I have a hunger.. something that lives inside of me. A need which is rather unique and requires a special kind of person to fulfill. You know that this adventure is much, much more than mere ass-slapping, shackles and assorted other physical fun. You will feed the need of the body, mind and soul! You are extraordinarily intelligent and insightful and will immediately command my respect and even admiration. This is NOT the stuff of online play. It is real, it requires someone who has the time, patience, capabilities and imagination to fully explore the essence of the journey. You want a slave who has a mind, who can think and express herself openly and freely.. but of course, always with respect!
Speak to my soul, make me think, dream, envision and perceive above and beyond the standard fare. Help me see beyond my fears, succeed where I believe I cannot... love more than I thought possible.... then I will be yours, heart, mind and soul.
I am a diverse and intelligent woman. Impress me by actually showing an interest in WHO I am rather than "what I'm into".
About Me: I am a big fan of TED. I enjoy biking, and love to hang out in places where there are lots of trees and lakes. I love taking pictures of the world around me (when I have time). I have 2 cats that I adore and work in a profession that I believe helps to make the world a better place. I work a lot; but can make time for someone in my life - assuming they also respect that my work is important and it's not always 9-5.
I love to laugh and tend to be a bit sarcastic. I'm opinionated, stubborn, forthright and love a good debate. I'm also very compassionate, caring and sincere. In short, I'm human :)
My Ideal Person:
I am NOT interested in a married man or woman or someone who is seeking "casual" play. If you're unable to bring me to your home.. go away! There is nothing casual about the nature of the relationship I seek.
I value excellent communicators. Being Dominant isn't an excuse to avoid sharing your feelings.
You are politically concerned and would likely call yourself a Liberal. You are compassionate, and kind, but not without some wit, and a touch of sarcasm to complete the experience.
~~ If your inclined to send me your genital nudity pics, don't bother. I've no doubt you come with parts included, I don't need pictures. ~~
** You are also not more than 10 years older than me, or 5 years younger. I also smoke! I've cut back quite a bit and hope to quit in the future, but for now I do smoke. Don't expect me to quit just because you're a fantastic person. Sadly - it's a tough habit to break. So if this is a deal breaker for you, I suggest you keep looking. **
I feel strongly that D/s is based on the relationship and not merely on sexuality. If you cannot express to me how D/s exists without using sex as an example, you're likely not seeking the same kind of relationship I am. If you enjoy someone who is opinionated, fun-loving, somewhat unusual, yet able to fit in when necessary, lets chat.
You may also want to read the following if you're interested in more about my d/s perspective... XHTTPX//www.collarchat.com/m_740449/tm.htm