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A Productive Conversation | PM Talks S3E1: Honesty

We talk about honesty not as a moral stance, but as a practical one—especially when it comes to time, commitments, and the stories we tell ourselves about why things don’t happen. January has a way of inviting big intentions, and this discussion is a timely reminder that clarity begins with truth.

My regular podcast guest stint with Mike Vardy is now posted. If you listen to any of them, listen to this one. Because the worst lies you regularly tell are likely to yourself.

Get to know the 2×2 Matrix

The 2×2 matrix, two axes (one vertical and one horizontal) creating four quadrants, is the most straightforward and most powerful tool for decision-making and prioritization.

Update on Lucio: He has a wife who is 5 months pregnant at home. She was contacted about what happened. Immigrant rights groups/attorneys have his info. He’s likely already been disappeared into the detention system or deported. Who knows if he’ll see his child born… So angering and heartbreaking.

If in my last post one were to replace the word “ICE” with “SS” and an obviously Jewish name with an obviously Latino one and imagined him being put on a train instead of a plane…

There is no difference.

Think on that.

We all imagined what we would have done if we lived there then.

We live there now.

I watched a young man get snatched by ICE outside yoga this morning. I filmed the whole thing.

His name is Lucio Fabian Navos Nietos.

I know this because they just left his passport and all other identification in his car. And left his car.

They don’t care who he is. They will deport him anyway.

My word(s) for 2026

Adjust and Adapt

This year will bring much change to my life. So much of my time revolts around household support and Beatrix logistics. Once she’s off to college my life will need to become much different. Just one example of how I will need to be guided by these words.