{"id":27163,"date":"2021-04-07T04:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-07T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/?p=27163"},"modified":"2022-08-05T04:56:00","modified_gmt":"2022-08-05T08:56:00","slug":"responsible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Habits to Be a More Responsible Person"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As kids, many of us had a tendency to associate being responsible with being grown-up.&nbsp; In fact, the two went hand in hand, as far as I was concerned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People like our parents, grandparents, teachers\u2026 <em>they<\/em> were responsible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They had jobs, cars, homes. They took care of us.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But when I was in high school, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/adulting-101\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37196\">concept of <\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/adulting-101\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37197\">adulting<\/a> started to creep in\u2026 take shape and become somewhat real to me.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In my parents\u2019 home, certain things were expected of me once I turned 16. Things like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-ugb-icon-list ugb-icon-list ugb-d1d7618 ugb-icon-list--v2 ugb-main-block\"><style>.ugb-d1d7618 li::before{background-image:url('data:image\/svg+xml;base64,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')}.ugb-d1d7618.ugb-icon-list ul{columns:1}<\/style><div class=\"ugb-inner-block\"><div class=\"ugb-block-content\"><ul><li>Helping out more around the house<\/li><li>Staying home alone (or babysitting my brother)<\/li><li>Holding down a part-time job<\/li><li>Saving and spending my own money for the things I wanted<\/li><li>Practicing good hygiene<\/li><li>Maintaining good grades<\/li><li>Staying active<\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>While there were times when I thought my parents were being unfair or unrealistic in their expectations, I later realized they were simply teaching me how to <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/take-responsibility\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37198\">be a responsible person<\/a><\/strong>\u2026 and that being responsible isn\u2019t just for adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsibility builds character. It will define how people see you, as well as how you handle everyday situations.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsible people tend to earn the respect of others. They will work hard for what they want and are rarely a disappointment to their family, friends, employers or&nbsp; colleagues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They are successful in life, both personally and professionally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They are someone to be counted on\u2026 and you can be too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this article, I will outline 9 habits that are guaranteed to help you be more responsible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/#1_Be_Accountable_For_Yourself\" >1.&nbsp;Be Accountable For Yourself<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/#2_Be_Punctual\" >2.&nbsp;Be Punctual<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/#3_Get_Organized\" >3.&nbsp;Get Organized<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/#4_Quit_Procrastinating\" >4.&nbsp;Quit Procrastinating<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/#5_Keep_Your_Emotions_In_Check\" >5.&nbsp;Keep Your Emotions In Check<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/#6_Stop_Whining\" >6.&nbsp;Stop Whining<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/#7_Be_Willing_To_Work_To_Earn_Someones_Trust\" >7. Be Willing To Work To Earn Someone\u2019s Trust<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/#8_Be_Dependable_Consistent\" >8. Be Dependable (Consistent)<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/#9_Exercise_Self-Discipline\" >9. Exercise Self-Discipline<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/#Final_Thoughts_On_Being_A_More_Responsible_Person\" >Final Thoughts On Being A More Responsible Person<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-be-accountable-for-yourself\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Be_Accountable_For_Yourself\"><\/span>1.&nbsp;Be Accountable For Yourself<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The first, and most basic, step you can take when trying to be a responsible person is to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/personal-accountability\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37199\">be accountable for yourself<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This means owning your mistakes and admitting when you are wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It also means stop blaming others for your shortcomings or inability to get what you want. (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/accountability-responsibility\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37200\">Read about the differences between accountability vs responsibility.<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Say, for instance, you and your co-worker are up for the same promotion. She stays late every night for weeks to get ahead\u2026 but you choose to leave on-time to get to spin class three days a week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When your boss decides to give your colleague the raise, whose fault is it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You didn't lose out because they were more qualified. You lost out because you chose not to&nbsp; make the opportunity a priority. Spin class was more important.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Admit it and move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t make excuses!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsible people also tend to only commit to what they know they can do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They assess and manage expectations\u2026 and learn to recognize their own limitations.&nbsp; They are not afraid to say \u201cno\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You will earn more respect from others if you don\u2019t bite off more than you can chew. Trust me.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is nothing worse than committing to something you can\u2019t finish and leaving other people to pick up the slack. It breeds disappointment and that is a hard thing to get past.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-be-punctual\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Be_Punctual\"><\/span>2.&nbsp;Be Punctual<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I can\u2019t stand when people are late.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I also hate being late.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are taught the importance of being on time from a young age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Setting alarms to wake up for school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The bell that rings when it\u2019s time to get to class.