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Dec 19, 2025
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'Why do we have so much to fear?'
MAHA and the mental load
Dec 5, 2025
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Don't Yuck my Yay
"Work" doesn't always mean "bad"
Nov 21, 2025
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Just how "invisible" is invisible labor?
Nov 7, 2025
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He needs to be rattled by her clarity
Jul 25, 2025
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On rocks and hard places
Jan 16, 2025
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"It's not that I can't do it...it's that I don't have to"
Oct 3, 2025
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Research diary #1
Nov 3, 2023
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What happens to the mental load after divorce?
Oct 24, 2025
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What happens to the mental load after divorce?
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The Mental Load and Valuing Care Work with Allison Daminger
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Oct 17, 2025
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Dividing labor, multiplying gratitude?
Women hate asking; men hate guessing
Oct 10, 2025
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"It's not that I can't do it...it's that I don't have to"
On male privilege, at-home fatherhood, and where change comes from
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Setting the next generation up for something better
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The Group, the breast, and the blame
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