Waterwarlock

  I am often amused by the people who frequent this site, most really have never spent one day in the lifestyle of BDSM and really have no idea or understanding of its history or origin, most seem to think it is merely kinky sex or a fantasy,fetish based existence.

  Few understand that mental bondage must occur before anything physical should take place that giving of oneself is total and absolute commitment of the mind,body and soul to another not to be taken lightly,the level of trust and respect is far greater and far more important in the lifestyle than in the vanilla world based on the degrees of dominance and control to place your mind,body and soul to the care of another were boundaries and  thresholds are taken to the breaking point and the edge of ones existence requires the true unification of two hearts and souls as one.

  It is called the lifestyle for a reason it does not merely exist in ones bedroom or a hotel room somewhere, it lives and thrives in the hearts and souls of Doms,Domme,subs and slaves every breathing moment of their existence, so if one truly seeks this way of life one must be completely committed to total submission of ones heart, mind, body,soul and existence to the care of another.