view the world and our place in it. And if enough of us exercise that control, we can make a difference.