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**Updated** 12/28/2012
I've taken down my photos. If you message me something more than "can I see a pic" or something along those lines I will share them. I was getting tired of the messages just commenting on how I looked instead of actually trying to have a conversation.
I'm looking for friends more than anything and I'd really like a mentor Dom/Domme (males 20-35 females 25+) of some sorts to help me open up and be more comfortable with my submissive side on a friends first level. As it stands now I've realized I fight myself daily between my submissive and "survival dominant" sides. I am a natural submissive, but it will take some TLC to get my submissive side to come back out... I am NOT looking for a long term committed relationship, I'm looking for lasting friendships. I want friends, possibly leading to friends with benefits. You cannot expect me to submit without getting to know me first. I AM NOT looking for booty calls, sex (i.e. one night stands), or money. I don't think I can make that any clearer. God forbid I'm a relatively level-headed young submissive woman. I am not stupid. I do not have my own car right now so I will be unable to meet with anyone for a bit, however I will be willing to compromise if the chemistry is right after talking for a bit.
I am a masochist. Pain is like an addiction to me that I crave (though I'm not sure how much I can take). I love the feeling of bruises the next day that I accidentally bump while I'm doing the vanilla thing. It's a mark, a claim for our time together, a reminder of the fun we've had.
I love hair pulling, biting, collars, gloves, and boots.
I'll talk to anyone really. Any age or location, subs/doms/switches/etc. If you're out of my Dom age range do not expect me to be your friend and later want to Dom me. I am not actively looking for a Dom but I do want one for the future. I want to find a friend that I can get to know and possible move to Dominant/Submissive from there. If you're interested in knowing what I'm like: Be respectful. I'll be respectful to you. I'd like to chat about experiences or like and dislikes, just all in good fun.
I'm a geek. I'm also kind of Gothic. I like the more Gothic look and I wear my collar 90% of the time if I am able. I've had it for about 7 years. It's my form of self dominating I guess you could say. I wear it when I feel the need to be more in control of myself. I love video games, reading, writing-stories and poetry, karaoke, hiking (or basically anything outdoors), or going to the beach or springs. I watch Sci-fi network and food channel (favorite show is Chopped). I like Criminal Minds and shows of that genre. I don't do horror films usually (I'm a scaredy cat) and I don't normally have the patience to sit down and watch a movie. I like ANIME, including hentai, DBZ, and mostly ecchi (I'm a pervert). I tend to have a foul mouth as well. I smoke cigarettes and I have a tattoo. If those are turn offs or will bother you to the point where we can't be friends don't bother messaging me.
Hard Limits: NO age-play, toilet play, NO bestiality or infantilism, no humiliation or degradation (i.e face slapping), (May add more as I discover them).
If you're looking to chat with me Message me.
Please do not Message me only one sentence, I take my time messaging you back take your time to message me, or anything that blatantly goes against my profile.
Please do not send me vulgar pictures or spam my inbox with pics. If I want to see more pictures I'll ask.
(DO NOT send me pictures of your junk.)
Do not automatically request a yahoo IM or other means of communication. After we chat a little while I will give that information.
Please use relatively proper English, I can forgive spelling errors, typos, grammar errors, or even broken sentences. Ultimately I want to be able to understand what you're saying and to show that you have some intelligence.
Again Be respectful in your messages to me.
Just because I'm submissive doesn't mean I don't have the right to be picky. Until you've earned my submission you won't see my submissive side.
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What to do when your personality set doesn't fall into any category but many? I am a subservient submissive personality, with cat like tendencies and the desire to be loved and appreciated as a baby girl. I love pain and roughness and when I top I'm a sensual sadist. I can't say exactly what I'm looking for anymore because at this point I'm not sure. But don't think that means I don't know what I DON'T want or you can change my mind on who I am. At times I think I'm jaded and damaged and it's all part of life as the growing experience. Occasionally I believe my mind is too old for my body because I grew up fast and it's hard to balance out now that I'm "an adult." Just a little venting to let you know I'm real, alive and a little imbalanced. Take it how you will. |
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You've unlocked the cage door, but I do not know how to roam free. I'm scared and confused about what you want from me? What you can give me and who I should be?
This is moreso a rambling than a discussion like I usually like to do. I'm torn between a rage case (angry and wanting to lash out) and the strong urge to cry. I need submission. I need pain. And I just don't have the time or the means to get it right now. I was hoping playing a little would appease my other side but it seems to have only made things worse and it's getting harder and harder. I need to be patient. |
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Discussion Topic:
I've been thinking recently about how it's harder to be a Dom/Domme than it is to be a submissive. As a submissive, you do what you're told. As the dominant you have to know your submissive's limits and when to push those limits and really have to read your submissive well. This is just a thought I've had. For discussion. Any dominants or submissives willing to reflect on times things went wrong or things went really well for you with the dynamic of the relationship. Any advice for a submissive (aside from open communication of course) to make the job a little easier for a Dom?
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Dicussion topic: PLEASE DO NOT FLAME. If you don't understand what I am actually addressing than do not message me.
Is the fascination with D/s and BDSM something you're born feeling or needing or is it a result from needing other outlets in your life outside of the vanilla? I've been wondering for some time, though I think I am a natural submissive I wonder if it's really based on how I was raised and what I was exposed to vs a "genetic" predisposition. Please message me with feedback and opinions. |
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It amuses me seeing 5 years experience on a 23 year old's profile or 12 years experience on a 30 year old's profile. Did they wake up when they turned 18 and decide this was the path for them? When or what do you consider the starting date of experience?
Anyone willing to discuss this with me feel free to message me. |
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