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	Started in the lifestyle as ‘YyesFfun’ back in 1978 as a ‘Rope Top’ (yes, I was the strange guy that carried around a bag of rope that a few people wanted to 'chat' with privately at times). Over the next few years ‘Dominant’ was the new title I used as my skill set expanded, and I began to understand the use and need for contracts. I started a stable with a regular set of silo play partners that continued until a problem occurred in 1988. I decided to semi-retire from the lifestyle at that point, entering into a mostly vanilla marriage and kept one submissive for BDSM play. The dynamics with the submissive eventually changed from Dominant/submissive to Master/slave, forming the House of YyesFfun, and that 25+ year M/s poly relationship is still ongoing. In 2006 I re-emerged into the lifestyle and added a new house member in 2012. The House of YyesFfun now consists of myself, YyesFfun - Master White Knight; slave YyesFfun - silky whispers, and contract owner of Switch YyesFfun - Bound Serenity. I do have a few regular play partners as well (e.g. jkindred and others). In 2010 I started the E3WM - Tarrant County, TX (Every 3 Weeks Munch) it has grown and grown over the short time and now has three leaders running the group. If you are looking for a dominant to help you in playing a submissive role and want someone that you can trust and respect limits, then drop me a request for a public meeting. If I find you to be real and deserving of my time, and that you understand your responsibility, I will arrange a meeting to see about the next step. If you would like to get any reference as to my talents just ask around. ~~~~~~ Public and forthright with my views, ready to backup my words and happy to correct my errors or retract my opinions when wrong, wishing that others would just do the same.

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I for got to journal about what happened on Firday.

I spent the day with slave silky whispers yesterday.

Well it is nice to see that there are some respectful and responsible people on this site. Not all on the site in this area are cyber players and fantasy world no shows. In other words, the couple that was looking for a more aggressive dominant top did show up, for a first session yesterday. It is so hard to get a clear understand of each parties play levels at times, until play happens. I was thinking that my level of first session play was going to be way to light for her, as a bottom. And it seemed hard to get them to understand why I do sessions that run 8-10 hours. It did seem that she was happy with doing harder play at times, she was not use to doing it for as long of a time. But after getting things going, everything fell into place well. We ended up doing 10 scenes? in the 8 hour session; with a nap, and a meal break. It seemed that she had a good time; we did not get to the full list of her approved 'first session' play list. But we did get to a few; Bare Hands, Body Harness (rope), Bondage, Breast Bondage, Butt Plugs, Collar & Leash, Dildos, Fellatio, Floggers (leather), Following Orders, Forced Nudity, Hair, High Heels, Masturbation, Oral Sex, Private Humiliation, Role Playing (various D/s roles), Spreader Bars, Vaginal Sex, and Vibrators. She did have trouble following direction at times, but that is understood for a first session. At the end of the session she was all ready talking about a second session, but she was still in ?sub drop? frame of mind. And I know better then to bank on a lot of what a bottom is saying at the end of a session. If one really understands Risk Aware Consent Kink (R.A.C.K.), then one does not try to set commitments when a party is not in a clear frame of mind. Trust, respect, and dependability are the only way I have found this lifestyle to work, and work for everyone.

I went down and visited slave silky whispers yesterday, slave is having a rough time and need a little hand holding.

I had a follow-up public meeting with the wife of the couple that is looking for a more aggressive dominant top. I think it was a very good outing, this time was hands on allowed and more one-on-one (her husband was out of town, but we all chatted on the phone during the outing). On this outing she got to have; body rubs, breast groping, breast play, breath on neck, control by direction, crotch rub, ear nibbling, hugging, kissing, nipple pulling, and seatbelt synching all in public; without an option for private room play. She had asked at the end of the first public meeting, for a non intercourse follow-up public meeting to occur, before an approved first session. We all three (husband-voyeur, wife-bottom, myself-dominant), are schedule to have a first session on Friday of this week. One never really knows until the event occurs, as to if it will or will not go off. Things seem to going well, but she pulled a ?get with the husband and set the start time, I just want to be told when to show up?(they both understand from the first meeting that a session is 8-10 hours with me, if not longer). In the past I have seen that as nervousness in the bottom, or confidence and not wanting to over think things. I think it is more on the confidence with this bottom, she has stated that she has her toy bags all ready loaded and ready to go, only trying to plan what clothes to take along to the hotel for the first session. I will be driving down to visit slave silky whispers this afternoon. slave is having a real hard time getting ready for the finial trial phase for the health issue. I am hoping that slave can hold it together until the surgery on the 10th. At that time we should have a better understanding as to if this treatment well work or not, if it does slave might have a finial surgery as soon as the 16th to install the device under the skin. But, if not then we will be forced to move on to one of three other lesser relief paths and two of them are not good at all.

