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Freaks, geeks, and deviants apply here.
I am dominant, but I do enjoy pain. So I suppose I could best be described as a dominant sadomasochist. I have my life together; I have an enriching job, a house, and a dog that is like a daughter to me. I have a bottom and girlfriend who is spectacular, but we're always on the lookout for friends.
I've been interested in the lifestyle for years, but only able to fully explore it as of January 2008. I'm very interested in exploring everything in the world of BDSM, and have been finding out what I like and what I don't. The only thing I like better than feeling that sharp sting of pain and spreading warmth, is to hear someone else's cries and gasps and moans as I inflict it upon them.
I'm easy to get along with, and fairly laid-back in my day-to-day life. I enjoy things geeky as well as deviant, like computers and roleplaying games. I'm also into martial arts, and have studied a number of systems from Kung Fu to Brazilian Jiu Jitsu to Muay Thai, and others.
I consider myself a sensual sadist and a tender dominant. I get enjoyment from my partner's enjoyment, and I enjoy mixing pleasure with pain. I'm not overbearing; I require service in the areas that matter to me, but I'm not the type to enforce dominance just to prove that I can. My opinion is that if a dominant ever acts in a way that would cause someone from the vanilla world to say, "God, what an asshole," then they're doing something wrong. Being dominant does not equate to being a prick, and one should respect their submissive if they expect the same in return. If you're looking for an abusive prick, please move along -- that is a role that I can't and won't fill.
I'm very open to meeting new people and having new experiences. I'm still learning, and I plan to continue to learn for the rest of my life.
As a note, I don't seem to be able to find Breath Play in the kinks list, but I'm into that as well, and experienced with it from both my martial arts training, and BDSM play.
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Last night, I went to a flogging demonstration/workshop run by Archer. It was very well-done, and also informative -- I learned more than I expected to, in fact. Archer is from a somewhat different school of technique than I'm familiar with, so the different viewpoint was very refreshing.
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Apparently the picture of my back after my first session with a singletail doesn't fall within the guidelines. I can only assume it was denied because it was "too extreme?" Annoying, but ah well.
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