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your coach making you do extra laps for being late to practice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/be-punctual\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37201\">Learning to be punctual<\/a> is a big part of being responsible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>There is honestly no good reason to be late to work, a doctor appointment or social engagement\u2026 barring an unforeseen train delay or accident on the highway. In which case, a responsible person would call.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But even circumstances like these could sometimes be prevented just by leaving the house a bit earlier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what if you\u2019re early? You can stop for a cup or coffee or sit on a park bench for a while to clear your head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They say the early bird catches the worm\u2026 and it\u2019s so true.&nbsp; Not feeling rushed is a great way to relieve stress and will likely make you more productive in the end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-get-organized\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Get_Organized\"><\/span>3.&nbsp;Get Organized<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsible people are typically organized.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They are not necessarily \u201cType A\u201d&#8230; but definitely have their act together when it comes to planning and scheduling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being organized comes more naturally for some than others. For some people, it\u2019s been ingrained in them since college\u2026 maybe even earlier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/goal-planners\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37202\">day planner<\/a> is a great way to stay on point with tasks&#8230; be it daily, weekly or monthly. Even longer term project planning can be broken down in a planner.&nbsp; It can also be color coded for social versus work obligations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This traditional method is great for visual minded people. You can also utilize a wall calendar or white board to help you stay organized.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the more tech savvy person, there are a plethora of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/family-calendar-apps\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37203\">calendar apps<\/a> available to help you stay ahead of the game. Some are free, others free to try.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can set alarms to remind you of upcoming tasks and often send emails or texts right from the calendar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the best part about these apps is you can typically share your calendar and schedule with family members or colleagues very easily, with seamless integration between all smart devices\u2026 keeping everybody in the know.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-quit-procrastinating\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Quit_Procrastinating\"><\/span>4.&nbsp;Quit Procrastinating<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Procrastination may just be your worst enemy when you are trying to be a responsible person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Life can be so hectic at times that it is only natural to want to put things off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In some instances, that is ok to do\u2026 but a responsible person accounts for those hiccups in their schedule.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;Don\u2019t save things for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/stop-procrastinating\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37204\">the last minute<\/a>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have a project that is due in three weeks, and you planned to work on it every weekday for 1 hour\u2026 it may be wise to allot yourself an extra hour or two a weekend, just in case.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This way, you won\u2019t fall behind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It may mean you\u2019ll have to take a pass on a hike with friends or going to a movie with your girlfriend, but things happen.&nbsp; They will understand if you have to reschedule, as long as you give ample warning and are honest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, procrastination also comes into play when you're making plans with other people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you need to change or cancel plans, barring an emergency, be sure to give advance notice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It really stinks when a friend bails on you last minute\u2026 especially if it\u2019s something they were looking forward to or counting on you for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-keep-your-emotions-in-check\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Keep_Your_Emotions_In_Check\"><\/span>5.&nbsp;Keep Your Emotions In Check<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to be responsible, you need to choose your words wisely and have a clear course of action\u2026 especially when you are seeking to resolve a conflict or improve a situation in some way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In order to do that, you need to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/emotional-self-care\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37205\">keep your emotions at bay<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you go into a meeting with your boss, feeling angry about being passed over for a promotion, you\u2019re likely going to lash out and say something you\u2019ll regret. Or worse, quit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re unhappy with certain aspects of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/questions-couples\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37206\">your romantic relationship<\/a>, the last thing you want to do is initiate a conversation when you\u2019re feeling emotional.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/woman-keep-emotions-check.jpg\" data-lasso-id=\"37207\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/woman-keep-emotions-check.jpg\" alt=\"how to be responsible for yourself | i am responsible person because | she is a responsible person\" class=\"wp-image-27165\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/woman-keep-emotions-check.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/woman-keep-emotions-check-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/woman-keep-emotions-check-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/woman-keep-emotions-check-65x49.jpg 65w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/woman-keep-emotions-check-220x165.jpg 220w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/woman-keep-emotions-check-133x100.jpg 133w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/woman-keep-emotions-check-358x269.jpg 358w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/woman-keep-emotions-check-533x400.jpg 533w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><sub>When you are seeking to resolve a conflict or improve a situation in some way, you need t<\/sub><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>This can lead to blaming\u2026 or else saying hurtful things to each other in the heat of the moment that you can\u2019t take back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever the scenario, a responsible person will often compose their thoughts before engaging in important discussions.