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Male Switch, 42, hollywood, California
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Male Switch, 44, Boston, Massachusetts
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About ThinWhiteRope
Here's the current skinny. I'm seeing someone with the mutual understanding that we are both free operators. Chips, dips, chains, whips, yee hawr. Not really looking for THE ONE, but if it happens, hey. Just don't expect it, I'm one picky bastard who just may have commitment issues. So be warned. But I love friends and am really fond of friends I can get sweaty with. Just being honest. That said, I'm safety conscious as hell, clean and responsible. Strong believer in Safe Sane Consensual play. Sucker for well rounded behinds that like to be turned rosy with spankings and various implements. I identify as a Top, but I feel myself sliding into Domness. Getting more and more interested in Power Play. I love Shibari, floggers, crops, leather paddles. I'm getting quickly versed with a single tail. Those are the things that turn my crank but I respect limits utterly and all play I engage in is negotiated and discussed. I'm a responsible player. THAT said, I'm looking for Bottoms/Subs of the same mindset. And people I can have some level of chemistry with. If I don't click with you in friendly conversation, we won't be playing. Period. But I'm also a pretty nice guy (fancy that from somebody thay wants to tie you up, spank you and have his way with you)! :)
Have a better one,
Rope. |
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"Reasonably local". Yeah. Maybe that's the ticket. |
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So much for locals. It's hard enough to find somebody compatible online if you're vanilla. If you're kinked? FuhGEDdabowdit. GAD my town is small. |
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Well I got stood up by a new gal. Not a person on this site, I should add. Nothing new from my experience except this one had me drive an hour and a half from my home and then text-messaged that she wasn't ready to date again just yet. Still hung up on the bag of crap that cheated on her. To add insult to injury, I can't remember when gas prices have been so high. And just for shits and giggles the fates saw fit to hit me with a speeding ticket for driving-while-pissed-off (inconsiderate flakey subs will do that to a man). So ladies, you have this flakey piece-of-work of a person to thank for making me disdain ANY one but locals. |
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I've come to believe it's true... idle hands are the devil's work. Here I am kicking up a fuss about somebody else when I hadn't considered my own choices to begin with. Takes 2 to tango and I can't think of a dance that involves more besides free-for-alls. Hmm. Irony. |
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So I'm back home for little while after my trip and I'm really doing some head scratching over what to do til THAT girl decides to come see me. Note that I've got no guarantees over where it will lead. But then who does? Anyway I look up somebody I've been wanting to meet for ages. Seen her on some of my favorite sites, talked a bit on the boards. Couldn't stop myself. We go out one night. We have a blast. TALKING. Nuthin' mo. She's cute as hell and just my kind of trouble. And I think I could be her kind too. I fill her in on my situation and she still doesn't run screaming. Can a man get more torn? Chime in, men. I'd love some input. |
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Okay no talk of whips today. Today's topic is internet bullshit and why it's a good idea to have your wits about you on here. I made a classic internet boo boo by breaking a big taboo. "DON'T SEND MONEY TO PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET". Only one problem. I'm not sure she's full of shit. I met the woman and she's one of the most honest (if painfully fucking blunt and often downright frikkin' rude) people I've met online. My bullshit detector is actually pretty finely tuned though. Years of disappointment on here have made that necessary. I should mention I didn't meet her on this site. It was a flirty type videochat paysite. And it was a fluke. We just made each other laugh, then clicked on each other's cams and said "damn! NOT bad!". And away we went. In this gal's case, she lived halfway across the country in utter poverty so there wasn't much of a choice but to help her out if I wanted to keep communicating. At long last I flew out and met her. She wasn't lying. That's what I call poor. I don't judge because I've lived meagerly myself at various points in my life. The whole starving artist thing. Anyway we clicked in real life like we did online, and what little playing around we did had us convinced we were damned compatible there. Only one damn problem. Kids and no babysitter. I'm sure others here can relate, especially you married-with-children members. Gets a bit frustrating wanting to ravish your special someone and just having to cold-shower it to get by. Okay that and masturbating madly when I got a moment's peace and privacy. Actually there were two problems. Kids needs vs. our needs. The kids win out. And the price tag soars. Had to keep asking myself... why am I acting like we're married and these kids are mine? So as it sits I'm back home halfway back across the country and she's trying like hell to get a job in a depressed economy as a single mom without a car. But she's doing it to make enough money to come see me in a few months. So we wait. And I sing "Heartbeat Hotel" alot. Did I mention I hit Graceland? Gotta find the good side of things. Makes life tolerable.
