I have decided that it is time for an updated profile.
I am intelligent, well educated & reasonably sophisticated. I have a sharp sense of humor as well. I have been a lifestylist for over 30 years. That means that I do live it as a TPE 24/7/365. I don't role play, this is who I am.
I seek a slave, not a sub. People have their own definitions of these terms, but I like mine best. A sub can choose who, what, where, when & how re their submission. A slave cannot. I control my slave from head to toe, inside & out.
This does not mean I want an empty headed robot for a slave. She may appear to be as "normal" as any girl. But she is my property. I will take her feelings into consideration, but I make all decisions.
I am a very affectionate & caring Master. I am quite strict & demanding, but reasonable. She is fully aware of my expectations because she has been well trained by me.
Age & experience in the lifestyle are irrelevant. The right attitude, personality & desire are far more important.
If you're interested or merely curious, let me know. I am a very patient & thoughtful teacher. Besides bdsm & the lifestyle are my favorite topics!
I don't understand why people go to such lengths to explain their niche regarding bdsm &/or D/s. Either a person is in it for play or as a lifestyle.
A very small percentage of those who call themselves slaves truly are. A slave is property with no rights or free will. Do you set limits? Then you are a sub not a slave. There's nothing wrong with that, just be honest.
I am equally amused & irritated by subs/slaves who are looking for a Master/Dom "worthy" of their "gift" of submission. First, a gift cannot be taken back. Second, their submissiveness is as much a part of them as dominance is to us. Yes, discretion must be used by all, but using their faulty logic, shouldn't we Masters & Mistresses be looking for subs/slaves worthy of our gift of domination?
I once had a slave tell me she couldn't be dominant. It was too much work & as a slave all she had to do was obey. How true!
