I liked this one!
I hadn’t heard of Alli Temple before this book was picked for my book club, but apparently she’s quite prolific with Only Mostly Dead being her 16th book! How this book stacks up to the rest, I can’t say, but it seems sort of unique among her lineup in its premise and setting. Given my sort of ongoing interest in personification of the concept of Death, my interest was piqued there as well.
On first impression, reading the back cover blurb, it sort of feels like it should be something of a popcorn read, but we’re almost immediately dissuaded that things will be completely shallow with an early trigger warning:
“This is a book about death. I tried to make it funny, people are still going to die. For more details, visit the Only Mostly Dead content warnings page.”
Said content warnings page specifies further some of the issues at play within the book, namely that the main character, Ember Munro, is a terminal cancer patient who has chosen medical assistance in dying, which is legal in Canada where this book is set.
Alright . . . interesting.
In most states within the U.S., this kind of care is unavailable, with only ten states and the District of Columbia (Washington D.C.) allowing the procedure. I can’t say I’m really up on the debate, but I would assume that depending on where you go, even the idea is probably very controversial.
But Only Mostly Dead doesn’t seem to engage in this debate much, simply accepting it from the start, and never questioning it. I heard a line recently (on Tik Tok of all places), talking about normalizing certain behaviors, something along the lines of: Present something as if it’s unquestionable and most people won’t question it.
Only Mostly Dead kind of does this with a few topics which I felt had great potential for depth and debate, but ultimately just get a sort of passing acknowledgement on the way to the next laugh. At first this seemed a bit unfulfilling, but perhaps it was a deft move on the author’s part. In these “unpresidented” times (I’m never gonna drop that hahah) in which every new post in our feed headlines a loss of rights (or hope, or sanity), it makes sense that audiences (and authors) might be drawn to lighter fare.
Also, Temple lists Only Mostly Dead as part of a kind of set of lgbtq+ books that she’s written (I suppose to distinguish it from her fiction with heterosexual relationships). From my perspective (as a white male), the representation within the book seemed all well and good, although I did feel that there was some awkwardness around pronouns which could have come across a little smoother.
Mostly this had to do with the love interest, Kelly, who is a reaper and can shift their appearance to better suit the soul they are attempting to shepherd into the afterlife. On any given day they can be any given gender. Ember seems to struggle with this, at times musing whether she should call Kelly him or her or them. And it keeps coming up, with Ember often uncertain whether or not she “got it right”. Unfortunately it felt more like uncertainty on the author’s part, and I found myself hoping Ember would just pick a pronoun and commit. Perhaps this effect was intended all along but it didn’t feel that way as written.
The last sort of “major topic” the book draws attention to is Ember’s experience with a terminal illness. I felt it was sort of cleverly done in that her cancer is not dwelt upon and mostly moved past in the first chapter, but due to some plot shenanigans which I won’t spoil, she essentially has another terminal illness in the afterlife. Her approach is a bit different the second time around. I’m not sure what messaging to take from this, but it seems significant.
This review is starting to feel a bit long so I’ll just finish up by saying that while this book is the type of book in which all the stuff I described above occurs, it is also the type of book in which the following paragraph occurs:
“More silence. Minerva looks like she’s just about to break a stick in half using only the force of her ass cheeks.” pg 291.
Which is to say that it is a book with humor and wit too. A book with characters which are just fun to be around, and a book which I’ve apparently felt the need to write nearly a thousand words about.
So, Give ‘Only Mostly Dead‘ a Read?
Yea. It’s a pretty good book, which touches on some interesting and potentially deep topics, but I felt the reader is never actually asked to engage or form an opinion on them one way or another. Perhaps that’s ok given . . . the state of things.
In terms of personifying death? Reapers kinda feel more like angels with a kind of modern twist. The bureaucratic, and ultimately overwhelmed, representation of the afterlife feels particularly modern. An interesting tangent in the ongoing convo of personifying death, but ultimately not one that intersects in any real way.
Only Mostly Dead does excel in its characters and wit. If I had to give a final verdict, I’d say I enjoyed this book a lot, but don’t particularly feel the need to read the sequel or rush to get any of Temple’s other books. Though if one just falls in my lap again for book club, that would suit me just fine.
That’s all I have for you this week! Has anyone read this book before? What are your thoughts? Looking forward to talking about this one!
Until next time!









