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*Will provide pics. Please read my profile before contacting me*
Have to decided to stop trying to be what i think other people want me to be and have decided to be just myself. Take me or leave me, because frankly, i dont give a damn :)
BBW, professional, intelligent, independent, cheeky, playful, affectionate, submissive.
I love kink, i love great sex, i love the power of a strong, intelligent, dominant type man. Will i kneel at your feet for hours on end? No. Will i adhere to your rules? No, not all of them! Do i need you to micromanage every aspect of my life? No, I've managed to eat, drink, shower, use the bathroom, take care of myself for a few years! Am i loyal, honest, sincere? Yes. Am i confident, outgoing and becoming increasingly self assured? Yes.
Do i want casual encounters/one night stands/bullshit? No. Do i think i'm going to find a relationship from this? No. Then why am i here? To explore, to learn, to get to know people and if anything comes of it, so be it. If not, no harm done.
Ultimately looking for the 'One'. This means someone who just fits, perfectly. This includes age, morals, ethics, beliefs, values, intelligence, appearance. So if you're over the age of 40, don't believe personal hygiene is a given, unemployed, married/partnered and looking for kink on the side, please give me a miss. We don't have enough in common to play let alone start anything meaningful. And for the record... no i don't need the firm hand of an older Master!
I'm looking for the world. Because I deserve it.
**Please keep your oh so kind offers of online training/dominance/blah blah blah to yourself :) **
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Charming message from "meandering2" who says "another fucking man hating whore". Well looks like someone has their panties in a twist! Didn't get what they wanted from Santa this year? Or perhaps so irrational that they can't see that their message makes no sense! Man hating whore? Just who am I whoring myself to if it's not men and my profile says I'm straight? |
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ladies if you are looking for a nice, decent mature guy from Melbourne, I suggest you check out strongandfun. I don't know this man personally. But from the couple of emails he has sent me, he seems somewhat sane, intelligent and appears to have a fairly decent understanding of the Ds dynamic, without the need for chest beating and self promotion.
He has given me some lovely advice and encouragement. I think this nice man should find exactly what he wants.
Thank you strongandfun... |
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Hahahahah check out Mastrours... What a delightful human!
This is the first contact I received from this socially inept moron without any contact from me in the first instance...
"Does BBW mean you're a fat porker who is rootless"
My response:
"Does being a 45 year old weighing "80lbs" make you an over the hill geriatric who is so underweight that they should be lying horizontal in a box and not walking the street. Before you try and insult me at least make sure your own profile is without fault. For the record it's "80 kgs" not "80lbs" you ignorant twit."
But of course this divine example of Dominance didn't receive my response because he blocked me from contacting him before I could reply! That shows maturity, strength that you run around CM looking for people to insult simply because they don't meet your ideal. Then contacting them just to behave ignorantly and immaturely followed by swiftly blocking them so they have no right of reply!
In fact, I would suggest that the reason my profile angered him so had nothing to do with the term "BBW" but more the fact that he is in fact "rootless" (bogan word of the day!)
No wonder this site gives me so many laughs! |
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Damn... wouldn't have thought I had to add "ability to read and interpret" to my profile. I apparently do.
Please stop contacting me to "play". You want someone to just play with? Contact one of the many people on here saying that's what they want. Alternatively pay a hooker for it. Either way, not me :) |
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Recently logged in here again for the first time in months. Same old. But still good for a giggle. People still doing exactly what you expect them to do and they wonder why you're not surprised or react with a roll of the eyes, a smirk or a shrug! |
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Hahaha Media always makes me giggle (Thank You uni for not allowing me to see an advertisement without critiquing it!)
Two ads i've seen recently:
1. Invest in Breasts. I think it was about fake boobs. But I did wonder what sort of return the investor would get on their investment. What are boobs paying these days? Are they considered a low or high risk investment? If the market crashes again, will boobs also crash? Down past the investors waist?
2. 48 Hour Deordorant. I don't know about you guys, but if you're the kind of person who needs to go 48 hours without a shower, I wouldn't have thought deodorant was high on your list of priorities anway???
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I'm almost certain that eventually I will work out exactly who the hell I really am and what i want! I don't need someone else to define that. It's something I have to do on my own.
I haven't updated my profile for a while, even though things have changed. I guess at the moment I just can't find the words to express myself in a not quite so "cranky pants" way!
