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TheWolfFather

Male Dominant, 42
Female Submissive, 21, B.C
Dominant Couple, 60, near Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
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About TheWolfFather

This page is under constant evolution. That is to say it will be evolving into more than what you see...no way of knowing which way its growing, so lets see what happens, shall we?

**SERIOUSLY. READ THE PROFILE.**

##WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - YOU DO NOT HAVE MY PERMISSION to use any of MY profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.##

I do prefer a conversation before adding people, though some folks do slip through the cracks. If you are looking for my respect, please respect this.
I can be a great friend, but if you hurt the people I care about, It takes a lot to pull me from you once I have reached that point. I am an Alpha, but this does NOT mean I’m an egotist trying to be billy bad-ass. I am a Pack Alpha of the Mountain Pack and being Alpha means I look out for my pack 1st and foremost and I try to balance right and wrong rather than trying to just please myself. I lovingly guide them with the help of my Beta and we do indeed have a council that makes decisions. I am very Pack oriented.

Looking to meet folks of like minds and interests everywhere really. Trying to help make Fetish lives more socially acceptable.
I'm an open book so feel free to ask me anything, especially if I say anything that seems off-kilter. Please don't assume...ask. It likely is a misunderstanding that can be explained.

I am looking for play partners at this time. I am very open with who I play with. But if I decline, please respect it.
"I don't want to be in a romantic relationship with you" doesn't mean I don't want your friendship or to engage in play time with you. Trade one kind of love for another and let's be good with it.

However if you belong to me, then you are mine. A simple rule: You are MINE. No others (outside of children) are before me and you need to proudly display that you are Mine.
I expect honesty, respect, devotion, loyalty, open communication, obedience and for you to be a place of comfort. In return, I will be the one who guides you, cherishes you, disciplines you, I will care for you in all ways and will be your safe place and comfort in this world.

I ideally have anywhere between 1 and 5 submissives at any time of many varieties.

**Lying is a deal breaker. So is lying by omission**

A head's up, I am a big guy (some meat in the middle) and a great person to know, a very loyal, compassionate and loving friend. I have a very spiritual though not religious nature, but if you try to hurt me or the one's I care about, I can and will tear your world apart...and I don't do it as a warning. I *can* and *will* get Ugly, Real Quick!

I am very Jekyll and Hyde in much. I keep my Life separate from my career and other things. If you cannot respect this, you had best walk now. I will not tolerate it and you do not want to know me if you cannot respect it. We will leave it at that.
As I mentioned above, I am spiritual. I am a New Thought minister and I am affiliated with no one faith. I find them all to be equally valid and expect the same courtesy. If you cannot handle that because of your own ego based religious views or mock-atheistic views (as opposed to decent ones who are not just anti-religious, closed minded, fundies in disguise. No, your opinion is NOT an excuse for ignorant behavior, just as it isn't one with any sort of extreme right or left wing group), then I am obviously not the person you would find much in the way of friendship with.

I am a lascivious voluptuary. Look it up. Educate yourself with google.

I am a Semi Sadist. I will love bringing you pain, I will love making you love it…I will also love to bring you comfort as well. See, I got this thing about symmetry…

I am very in touch with both my masculine and feminine sides, so do not expect a testosterone over-dosed prick. I am confident, but I don't walk around ready for a fight. THAT is what you call a 5 year old emotionally stunted boy in a man's body. If I seem ready for a fight, you can be damn well certain someone earned me being pissed and nothing less.

I am a single dad of 3 and my best friend IS my ex-wife, so don't ask me to play favorites, it won't be you. Again, one of those things that if you cannot handle that, sorry, it likely won't go far.
I am kind of a bear in my shape right now, but working towards trimming it to an in-shape bear, heheheh! Either way...I make it look goood!

I identify as a Dominant and a Primal.
As for others that may come along down the line...
I often enjoy the company of others no matter what their orientation is Domme/Dom, sub, Switch, Primal, Pervs of every flavor known. Apparently I have jealousy issues...huh...go figure, right? It is something I am working on. But it is there and if it isn't something you can handle, then I don't know what to tell you. I'm human.

