The Odin (@TheOdin

The Odin

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The Odin

@TheOdin_II

Father. Observer. Teacher. Stoic. Big on respect. Relationship advice & Matchmaking, DM @TheOdin__II (Backup).

England

Joined January 2021

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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Apr 7
Nothing pulls my attention more than how people treat each other. Not just in marriage, but in every space where two people meet. Friends. Family. Work. Strangers. The way we speak, the way we show respect, the way we handle power, emotions, and conflict. That’s where real life
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Jul 15, 2025
See, when I keep telling people that there’s nothing anyone can do to truly hurt me anymore, they think I’m just blabbing. But they don’t know what I’ve been through. I was remanded in prison for a whole week. Not because I did anything wrong, but because the woman I loved, the
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Oct 29, 2025
The reason this girl is advertising her chinchin like this is because it sells faster that way. If she had just posted the chinchin plainly, she wouldn’t be getting half the attention she’s getting now. Right now, her DMs are probably full, mostly from men who will buy just to
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Nov 2, 2024
I always feel reluctant to talk about my failed marriage so that people won’t assume I’m still nursing any wound that wasn’t there. But for the sake of people who would learn from my past and to validate John Doe’s teaching, it’s worth sharing. When I found out my ex-wife was
Àgbà John Doe
@jon_d_doe
Nov 2, 2024
Na man wey no dey fit provide fully for house, dey beg him wife to stay. I feed you. I cloth you. I house you. I pay the bills in the home. I feed my children and pay their bills. And you have the audacity to threaten me that you'll leave? God punish your mama. End.
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Jun 4, 2025
Don’t use this for cheating. Use it to protect your dealings. 🤷‍♂️
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Feb 12, 2025
I bagged MSc. International Business, University of Plymouth, United Kingdom. I’m happy. 🤷‍♂️
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Dec 20, 2023
I share custody of two kids with my ex-wife. Unfortunately, she set me up during a visit to see the kids (confirmed by a judge at the magistrate court), leading to unnecessary restrictions. The situation escalated, involving the police, and I was remanded, later attending court
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Jul 15, 2025
Replying to @TheOdin_II
What matters most to me now are my kids. They’re my motivation. They remind me every day that even after a storm, something good can still grow. So to every man reading this, if you’re going through hell in your marriage or you’re already divorced, listen carefully: Let the
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Nov 2, 2024
Replying to @TheOdin_II
I remember when we were dating, sometimes she’d threaten to break up, and I’d beg her back. Maybe she thought it was business as usual. But a boy grew up into a man, and that’s me now. Don’t ever think people would change in marriage the behaviour they had exhibited while
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Nov 2, 2024
Replying to @TheOdin_II
But that’s how I think a man should handle things—I don’t believe in begging anyone to stay in my life. This isn’t about being “the prize” as a man. It’s about masculinity. Whether my ex-wife regrets leaving or not isn’t my concern, and it never has been. I’m simply not the
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Apr 22, 2025
There’s this my colleague. She’s not Nigerian, but from another African country. Back home, she and her husband had big dreams of relocating to the UK. In fact, the dream was primarily hers. But they didn’t have enough money, so they agreed the husband would go first, settle,
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Sep 9, 2024
Being in the UK, I’ve noticed more Nigerian women reporting their Nigerian husbands to the Metropolitan Police. Agba, I think extended families back home need to start calling their married female children to order. While abuse should never be ignored, many of these reports
Àgbà John Doe
@jon_d_doe
Sep 9, 2024
Yesterday, I reposted a video of the London met police, appealing to Nigerian women to stop reporting their husbands. This woman in the video is also appealing to Nigerian women. Isn't it shameful? Some of you una too do ooo. End.
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Jul 15, 2025
Replying to @TheOdin_II
But let me be clear, I will never forget. She thought she taught me a lesson… and yes, she did. She taught me that life won’t always hit from the front. Sometimes the real punch comes from the one holding your hand. But even then, you have to be tough. You have to survive.
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The Odin
@TheOdin_II
Aug 15, 2025
I have a confession to make. Some time ago, there was a girl who was dating a friend of mine, well, a friend of a friend. This guy had told my friend that he had broken up with her but suspected that she had been cheating while they were together. He said he had spent so much
Àgbà John Doe
@jon_d_doe
Aug 15, 2025
Your friend rise your babe come hotel to knack am, you go there to see them with your two korokoro eyes. "I love this girl so much, I don't know what to do". Na your friend e pain me for sha. E for first give am 2 rounds before him tell you to come meet them for hotel. End.
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