I can't complain about fakes on here because none of us are "fake" we are real people, with real thoughts, emotions, opinions, desires and needs. Just because they don't blend with others or adhere to others views on how we should be does not make us fake. It simply makes us different or not compatible. Or maybe what people said they wanted, is not exactly what they really wanted once they had it. Is that such a crime? Or as humans do we simply change our minds?
Oh to find the delicious cohesion between personal and professional. Between loving and lusting, between emotional and intellectual and between fear and confidence.
One day... and if not, life is a pretty beautiful amazing thing. I'm going to be fine regardless :)
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I am a priority not an afterthought. Enough said |
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Is always amused when people do exactly what I think they are going to! bahahaha One day someone will actually surprise me and then i won't know what to do with myself :D
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Thank You. You make sense. You are bullshit free. I am a lucky girl to know You. I appreciate You. About as sentimental as this girl gets but it is heartfelt. |
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Ok this is just one more of my observations. But there are so many of you here early in the mornings! This is odd for a number of reasons.
a) its a sunday morning! sleep dammit!
b) myself and all the other princess types like to sleep in...we will not be here before 10am!
c) We are also evil firsts thing in the morning...therefore would you really want to speak to us before we have had a chance to humanise again?
Sorry i forgot once again its all about you...but for your own safety, perhaps the post 10am rule would be better !
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Apparently...my journal is the reason i havent found someone on here...No! awww really? (damn you really cant project sarcasm well on here can you !) well to those of you who believe this, i have one thing to say...how strong can you really be, if you cant handle a few vitriolic words from a cheeky sub now and then? Perhaps the issue isnt with me...perhaps it is with you and your confidence and your perception of yourself...you might want to work on that!
I will continue to be who i am, a strong, confident, intelligent woman, and if you dont like that, no one is forcing you to contact me. No one is forcing you to read what i have written and no one is suggesting i should be the sub for you. Im definitely not if you have those issues! theres a hot tip for you!
I am fast realising that it takes all kinds on here to make the place interesting. i am just one of many. |
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Thanks to all who responded to my query Re: admirers etc.
Here is what i have learnt from you guys...
1. Admirers are those who are either too boring, too intellectually inept, too arrogant or too shy to bother sending an email. :(
2. Admirers are sucks who will put you in that box so that you notice them and instigate conversation with them. saves them the time apparently.
3. Admirers are players who add every girl in their search to this list to see who bites.
4. Admirers are stalkers who add you to that list so they can keep track of you easily and find out what youre up to (scary! :( )
5. Admirers are people who have been crazy busy but who have seen your profile and want to be able to find you so they can write to you at a later date with a clearer head. (The only kind so far im willing to welcome!)
As you can see, you guys dont really think a lot of each other do you! Even less than i do! Hehehe well thanks once again for the insight. I appreciate it. Something else to add to my "be wary of" list...admirers! take care all xxoo |
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Can someone help me with something please? i have noticed there are a few little boxes to the left of my screen including "favourite users" and "admirers". There are people in my "admirers" list i have never heard from! what do these little boxes mean? how do you put people into them? what is the point of them if you dont know people are there? please dont let me think this is one of lifes many mysteries and help me out with an answer...veru much appreciated!
Addtions to the lessons i have learnt so far...
1. It is rude to not respond to emails messages however you can tell someone point blank youre not interested yet they keep messaging! what is the alternative?
Also a small note...i have been chatting with someone for a little while now. things are going well. we will see. nothing freaks me out about this person, nothing bothers me about them or their interests or expectations and i am excited about the possibilities ahead...we will see... |
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Will stop with the sarcasm now...understand its a little trying after a time. will think happy thoughts from now on i promise! well...progress report...im a little intox so possibly not a good time to start spilling...good idea...might just go to bed instead! everything fabulous here. couldnt be better. hope everyone has a fabulous weekend! hugs n stuff xxoo |
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*Mental note to self*...would appear am only person who finds me remotely amusing! hehehe. That last entry did annoy some of you didnt it! Am pleased to say...some of you can take a joke and responded in the manner intended. Although i dont think i have seen the words "spank" "knee" "red" written so often followed by so many "hehehe" before! thanks again to all who giggled...hugs n kisses n stuff. |
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Hello again A/all!
I thought i would write a little entry about the number of ways it would appear i can irritate Dom's! As it would seem there have been many! Some of which i was not aware of until i sought further clarification.