&nbsp; Perhaps they\u2019ll even make a list\u2026 being sure to avoid words like \u201calways\u201d and \u201cnever\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You rarely see a responsible person lose their cool or become easily rattled\u2026 and this is why.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Understanding the value of keeping your composure and having patience is key if you want to be a responsible person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-stop-whining\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Stop_Whining\"><\/span>6.&nbsp;Stop Whining<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Along with a willingness to own their own mistakes, responsible people will not complain very often\u2026 because they understand that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/how-to-stop-being-negative\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37208\">complaining usually gets you nowhere<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While there are certain exceptions, such as letting a manager know about poor service in their restaurant&#8230; there is a time and a place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsible people won\u2019t whine about things being unfair or place unwarranted blame on others.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, they will reflect on why things happened the way they did&#8230; and try and figure out what, if anything, <em>they<\/em> could have done for things to turn out differently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsible people own the circumstances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They are always looking for ways to learn from their mistakes and improve upon them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These people are optimistic and often upbeat, rarely looking for scapegoats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-be-willing-to-work-to-earn-someone-s-trust\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Be_Willing_To_Work_To_Earn_Someones_Trust\"><\/span>7. Be Willing To Work To Earn Someone\u2019s Trust<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There is a saying\u2026 \u201cTrust is given, never earned.\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I would argue that there is a place for both when it comes to gaining someone\u2019s trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You see, there are people who blindly trust others because they want to\u2026 or simply have no good reason not to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many people will do this when it comes to romantic relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They start dating someone and have no reason other than to think they are a good person\u2026 worthy of their time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You start by meeting at restaurants, movies, bars. Eventually you invite them into your home for a meal\u2026 then wind up cohabiting and taking trips together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love is a leap of faith and, sometimes, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/build-trust\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37209\">so is trust<\/a>.&nbsp; We are willing to give it until it\u2019s broken.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person.jpg\" data-lasso-id=\"37210\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person-410x1024.jpg\" alt=\"how to make irresponsible person responsible | how to be responsible at home | responsible person habits\" class=\"wp-image-27188\" width=\"308\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person-410x1024.jpg 410w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person-120x300.jpg 120w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person-60x150.jpg 60w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person-26x65.jpg 26w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person-88x220.jpg 88w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person-40x100.jpg 40w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person-160x400.jpg 160w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person-180x450.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Be-a-More-Responsible-Person-204x510.jpg 204w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 308px) 100vw, 308px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Responsible people, however, often won\u2019t accept trust that isn\u2019t earned\u2026 especially when it comes to pleasing their parents or employers. (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/people-pleaser\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37211\">They are not people pleasers!<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Starting in their formative years, many tweens and teens are anxious to prove to their parents they can be a responsible person\u2026 meaning they can stay home alone, ride their bike to a friend\u2019s house, get a phone, extend their curfew. You name it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These kids will <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/chores-for-kids\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37212\">help out with chores<\/a> without being asked.&nbsp; They will do something nice for their parents or siblings\u2026 just because.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When responsible people enter the workplace, they will often feel the need to work hard for their boss\u2019 approval and trust.&nbsp; They are determined to let the higher-ups know they can be counted on to handle more responsibility.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsible people will never let themselves be overlooked for lack of trying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-be-dependable-consistent\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_Be_Dependable_Consistent\"><\/span>8. Be Dependable (Consistent)<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you were to ask almost anybody what they <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/good-workplace-habits\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37213\">look for in a colleague<\/a>\u2026 one of the top answers would be consistency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dependability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They are not looking for perfection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We all make mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsible people will make mistakes, just like everybody else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what sets them apart is their desire to be someone that others can count on&#8230; which means they will make things right in the end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A responsible person shows up when they\u2019re supposed to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They do what is expected of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Others are rarely surprised by their behavior because responsible people mean what they say and follow through with their promises\u2026 adhere to their commitments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being dependable means thinking about how your actions affect others and taking that into account.