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I’ve always found these little boxes to be a little vexing. It’s easy to rattle off a checklist of what I like and maybe toss in a few key phrases here and there, but I never seem to really deliver the essence of what I mean to say. I am simply me, after all – a unique amalgam of kinks and perversions, dreams and desires, passions and playfulness, and perhaps that ever-present dose of evil coupled with a little mind-fuck now and again.
When it comes to BDSM, I subscribe to nothing yet embrace nearly everything. I cherry-pick from the entire buffet of kink and simply do what works for me. I believe being a Dom or Master doesn’t require one to sacrifice manners or respect for another nor is it an excuse to be an ass or otherwise so self-involved as to cause unnecessary and unwanted pain. It’s hard enough to live life without drama without seeking to invite even more into it.
In play I would label myself nearly equal parts a physical sadist and a mental sadist, often seeking to blend them all together into a mix that serves the moment. I’m eclectic in my tastes in BDSM – just as I am in everyday living. I like what I like when I like it, and another time may find me in the mood for something completely different.
I am a great lover of the softer side of BDSM that plays far more with the mind and the senses than it does with the pain receptors. Sensualism and touch are very often key as I seek to make some kind of a connection with those a play with; to make not just a power exchange, but also hopefully an energy exchange that will bind us together – Dom and sub – Master and slave – in that perfect moment when all the worries and confusion and pain of the world can melt away.
Right now, while I am indeed single, I'm taking a break from serious relationships for a bit. That doesn't preclude the creation of intense friendships or exciting play opportunities. It simply means that I'm not actively "looking". Should intense friendships evolve into something more over time ... then I'll take that as karma and simply go with it. :)
In the end, once you brush off all the drama and apprehension and turmoil, there's a realization that we get one shot at life. Why over-complicate it? Let's keep it simple, let's keep it alive. Let’s … have … fun.
Oh, I am also a semi-pro photographer concentrating in artistic nude and fetish themes. Examples of my work are on my website at www.21d.com or on (same profile name). I've also recently published a book of my photos. If you are interested in getting together for a shoot, drop me a line and we can look at logistics. |
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