Well, I had a busy day yesterday. I was able to get slave silky whispers doctor to commit to a next phased of testing for slave?s pain relief medical project. The next phase trial will require slave to have a surgery on Tuesday, February 10th, 2009 to implant two electrical lead on slave?s spin and attach a electrical device to mask the pain slave has coming from slave?s legs. This is a big step for slave, because slave with need to be down to a zero level of pain medicine before the doctor will do the surgery and she is still doing a heavy level of daily pain medicine. If this next phase of testing works well, the doctor is thinking of installing a permanent electrical device under the skin as soon as Monday, February 16th, 2009. I hope everyone is thinking good thoughts and prayers for slave during this time. If this does not work then slave will be limited to three options; continuing the pain medicine by mouth which is wrecking slave?s body and mind, having a device installed to deliver pain medicine directly to slave?s spin which is a little better on slave?s body and mind but has other issues, or the last thing being slave not with us any longer of which slave has asked to happen in the past when things did not go well and I think everyone would agree that this is not good thing. I was able to do a public meeting with a couple in which the wife is looking at doing some bottoming with a more aggressive dominant top and expand her BDSM experience. It was a very nice 2 hour meeting with them both. It ended well, but one never really knows if the feeling is the same on the other side. I sent a proposal over to them with an outline of a first session. So the ball is fully in their court and to if something is to come from the meeting. I then attend my first DFW Power Exchange group Karaoke event. I had joined this group several months ago, but had just not taken the time to attend an event until now. I had a great time and meet a few new people and saw a few I have seen at other area lifestyle community group events. I am going to try and get caught up on the past journal entries that I have been setting on. I hope to not get behind again in the future, but the reality does not look well for that. lol

Well it was the first time I was able to see slave silky whisper after getting back from the week long with the 10 in-law family members at Walt Disney World. I went down to take slave to the general family doctor for a check-up. In doing so slave seemed to be doing well and want to get out and do something. I told her that the lifestyles group was doing a Karaoke event, but it was all the way up in McKinney. I should have said no, but slave really does want to do things at time when slave can. So off to McKinney we went. Three and a half hours later we arrive, slave got to meet some folks in the group that slave had not met before. slave sang a few songs and everybody was blown away, with how good slave sings. Of course, I am setting around telling everyone that is what I told slave to do, was to sing very well, and slave does as slave is told. lol At about 11 PM slave just seemed to hit a wall, and slave was done. So it was out and into the car, for the three and a half hour drive home. Seven hours driving two and a half hours of singing, not sure it was worth it. But seeing a smile on slave face as slave is having fun, tips the scale. I spent the night with slave, and slave and I had some good time together the next day.

Had a good time at the New Year's Eve parties, I was not planning on attend a lifestyles party but it worked out that way. I was just going to stay home at fist, but then the wife wanted to attend her sister New Year?s Eve party out north east of Dallas, then the wife said I would have to drive myself, because she was going into the office and do some work and meet me at her sisters. So I had the day to myself and then recalled that the lifestyles party was at a hotel on the way to the sister-in-laws house. So I stopped in and said my ?Hello?s? to everyone, before driving the rest of the way to the sister-in-laws. One of the Bisexual Domme Switch?s in the room was setting on the floor on a futon pad with her bare foot sticking over the edge. I was standing next to the door chatting with everyone and people keep turning up, knocking at the door, so I would let them in. So I started messing with her foot with the shoe on my foot when people where not coming in, and I could tell the she was enjoying it. So after the next time I had let a group of people in the room, I bent down held her foot in place and rub the sole of her foot and watch her wiggle and squirm. It did not talk long the get the attention of the room, but by the it was over with and I know that she had at least one if not more orgasms. It was fun for the rest of the party she would not even look and me, and would push people between us if I got to close. She tried to enlist others to come to her aid, with a montra of ?poke the PP, bad Master White Knight, poke the PP? (If you visit my profile; you can see some of the aftermath from the party). She was able to get about five people to use the montra at time at the party. Had a good time with the in-laws and had a good midnight with all, but then I found out that the wife had made arrangements with the sister to spend the night and go to her office the next day to do work. It really would help if the wife would include someone in what is going on at times (no notice on wife working on New Year?s Eve day, staying the night at the sister, or working on New Year?s Day). vent vent vent So, I decided to stop on my way back home at the lifestyle party and see what everybody had or was up too. Everything seemed to be going well, I was even asked to top two bottoms (both singles; one male and one female) at the party. But, I had to decline do to the fact I really screwed up my arm and shoulder on Monday, December 29th, 2008 and I was in way to much pain to do much of anything. Then things went flat with the news of the death of King Snake while attending a different New Year?s Eve party in town. I stayed for a little while, but the pain in my arm was getting to me and I needed to rest so I headed out around 3 AM on the long drive home alone.