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-exercise-self-discipline\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_Exercise_Self-Discipline\"><\/span>9. Exercise Self-Discipline<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to be a responsible person, you\u2019ll need self-discipline.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are things you will need to do in order to be successful and fulfill your daily obligations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, your dream job may require you to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wake-up-5-am\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37214\">wake up earlier<\/a> than you\u2019re used to in order to be ontime\u2026 but you like your sleep.&nbsp; You also like staying up late to catch up on your favorite television shows.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, what\u2019s the bottom line?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want the job, you will need to find a way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You will need to say \u201cno\u201d to certain things and change some of your habits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll need to condition yourself to do whatever is necessary to get into a better routine\u2026 a routine that works, without making you miserable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This could be as simple as not allowing yourself to meet up with friends during the work week. Instead, go home and have a nice dinner\u2026 then start your shows earlier, so you are still in bed at a reasonable time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If exercise is important to you, but you don\u2019t see how the gym fits into your already crowded morning\u2026 why not <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/daily-workout-routine\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37215\">try an online workout<\/a> to save yourself time driving back and forth?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsible people know what they want&#8230; and will tweak their lifestyle to make it happen, if necessary.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They will eat a healthy, balanced diet. They will get enough sleep. They will make time for exercise. They will seek ways to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/growth-mindset\/\" data-lasso-id=\"37216\">sharpen their minds<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsible people are masters of the balancing act because they know that anything is possible if they want it bad enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acts of self-discipline are merely rungs on the ladder to success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-final-thoughts-on-being-a-more-responsible-person\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final_Thoughts_On_Being_A_More_Responsible_Person\"><\/span>Final Thoughts On Being A More Responsible Person<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Being responsible is more than a state of mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is more than the way others perceive us.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to be a responsible person, you must recognize that it is a commitment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A commitment to be accountable to both yourself and to others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is about being courteous and diligent\u2026 about standing strong in your convictions and always being willing to improve. To learn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Responsible people aren\u2019t ok with mediocrity. They strive to be the best version of themselves so that good things will happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if you don\u2019t consider yourself responsible now\u2026 it doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t still be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want it badly enough, and adhere to the advice I\u2019ve given you, it will happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Change starts from within and the possibilities are endless.<\/p>\n\n\n<p><b>Finally, if you want to take your goal-setting efforts to the next level, <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/sgm-content\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>check out this FREE printable worksheet and a step-by-step process that will help you set effective SMART goals<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide\" style=\"grid-template-columns:23% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9453 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-65x65.jpg 65w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-220x220.jpg 220w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-450x450.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-510x510.jpg 510w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"has-normal-font-size\"><strong>Nicole Krause<\/strong> has been writing both personally and professionally for over 20 years. She holds a dual B.A. in English and Film Studies. Her work has appeared in some of the country\u2019s top publications, major news outlets, online publications, and blogs. As a happily married (and extremely busy) mother of four\u2026 her articles primarily focus on parenting, marriage, family, finance, organization, and product reviews.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"how to be a responsible person | qualities of a responsible person | responsible person examples\" class=\"wp-image-32248\" width=\"342\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 342px) 100vw, 342px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As kids, many of us had a tendency to associate being responsible with being grown-up.&nbsp; In fact, the two went hand in hand, as far as I was concerned. People like our parents, grandparents, teachers\u2026 they were responsible. They had jobs, cars, homes. They took care of us.&nbsp; But when I was in high school, &#8230; <a title=\"9 Habits to Be a More Responsible Person\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/responsible\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about 9 Habits to Be a More Responsible Person\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":32249,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[52],"tags":[11446,12425],"class_list":["post-27163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-success-habits","tag-personal-development","tag-personality"],"featured_image_urls_v2":{"full":["https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible-person.jpg",1024,512,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible-person-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible-person-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible-person-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible-person.jpg",1024,512,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible-person.jpg",1024,512,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/habits-to-be-more-responsible-person.jpg",1024,512,false]},"post_excerpt_stackable_v2":"<p>As kids, many of us had a tendency to associate being responsible with being grown-up.&nbsp; In fact, the two went hand in hand, as far as I was concerned. 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