1. Questions apparently are not always ok.
2. My submissiveness is able to be critiqued by all and sundry, however i am not allowed to question your dominance.
3. Not calling you "Master" is apparently a huge no-no!
4. Not responding to your emails first, before all others whether you sent them 2 minutes ago or not, is frowned upon, however you can take as long as you like to respond to mine!
5. I am not clever. I am as clever as you tell me i am.
6. Sassy and cheeky are not things you like although you responded to my profile which clearly stated these things.
7. If i dont agree to meet you to play within a week, i must be a fake
8. My boundaries are silly and will be changed immediately.
9. You can sulk, i cannot.
10. You can ditch me but i cannot ditch you.
Ok any of you who have gotten to know me will have a little chuckle at this. Those who havent really gotten to know me, will frown (again) and reply with angst ridden melodrama and appear as though youre about to have a coronary at my insubordination. If you fit into the latter category...here's a hot tip, don't bother replying at all!
Dont get me wrong, you can challenge me on anything and everything as long as you have bothered to try and understand what i am saying without thinking everything i say is a dig at you. You can question my motives, my drive, my ambition, my thoughts, my heart, my needs, my boundaries, but if you are going to be disrespectful, i will probably only reply with something to anger you more. Do you really want to put yourself through that! There are so many of us out here, lets not waste your time and mine, if we re simply going to cause each other grief. Life is much much too short.
So in conclusion, i have at this point in time, angered/annoyed/upset/terrified/challenged no less that 9 Doms, who now, will not speak to me at all. Not bad going i would have though...but perhaps i need to tone it down...i may run out of options soon! hehehe! |
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Ok...mental note to self...i wouldnt have thought it was important to state the complete obvious in ones profile...apparently it is. Can i please add 2 further points?
1. I am looking for sane people only. Although i am empathetic towards those with mental illness, i would not to belong to one.
2. If you are interested in anything illegal, please go away. I am not interested in you. Certain things are ok between consenting adults, other things are illegal and morally reprehensible regardless fo whether youre interested in them or not.
Ok other than those 2 points, everything else is going wonderfully well! Thanks once again to all those who keep in touch, i still very much appreciate it and find the clarification you provide really worthwhile. I am still finding the definitions of "submissive" interesting to say the least. But i guess it doesnt really matter what your definition is, as long as i am true to myself and honest with you about it. As i have said before i dont suppose it really matters where you "fit" as long as youre honest about it. Take Care all and hope your weekend was fabulous! |
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Wow! all i can say really! after my last entry, yes it was slightly whingy and complainy (new word, i made it up, don't correct me!) i have received an abundance of replies from some fabulous people. Thank you all for your support, your humour, your cynicism, and most of all for your messages! i got some!
Many of you provided some great insight and advice. i particularly liked the suggestion that possibly i am trying to appeal to the wrong kind of person. You're right, i need to spend less time concerned with who might be attracted to me, and more time considering who i might be attracted to. Because until i am theirs, it's all about me! That comment is bound to get me another round of "youre no sub" comments but bah! i dont care! I did of course receive the typical "kneel sub and submit" messages, but i deleted those! if you were one of them...think about it! hehehe! thank you all once again. you have restored my faith! xxoo |
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Well im not entirely sure what i have done wrong...but all my messages have dried up! i think peoples initial curiosity in me has waned, im either not as easily controlled as they hoped, im either not what they want, theyre a little intimidated by my (this suggestion was actually made mind you) or... i know hard to believe...they are simply not attracted to me! hehehe..so im not sure how much longer this site will prove useful to me...either i find a way to get my groove back or i move on...im not sure yet... and just for those out there who have questioned my submissiveness time and time again, im secure in who i am, perhaps you are not quite so secure in who you are and need to work on that! just a suggestion! hehehe nor am i switch or domme in disguise! i am simply confident, assertive, sassy and with cheek! if thats not the sub for you, please dont continue to challenge me on it, just accept and move on...hang on, perhaps thats where my probs lie! i will return to the drawing board and see what happens over the next week! |
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Wow! what an interesting introduction to this site! thank you to all who have made it an interesting beginning to this journey. and to the others, since i am not permitted to offend or criticise, perhaps i am better to say nothing at all to you!
Looking forward to much much more! im sure He is here or there, or somewhere and i just have to find Him and He, me. Until then, i will keep looking and laughing and enjoying and learning. thanks once again A/all...for the ride! xx |
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