Twice, two times in a week that I have been down to collect slave silky whispers for a fun time this week. Yes, slave was feeling well enough to attend a small group of people for a post Christmas movie watching party. The event was hosted by a Dominant/Bottom couple that we know from a local lifestyle group. It was billed as a no play event because the couple had not hosted a party at their apartment and did not know how many people might fit and then allow play. It was nice we had 8 people attend; the host couple and slave and I, and four singles, which made 3 guys and 5 girls, with 4 tops and 4 bottoms. At one point, slave started not feeling well. It was nice of everyone that was concerned, the host both keep asking slave if slave would care to rest on the bed in the other room. It is hard enough for slave to attend event with the health issue, so when slave does attend she wants to be in the middle of the room with all the action. But, what slave really wanted to do was set on the floor with my cock in her mouth and rest and listen to the group. At one point I know slave need to lie down and had slave do so and I did with slave on the floor and watched the movies with the group. I had to wake slave up for slave medicines at 10 PM and slave stayed up until we left after 11 PM. I think this might be the last time I have slave out to an event until after the next phase of testing. It is going to be very hard on slave before it gets any better on the health issue.

I had a great time visiting slave silky whispers this week. I went down on Monday evening and stayed until Wednesday. We both need a good amount of alone time with each other. With all expected problems, with the upcoming next phase trials for addressing slave?s health issues. It was nice, at the times when slave would nap; I would have my cock in slave mouth. slave does give one of the best sleeping cock sucks around. slave did seem to have trouble with intercourse on this trip, but that was expected with the type of health issue slave is having, but slave still did slave?s best. So, most of are time was focused on breast torture and fun above the waist. We are still playing things by the ear as to attending a small house party on Friday, if slave is not up to it, I might attend stag.

I was to have had a public meeting, with a Female Submissive/Switch this afternoon. As expected, the party did not show up to the location. With some one just seems to know before one even shows up at the location. I just do not understand why people feel that they need to waist other persons time. I have a two strike rule on public meetings, if a meeting is not canceled more then 24 hours before the time, the party that fails to attend may reschedule the public meeting for a different time, but it is wholly up to the party that was the ?no show? to set it up with the other party. I can understand if a person gets cold feet or has an issue that comes up to prevent the meeting from occurring, and that is the reason I have the two strike rule. But at the same time, I do not keep dragging out and scheduling meeting after meeting in the hopes getting to meet a person. After all, I have all the playmate(s) that I need in life now, this is more about finding a person that could bring something different to the mix then what I all ready have. I have a similar issue with those that want to do session time on the first meeting, I do not do it. Now if I have spoken with a collared bottom that communicates that they are OK with take down session play and are OK with me addressing it with their owner. I am OK with that, if I still at least do the public meeting with the owner before the session is to take place. Come on folks, the whole point to a public meeting is not to play, but to see if the person is; real, nuts, or harmful and if there is chemistry or shared interest in doing a session. I have turned some away because I could tell there was not spark during the public meeting, may have had everything in the world together as to shared interest, but the spark was just not there. And the same goes for the shared interest, if the spark is there and the interest is different, I would much rather make a friend then a bad session.

