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Greetings,
First of, there are a lot of Doms on here and Subs and I want to specify that I am not either although I do sub and domme at times.
Im primarily a spanko, interested in all s of spanking from the erotic to the disciplinary. Love canes, adore straps, even like brushes lol I love play discipline - i.e. youve been a naughty girlboy - though ideally not that cheesy!
I am into domestic discipline. Spencer plan ideally although not quite that specific- I just want to support my partner w accountability and be supported in turn.
I enjoy giving spankings out but primarily I prefer to bottom.
As a top I am a Mommy top and a mild Sadist and can Domme Sexually.
As a bottom I am a brat, a Middle, a babygirl, a very mild masochist, and lean toward subby in bed.
Further, I am curious about things like bondage, wax, sensation play and power exchange. Surprisingly to myself there turned out to be a lot more to bdsm that I like aside from spanking. Still love spanking most though!
Outside the kink I am a curious, friendly, sometimes outgoing, sometimes introverted person. I love reading especially fantasy, and I sometimes write stories or poems. I adore any arts and crafts though Im not especially good at them. I like taking nature photos.
I am spiritual and my pagan religion is important to me. Partly that means I love nature and partly it means that I have an altar to the Goddessin my home.
I am an outspoken, passionate feminist committed to change.
Im playful at times and childlike (and plan to be the youngest 115 year old around) but I can be very serious and love long intellectual conversations. Im curious and will often want to try anything and everything, and furthermore, if something is of interest to another that isnt of interest to me I can end up getting interested just because the things people are passionate about are cool.
I love learning and plan to be a lifetime student. I adore languages- I speak two fluently at the moment, and two non-fluently, but I plan to increase that during my life. I also hope that I have the chance to get several masters - in social work and psychology. .
I love baking and enjoy cooking.
I adore the ocean and approach it reverently, like the temple it is.
One of my goals is to experience everything the world has to offer. I love the idea of travel and living a gypsy lifestyle (two years per country).
I am a scorpio with all the positives and negatives that come with it. There are many versions of me, many of which are hidden, but thats me - and - nice to meet you!
Now what am I looking for?
Friends- always. If we have similar hobbies and enjoy doing similar stuff Id love to hear from you. No, not for play. Just to chat, where ever you are.
Casual play - not really. Honestly, our kinks would need to match ninety nine point nine percent. I go to play parties and can find casual play there. And I do NOT, NOT EVER do casual sex.
On that note, I am demisexual. If Im not in love sex is flat out boring. Dont ask me why causal kink play is fun and casual sex isnt- I just live this stuff, I dont decide it.
Relationship. Yes. Now what do I want from this. I would like it to be a Daddygirl relationship though that takes time. A Mommyboy too maybe though thats less of a need for me.
You might at this point notice that I am speaking about males - I am bisexual - I do date women, but I want a male top. Well, or maybe a Female Top - I admit I tend to be more drawn to men in bdsm but I try not to close doors for no reason. Who knows what life holds?
Either way, eventually I want a disciplinary relationship. For me that is as important as the play.
I can and do top at times- a primarily toppy switch would bewelcome - I just cant do it for long.Mutual mentoringdiscipline - would be ideal.
I want someone with whom I can have fun but also feel secure. Not an easy combination.
So what am I looking for? Someone perfect for me I suppose. Just like all of us out there I want someone whose flaws fit my own like a puzzle piece.
Dont ask for much, do I? But hope however springs eternal, and whomever I meet will add joy and lessons to my life so D
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Hmm, so new entry is needed. I never thought I'd use this journal when I started but where else can I complain of the insanity of the bdsm world?
So, here's a new rule: If oyu are gonna message me, and are into:
A. Changing your subs names (I'm not talking petnames)
B. Making them abandon their religion
C, Making them pray to you
D. Making them abandon their family and friends
PLEASE WALK ON BY
In fact, please walk on to the nearest psychiatry ward and commit yourself.
Sadly, there is at least one person out there to whom all four of the above apply. I know, I thought he was joking too ( he wasn't).
Oh, and if you're the type of douchebag that is going to ignore all that I write in my profile because and I quote "New subs don't know what they want" - Go take a long walk, off a very short pier. And drown!
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So, a bunch of people are being sarcastic idiots, and questioning my location. To those who lack the brains to simply ask- and to those disillusioned by collarme's insane amount of fakes I;'ll bother explaining. I live in ny, go to school in PA. IE two locations. Please avoid any more idiotic messages such as 'where is brooklyn PA'. |
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