Ukdreamcatcher

Firstly, me. There are no sides to me, what you see is what you get, I cannot create a false persona to suit a part of my life, I can only be who I am. I am in my mid forties and it is fair to say have an outlook on life which means I act and behave a lot younger. I live in South Wales but I spend most of my life away from there travelling to the Midlands, London and everywhere in-between. I am enthusiastic about everything I do, be it my hobbies (outside of this scene) of sailing, diving, walking and generally just having a good time through to my relationships with people and my work. I believe any relationship must be based upon, truthfulness and openness.

I have been naturally Dominant all of my life although it is only recently that I have fully realised it and my place in the BDSM community. For many years the feelings and the way I reacted confused me but in discovering this community and through the help of some very good friends I am now able to see clearly both my actions and my future path.

I believe strongly in the special bond between a Dom and a submissive and that it must be founded upon mutual trust and understanding. I am an encouraging and nurturing person and my Dominance reflects this however I expect and demand unquestioning obedience and loyalty. I fully embrace the bond that comes through the application of pain between a Dom and his submissive. In addition I can and will punish if my requirements are not met and I expect to use my submissive for my own pleasure, not necessarily for theirs.

My interest is in the real world, with real time spent with a person both to understand them and ultimately to enter into a more formal D/s situation. I of course will back this up with all the forms of voice and electronic communication but I want to see, to meet, and to have a D/s relationship with that person.

This is truly a voyage of discovery

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