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I suppose I should begin this by saying that for so long I was a not so vanilla girl trapped in a very vanilla world, filled with so many thoughts and curiosities that not even I could explain. Often finding myself yearning for something darker, deeper and much more profound. After some much needed self-exploration, I now know who/what I am, what I crave, what my limitations are and what I need to be fulfilled, not only sexually but physically, mentally and emotionally as well.
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I do know that I find vanilla people and their interests fairly boring. I have no time in my life for their judgments and close mindedness. I am happy with who I am and the way I live my life. With that being said, I do not wish to be changed, just merely built upon. I am eternally grateful to those who have helped open my eyes and have aided me along the way, whether it be from sound advice, educating me or taking me in and showing me the workings of things.
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I am naturally submissive; it is more than a role, it defines me. However, that does not mean that I am that way with everyone. I can stand on my own two feet and fight my own battles. I?m strong willed and only submit to those that I can fully trust and respect. So if you?re expecting for me to call you ?Sir? or ?Master? right out of the gate, it?s not going to happen. Put forth the effort to get to know me, earn the trust that is necessary and in due time it will happen. If you demand it initially you won?t do anything but cause me to shut down and question your integrity. I have the ability to communicate and can be rather brash when need be.
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A little about me: I am fairly new, I?ve only been in the lifestyle a little over a year, so I am constantly learning and experiencing new things. I am very open-minded and am willing to try things that pique my interest. I am fairly laid back and have a sense of humor, so if you?re the kind who takes yourself too seriously we won?t mesh well. I appreciate intelligence, as well as those who have the ability to communicate and engage in a bit of witty banter. I can be a tad shy and quiet until I fully open up to someone.? I am attentive and take the time to get to know and understand the workings of others. Above all I am kind, honest, respectful and nonjudgmental of others. I get to know those that I involve myself with based upon their personality and character, not based upon superficial reasons. I am by no means perfect so I have no right to expect someone else to be.
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As for what I am looking for: I am seeking someone that is patient, one that is willing to aid and guide me so that I may grow, learn and progress, not only in my submission/service to them but as a whole. A person needs to be understanding and know that mistakes will be made, on both fronts. Intelligence and the ability to communicate are vital, whether it be written or spoken. Above all else, I seek those that are trust worthy, honest and straightforward because at the end of the day, whether they be play partners or someone I share a bond with, I have to be able to trust them and entrust myself to them. This isn?t a game by any means; we all have emotions and don?t deserve to be toyed around with? Unless we ask for it. Safety is paramount for me so I have to know that they have my best interest at heart and invest the time necessary to understand acts and the tools they use before ever trying to engage me in them.
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If you do decide to send me a message please be kind, take the time to properly spell and punctuate and write more than one or two lines. I get bored by short messages so please intrigue me.? |
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