There is a sure-fire way to get into my heart. You want it? Then you will work to find it. If you don't, well then don't bother, obviously you didn't want me bad enough.
Always seeking a new adventure.

I am writing my own story, your story and mine could intertwine for a while, but in the end it is my story. I hope you stick around to see how it ends.

Straightening a misconception: I am not here for sex (see above). While I enjoy intimate connections, I also feel it to be mentally, emotionally and even spiritually liberating in the release of much that we bury in our every day lives. I enjoy the companionship I get from Pets and Subs, the affection of a Pet is by far some of the most adoring I have ever experienced. Subs and Slaves as well. As such the Master, or Dom should match. In a D/s relationship, I feel that in truth, the Sub is the one with the ending Yea or Nay on anything, as in truth, the Dom is there for the needs of the Sub. There is a Great responsibility with the precious gift of Trust that has been handed to a Master. And as strict as a Master or Mistress can be, he/she must temper it with affection suited to his or her sub. Be as attentive as you would want your Pet/Sub to be.

That said...
I LOVE the Female form! That isn't just in a sexual way. I love the female body to a degree of appreciation as an individualized work of living art and devotion to a living example of divine perfection. I often have to remind myself in some cases that it isn't alright to reach out to appreciate with my hands as let's face it, it's a person, not a statue. lol If you do not mind me caressing your body randomly, though, please say so. I would be happy to do it. Until then, I will respectfully keep my distance.

It is noticeable I have some favorite parts. For example, I love breasts of all shapes and sizes, I love the vagina for more than just a reproductive device or for sexual gratification, but for all it represents.
But I absolutely love the ass. I accept that it is a genetic design for me to be drawn to these things, but I never do anything small. Sometimes simple, but never small. This isn't to say I do not love small asses. I love them too! LOL!
I love all ass though. Even on the right men.
I also appreciate the Male form for the same reasons above. We were made so beautifully that who, when perfectly honest with themselves, couldn't be so appreciative?
I am honest about this. I find too many folks are not. They find one thing and hyper-focus on it. I can't do that.

Anything else you want to know, you are welcome to ask.

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to be continued...in the meantime...some thoughtful words

A man I consider family, said:

"Sometimes it's the burn that causes the bird to rise from the ashes." And he is absolutely right!

It is often the adversity of the "burn" or painful situation that causes us the most growth.

From that comes the growth we need which lifts our vibration...thus allowing the bird to fly. That is unless we stubbornly hold onto the ashes with our Egoic attachment, resisting the lesson itself. Until we learn to release the ashes, acknowledging them for what they are and being grateful for the lesson itsef, how it helped you grow within, then we are unable to allow ourselves to fly.

It is not easy, you have to be patient, do the deliberate work to alter your awareness from what was, and the fact that it will never be what it was again, into what is and be alright with that. If it isn't something you are alright with, don't worry...you are only part way there, it isnt the end result! Keep going because you can and will make it!

The gratitude comes from knowing you have not only "survived" but have truly grown from this and that it was all designed for you and your chance to evolve into something greater than ever before!

When the lessons are truly accepted and truly incorporated into your understanding of your life, becomes part of your own personal Deep Truth, they fill you with such an indescribable feeling of joy from within that affects your whole life as it lifts your vibration to a higher state than you were before. In essence, Flying!

What a marvelous gift this is!

So... the secret to flying again after a painful lesson:

1) Accept the Burn (What happened happened and after healing it is time to go forward in life),

2) Learn the Lesson (Why did this happen, what personal tools for my betterment have come from this? How can I help others from my lesson so they too might grow?),

3) Release the Ashes,

4) Let Joy from the fact that you have indeed grown from the experience make you feel lighter than air...

and

5) ...Fly!

There is no telling how far it will take you when you allow yourself to release from the past and see what glorious experience is yet to come.

Love, Light and Clear Skies for your Flight!

~Marc Sullivan, Holistic Life Coach/Counselor
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