--- still updating entry --- I had planned to work on a project which would require me to work overnight, but at around 6 PM on Thursday, December 11th. I got a call canceling the effort for the evening. I had been talking with slave silky whispers during the day about driving down for a visit on Friday after completing the project task. So I called to see what the plans where for slave that evening to see about arriving early. I knew that slave was at the hair salon getting slaves hair done, and slave?s husband was the one that drove slave to the appointment. In calling slave's cell phone, slave's husband answered the call and informed me that slave had slave's head in a head sink getting slave's hair washed. I informed slave's husband of the update to my planned evening and questioned slave's husband as to if I was to move up my arrival to that evening if I would have a negative impact to any plans. slave's husband informed me that it would not and that he would love for me to spend the night once again. Both slave's husband and I disused that it would as will make slave happy if I surprised slave by just showing up and not knowing, so the plans were set. Well just and update to the Collared Lesbian Masochist that slave and I had been chatting with, it seemed that things where going well. The Collared Lesbian Masochist Owner wanted to set up a date after the holiday, and most of the chatting with the Collared Lesbian Masochist was going the right way. But I pointed out that I do not session on a first meeting, I do public meetings with no sexual intimacy and a down time window to follow. Then if everyone is fine with things a play session could occur. All I know now is that the Collared Lesbian Masochist Owner is now stating no play, and I have asked for a reason as to why. But, to date no reason has been replied. I just do not understand those that expect others to session with a person that they have never meet, or to drop communication without a stated reason.

I had a nice chat on the phone with the Collared Lesbian Masochist that slave and I had spoken with from last week. Things seem to be looking good on doing a public meeting in the next few weeks, just working out the details with her owners (but, one never really does know). I attended a nice hotel BDSM play party yesterday, as well. I had a great time chatting with others, and seeing a few sessions during my stay at the party. I spoke to slave during the party, and let slave talk on the phone to a lesbian couple that slave just loves. Everyone was having a good time when I had to leave, do to other commitments. slave has asked that the next time the group has a hotel party that I have slave attend it with me. slave does not care to do a session (do to health issues, right now) with anyone else than myself, but slave would like to be in the room and chat with people, and sucking my cock the rest of the time.

Happy birthday yesterday to slave silky whispers, 39 years young and having fun playing every chance one can. I had been work around the clock as of late on a project, so I took some time to go down to visit slave for slave's birthday. slave was a little down in the dumps because even slave husband had planned to do some work out of town and would not even be home to give a hug. slave knew how tired I was and really wanted to just have someone to have around for the day that loves slave. For the most part of the day slave and I just rested, and slave had a few people drop by with birthday wishes and gifts. It is hard for slave at times to understand that slave has so many friends that care about slave. At the end of the day I left slave with a few friends that seemed to not want to leave, at slave's home.

