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About tiewhipandthrust
PLEASE NOTE: i'm only interested in hearing from girls and male Dominants who are LOCAL. since we all get such a huge number of emails on this site, i'll probably have to delete emails from people who fall outside this criteria. sorry, and thanks for understanding!
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i've been interested in bdsm since high school, i've learned quite a bit from some wonderful and not-so-wonderful experiences over the past couple years, and now i finally have at least glimpse of what i really want: a loving partnership with a dominant man who will own my body, support my goals and respect my mind.
i'm bright, well educated and driven in my vanilla life, and i love the thrill and sense of release i get from physical and sensual domination. i find casual play to be satisfying in the short term but ultimately unfulfilling, i'm physically incapable of submitting to anyone who writes like a 9 year old, and no, i'll pass on moving into your basement in Wisconsin and living in a cage next to your dog. but thanks for the gracious offer.
please be a true Dom who is experienced, confident, educated, accomplished, respectful, in good physical shape, and LOCAL. to clarify, local means You're at least in southern California, confident means You're not intimidated by a girl who has strong opinions and is very effective (perhaps more so than You) at expressing them, and respectful means You're not married or cheating on Your vanilla girlfriend and that You're looking for a real relationship, not a dirty little secret. |
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The following message is from "ItIsMeCA":
"What a fucking waste of space and time! Hope you get the mental health help you so desperately need before you off yourself. Being a motherfucking, fucked up fraud must be miserable."
I should note that we've never even emailed before--he just sent me this out of the blue with zero provocation. Unfortunately, since this charming Collarme member decided to block me before I could respond, I'm pasting my reply below:
"Thanks so much for that lovely greeting, ItIsMeCA. Can't imagine what you found so offensive about my profile, or me for that matter, and frankly I don't care. But just for the sake of extending you far more courtesy than you've shown to me, I thought I'd point out that speaking the way you did to a young sub who's fairly new to the scene really doesn't reflect well on you as a Dom or this community as a whole. As a very happy person with a drama-free life (contrary to your accusation), I'd also like to suggest that you find better ways to deal with your anger and self-loathing than inflicting it on friendly strangers who did nothing whatsoever to deserve it. And who knows, with a more emotionally balanced attitude, you might get far better results on this site and maybe even find someone to play with. Best of luck." |
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i started blocking people who clearly don't fit my criteria but email me anyway... over and over and over. i'm sure you're all lovely people and i don't mean this as a personal slight in any way. it's just that all these repeat emails from guys who wouldn't have written the first time if they had read and respected my prerequisites are overloading my inbox to a point where it's harder to correspond with the people i AM interested in. and that's not fair either to those people or to me. thanks for understanding and not taking this personally... and good luck! |
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i have to say...the amount of bitter, angry people on this site never ceases to amaze me. i'm not saying you don't have the right to reply in the rudest possible way to a completely friendly and sincere email and then block me so i can't respond. i'm sure there's a good reason for your bitterness, and i'm sure the issues that permeate your life make it hard for you not to direct that bitterness at anyone and everyone. i don't blame you and i can't judge you. i'm just sad for you. |
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wishing i had added 'make friends with other subs' to my to-do list when i started exploring the lifestyle a couple years ago. it would be nice to find some like-minded women to chat with, trade advice and horror stories, etc... |
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already getting buried with messages here, so please don't be offended if i'm not able to get back to You. while i have great respect for all Dominant Men, please keep in mind that there is an ENORMOUS number of You on this site, and replying to every message would be a full-time job. if i'm not able to reply to You, it's because i don't believe it would be a good use of either of our time based on factors that are beyond both of our control. so please don't take it personally.
again, due unaviodable factors and preferences, i can't afford the time to respond to anyone who is not local, not height-weight proportional, or not a good match for me intellectually. thanks! |
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