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Female Submissive, 29, Austin, Texas
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Female Submissive, 38
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Male Submissive, 39, USA, anywhere., New York
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About UncagedCharisma
You don’t really want to know what I’d do for a Klondike bar…
It all started when I was about 15 years old. The neighbor boy had told me about this movie with sex and spanking. And so, bright eyed and hopeful I went to the video store with my father one afternoon. Convincing my Dad it was a romantic comedy and sandwiching the Secretary between some more age appropriate content, we checked out. And that was pretty much all it took.
The college years that followed were a period of total discovery. For the first time I tried 24/7, and also tried living in two Poly homes before deciding it wasn’t my cup of tea.
When I lead a completely vanilla lifestyle by day, I find myself rather dead inside. Without the experiences that I’ve had, I think I would believe myself to be much less strong than I feel that I am. There is no amount of hardship in life or work that I’ve experienced that would match the emotional intensity of some things that I’ve experienced living the lifestyle. So it’s a part of me that I will never lose. Although to some that don’t understand, being submissive might make me appear weak. And yet knowing myself like I do now, I am confident that I will succeed in all that I do.
I come for the physical punishment, but stay for the psychological intimidation. The barking order to stop, the silence in between blows, the caging or attention deprivation that accompanies the punishment is really what appeals to me.
There are some that make a 'challenge' out of it, saying the only reason why I don't fully submit is because I haven't had the right Man. But I have to disagree. I've had four serious Masters to this date, all quite experienced. The first rule of submission, is that you have to want to submit. My wants are complicated.
When I think about my happy place, it's having my head scratched, basking in the warmth and glow of knowing I've served Him to the best of my abilities. Someone that knows and has seen that deep down, I am submissive. Someone who accepts me with all of my spirit and spunk, instead of trying to whip it out of me. Trust me when I say they have tried.
There is that deep, primitive desire inside of me. When I hear the words, 'Stop.' 'Sit.' or 'Come.' I feel so lightheaded I could faint. Like there are jumper cables between my ears and desirables. The submission is there, I guess I just make people work too hard for it. Not something I'm proud of.
Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read over my profile. I’m always happy to make new friends, or exchange messages between like-minded folks. Drop me a line! |
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