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I'm a very open-minded person in Vancouver. (Well, Surrey to get technical, but more people know where Vancouver is, than Surrey.)
As a bit of proof that I'm real and I do live in Surry, my place is close to Guildford Mall
Ok, on to other stuff. I tend to be a little reserved at times around people I don't know, until I get a feel for them. Around those that I know well enough, I'm fairly playful and gregarious. An unrepentant hedonist and tactilophile (loving of physical contact.)
My main interests along the BDSM scene tends much more toward the D/s than the S&M. BDSM really begins in the head. Being in the right frame of mind, right mentality for it. The right mood.
I get a little annoyed reading about the "wannabe" Doms, the ones that want to train/break someone, the ones that make demands right off the bat. The ones that expect a girl to move halfway across the country.
BDSM is all about sharing. The Dom without a sub is just a lonely guy. It's like the old Aretha Franklin song: "Respect, all I need is a little respect"
All in all, I'm a fairly 'normal' person. I work a full-time job. I live in a decent place. I don't smoke and don't drink. I keep myself clean and healthy. So.. I'll probably add more later, or if people really want to know something. |
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Another brief to tack on, about honesty.
I don;t think I can really stress the importance of honesty enough. I know, I know, it should be a no-brainer, but apperantly for some people with no brain, they just can't seem to grasp this concept.
If you screw up, it's better to come clean and beg forgiveness than try to hide it in hopes they'll never find out, because once they do... The shit will really hit the fan.
I take honesty seriously, so the level that I'm pretty blunt about my honesty. I'll tell someone what's what, and not beat around the bush at all. Of course, I'm really bad at bluffing, but then I prefer a more direct approach. |
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