Topic for next time... the people you meet in between. |
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I never would have guessed that it takes more energy to crack a 3 foot whip than it does to crack my 10 foot whip, but it does! I recently recieved a 3 foot 8 plait shot loaded kangaroo hide whip with plaited belly. If you're wondering what shot loading and plaited bellies are... I'll tell ya. Shot loading is when they use a long tapered leather or fabric cone filled with lead shot (think little balls of lead) as the core of the handle and down into the body of the whip. A plaited belly is really another whip inside the outer braiding of the whip, just with fewer strands. All quality whips are made with plaited bellys. Those of you who know this stuff already probably think I'm Captain Obvious, but hey, not everybody knows this stuff. Moving on though, why is it I always injure myself with a new whip? Luckily it's hardly serious, but I did manage a nice sizable bruise on the back of my hand. There's probably alot of people nodding and grinning right now (people who own single tails). So if you're getting one of these whips and you're new to them like me, ya might consider leather gloves. Above all else, a single tail is ACCURATE. Wowee zowee, kids. I was doing that take-a-leaf-off-a-tree thing in the back yard with it, almost an inch at a time. Cooool beans. |
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Here's a cool topic: Ambidextrous Whips. Whether you're right or left handed, learning to use the whip in both hands is priceless. Not only does it help you feel and understand the whip MUCH better, you can spend at least twice as long practicing. Like I said before, cracking a whip is work. At some point your dominant arm is gonna feel like burning jelly. If you can switch arms then you're just getting warmed up in your practice session! And anyway how else are you gonna learn to crack whips like that guy in Underworld? No I'm not there yet either, but I did tear a playing card with my left hand and I can do the forward crack with 2 whips simultaneously. They don't crack simultaneously when you've got a 10 footer in the right hand and a six footer in the left but it sure is fun. Gad, this means I have to buy another whip! I'm gonna be living on Ramen soon. Oh one last thing... when you're trying it with your off hand... GO SLOW. And for cryin' out loud do not try it without goggles. |
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Some cool trivia here... know what makes a whip crack? The damn thing is breaking the SOUND barrier. That's right folks, the end of that whip is going at least 700 miles per hour. I've heard between 700 and 750 miles per hour. That's as fast as a fighter jet when it breaks the sound barrier. Chuck Yeager may have been the first to break the sound barrier in a plane... but the first person to crack a whip was the first person to do it. :) Sonic boom, baby. |
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I was right, the playing card was not far off. I did it. Not on the first try, but I did do it. It's all about 6 foot whips for accuracy. That and smooth movement. |
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How could I forget this... I read online recently (so it MUST be true...) That a new Indiana Jones movie is under works. But check THIS sh!te out... They wanted to replace the real bullwhip with a computer generated one for safety issues. Apparently there's some new bit of bureaucracy in hollywood over actors and how much danger they can be exposed to. Now concerning Harrison Ford... that's not bullsh!t with the bullwhip. He IS cracking that thing. He devoted countless hours of blood sweat and tears to get as good as he is with a whip and now Hollywood is telling him it's too dangerous. I saw some behind the scenes footage from Temple Of Doom where Harrison took a freaking Dixie cup off a bush with what had to be at least a ten foot whip. Dangerous? Yes, HE IS. But there's no safety issue here. Now, here's the buttery part. Harrison, solid hombre that he is... laid down his ultimatum. No whip, NO movie. Chew on that, Hollywood bureaucrats |
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Folks, if you're thinking of taking up bullwhipping, DO NOT start with a long whip. You will be
A)Frustrated
B)Exhausted and
C) Injured.
Now I've been all of the above from whips, thankfully not recently. I did recently invest in a 6 foot whip of the same make earlier described and MAN o man was it worth it. Cracking a whip is work. The shorter the whip, the less work you do and the more accurate it will be. I'm not snuffing candles yet, but the playing card is not far off! |
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JOOOOOY! :D Good gad, I couldn't BE more pleased. It's sleek. It's light. It's f'n deadly. It's buttah. My old whip is still a great workhorse but this new whip is a work of art. Rolls out like a dream right out of the box. Cracks loud on every throw I tried. Looks more like Catwoman's whip (Pfeiffer, the only movie Catwoman worth mentioning) than Indiana's, but I couldn't be happier. God, the VELOCITY of this thing! Heee heee heeeeee! |
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My obession is now reality. Or as soon as the postal service can make it so. But I did myself one better. Why get an 8 foot whip? I have an 8 foot whip. Freakin Indy had a 10 foot whip, I want one too, demmit! And now I shall. Man I'm like a kid days before christmas now. I hope that thing ships fast. |
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Current obsession, besides curvaceous women of course... NEW BULLWHIP! I've gone as far as I can with the 8 foot swivel handle. Great for making noise but that's about it. Sure you can make it wrap around stuff, but I want accuracy. I wanna cut playing cards in half. Heck, I wanna take a leaf off a tree one inch at a time. Snuff out candles. Want a whip that cracks like a gunshot when you roll it out straight. Yep, no doubt about it. That 8 foot shot loaded fixed handled beauty is gonna be mine. AAAALL miiiiiiiine! Insert crazed Ren Hoek laugh here. Okay that crazed laugh probably scared some folks so I should say that the bullwhip is not something that I would use on a person at this point. They're just a whoooole lotta fun to crack. :) |
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Male Dominant, 50, champlin, Minnesota
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Male Dominant, 48, New York
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Dominant Couple, 51, Jackson, Tennessee
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Male Dominant, 55, Belmont, Massachusetts
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Female Submissive, 28, Near Atl, Georgia
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Male Submissive, 38
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Female Submissive, 47
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Male Submissive, 22, rockland, New York
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Male Submissive, 30, Largo/Clearwater, Florida
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Male Dominant, 26, Cleveland, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 27, Minneapolis, Minnesota
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Male Switch, 36, HARRISBURG, Pennsylvania
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