slave silky whispers asked when we could do something fun next. I had told slave that I had been thinking about attending a BDSM Novice Seminar that was sponsored by: B.A.D.D. on November 29th in Dallas. And slave seemed to jump at the idea of attending the seminar, one can never have to much review of the basics. So, I drove down to Stephenville and collected slave for the second time this week. slave was dress as instructed; white canvas deck shoes, pink socks, ivory knit skirt, pink sweater shell, pink sweater jacket, hair down, and pink lace panties & bra (wow, the girl sure knows how to give a good stiffie). slave was collared & leashed (pink & ivory vinyl) on the drive as normal for us, and slave and I chatted on the phone with a Collared Lesbian Masochist that is looking for a dominant couple or a dominant male to play out a scene. The three of us had a nice chat, and things seemed to go fairly well (but, one never really does know). slave and I got into Dallas with just enough time to check in and slave to have a smoke. slave and I chatted with some of the new people and said our hello's to some of the ones we each knew that where attending the seminar as well. It was a really good group of people, a few that had been in the lifestyle for a longtime like ourselves, some for only a short while, and mostly wide eyed newbies (but, mainly all submissive's, not many dominant's). After some real good opening remarks, everyone broke up into four groups and started the first hour of the four one hour sessions with a little break time between sessions. At the end, all the groups joined back up for a closing talk, the B.A.D.D. group had provided a great Chili & Stew dinner for those that attended. For those that wished to stick around after the seminar, like slave and I. The B.A.D.D. group had setup a special demonstration of dungeon etiquette. I think that slave got the most from the seminar from the extended play check list and the dungeon etiquette demonstration. The reason is the checklist had more than 300 items, and up until the last three years for the most part I had only done private play with slave. And when slave and I have done a session in semi-public, it was mostly slave and I scening, not others. Once the demonstration was finished, the dungeon was then opened up for anyone that wished to play, to do so. But, once again slave needed a smoke (one day, one day soon, I will put a stop to slave smoking, just not yet). So slave was the second one stripped down naked for open play time. I changed slave's collar & leash to our black BDSM play set (it looks so HOT!, with slave's black piercing body jewelry), and then added a black breast binding harness, which attaches at the collar as well. The breast binding harness is still a work in progress, right now it attaches to each breast next to the chest and then a lift strap through the 'D' ring on the front of slave's collar. I want it to attach to the breast the same way, but then to a new 'D' ring on the back of slave's collar with two lifting straps resting on slave's collar bones and supported from the neck part of the spine. As it is right now, the harness pulls slave's head forward and down to support slave's breasts. I had wanted to tie slave to the padded wall facing toward the room in relaxed 'X' stance, and allow invited persons to play with slave's upper body parts. But, it was just not meant to be. With slave's broken rib, slave was not able to move far enough back to the wall to be bound. So that effort was halted. slave had been resting during the dinner break on a chain suspended play bed, but that one and the other one like it was busy. So I had slave move to a suspended leather play chair swing. Once in place, I then wrapped slave's eyes in black Coban (self adherent wrap) to blindfold slave for those playing with slave's upper body. However, just as I got the first of the persons to slave to start the session, slave had two seizures right in a row, which shocked the person I was planning on having play with slave first. I am not wanting to hurt slave's feeling at all in this statement, but help others in understanding the importance in knowing the person you are playing with; 'It is hard to play with a person with a health issue, but it is harder to play with someone that does not inform you of a health issue'. So once again the session was stopped and I removed the Coban, slave and I just stayed at that spot for a few hours chatting with others as they passed by. It is better to live and play another day than to play and harm or break one's toys. Slave and I enjoyed our time chatting and watching the others have fun. A woman getting flogged, D/s couple doing a flogging/sensual touching/orgasm session, several couples doing sensual touching, clothed riding crop butt whipping, submissive male clothes pined/teased/flogged, submissive male Little Bow Peep doll couple, and others in various play wear apparel. Just as slave and I where leaving a couple of women where being cling wrapped to a bench on their backs and butt-to-butt with legs intertwined, looked interesting. slave and I did not stay to see what or how it ended.

In the morning of Tuesday the 25th, we took slave's son to school and returned to slave's home for more playtime. slave cooked breakfast from scratch and served me in bed, I had been watching slave in the kitchen and the happiness slave was getting from making a meal for slave's master. slave had seen a movie "Embrace of the Vampire" and wanted me to see the chain that was used in the movie, because slave thought it was pretty and wants a leash like it. So we watched the movie and slave sucked my cock. After the movie we started a rough use sex session with slave bound to the bed, but slave was not getting much from the session so then we rested until about time to collect slave's son from the half day of school. But, before I left to collect slave's son from school, I gave slave a hicky on slaves right breast (slave loves to have bruises on slave's right breast), and crushed slave's breast in some more breast torture. After returning from collecting slave's son and getting some lunch, we all had a family lunch before I headed out.

slave silky whispers had a doctors appointment on Monday 24th in Fort Worth. So I drove down to Stephenville and collected slave. slave was dressed sharply, jeans, red long sleeve knit pull over, denim shirt jacket, brown short heel slides, black panties, back camisole, with hair down. slave was collared & leashed on the drive, but once at the doctors office slave was without collar for visit. Upon departing the visit slave and I stopped in the restroom and slave's breast were bond tightly, and once back in the car the collar & leash was placed back on slave. We stopped at a convience store and slaved complained when I was removing the leash from slave's collar before we entered the store, but once inside the store I crushed slave's tightly bound breast three times. I do this a lot during our drives, but slave enjoys it in public places. Our next stop was a visit to slave's grandmothers home. Once at slave's grandmothers home, I removed slave's collar & leash in the driveway. After visiting with slave's grandmother, I loaded slave back into the car, and collared & leashed slave for the drive back to Stephenville. Upon returning to slaves home, we spent a little time with slave's son and had a family time dinner before retiring to slave's bedroom for the night. We mostly did breast torture and cock sucking the rest of the night. ...

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