totalitaire


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	"Do as you will and will as I want," to paraphrase liberally (and points if you know the origins). In other words, I appreciate the notion that D/s starts with the mental aspect. The rest are manifestations from there. Over the past couple of decades, I have engaged in exploring the various avenues of the wondrous world of bdsm. While generally enjoyable, I found that control is the core that provides the critical dimension to most all. Consequently, in the relation that I seek, I dispose. Of course, depending on what your character offers, there can be substantial room for your proposings (in a playful take on Thomas a Kempis's work). Initiative can be quite appealing and as much appreciated. A, say, witty exchange provides all the more stimulation of the mind.