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I'm here to socialise, to learn, to gain new friends and maybe have some fun along the way. I want to learn more about myself and about the pleasures of this lifestyle. I'm the first to admit I'm inexperienced (and those that have met me know I make no bones about that fact). I have a lot to learn and I'm always open and willing to accept the advice, guidance and experience of those that have been around the scene longer than I have.
Although I'm not actively hunting for a play partner specifically (read: asking people) there are one or two things that I'm certainly keeping my eye open for if the opportunity arises…
A bottom/sub – who is willing to allow me to practise flogging, spanking, paddling, caning, rope work. Pretty much any aspect of the kinks I'm interested in. They would have to be willing to accept that I am new, I am inexperienced, they won't get the most mind blowing experience with me. But I need the practise, the feedback, the communication and experience to enable to learn, develop and evolve. They don't have to be experienced themselves, although that'd be a massive bonus. And if an inexperienced person was to show interest I'd be willing to play, but on the clear understanding that things are taken slowly and carefully and kept within very safe limits for both our sakes. It could be an opportunity for us both to learn steadily without expectation of each other.
An experienced top/dom – similar to the above, someone who is willing to take the time to show me how to utilise toys and activities effectively and with a degree of technique. Giving me feedback and somewhat tuition on best practise and best uses. And very important to me, how to do it all safely. I suppose some might say I'm looking for a mentor but it doesn't even have to stretch to such a defined relationship. Just a bit of practise or time and tuition under the watchful eye of someone I can learn from and listen to.
I had a tiny bit of experience back a few years ago in the US and since upon returning back to the UK it's something I've buried deep inside, I'm now at the point where I want to let it bubble to the surface, to develop and evolve and see just what it could come to be. I'll say outright that I'm not completely closed to bottoming by any long stretch of the imagination but I'm certainly happier being on the giving end rather than the receiving. But if the right person asks me, I'm able to take a beating with the majority of them! So what do I like exactly? That's an answer that's always evolving and growing. So far I know I love rope. I love the restriction, that act of tying, the wonderful shapes and positions the body can be put into and held fast with a well placed length of ropey pleasure. I've also come to the realisation that I'm starting to show sadistic tendencies. To be fair I've always shown them, but it's only now that I'm starting to recognise them myself. I love to hear the yelp, see the squirm, the flinch. The involuntary twitch of pain as it's inflicted upon the body. I want to learn to give all variety of sensations that cause my play partner to squirm, writhe and make all those wonderful delicious sounds.
As yet my lack of experience doesn't allow me to do that, so I find myself at the start of a long journey. Firstly to gain the trust and friendship of those my path crosses; my peers and betters in kink. Those that have the capability of helping me start to realise the potential I may (or may not if the case need be) have. I'm already listening intently to those that have taken the time to impart some of their wisdom upon me and should anyone feel the desire to do the same. I'm all ears and willing to learn whatever is wishing to be taught. I'm a humble person in the sense that I don't and probably never will think of myself other than someone that's always got something new to learn from those that can teach and show me, just maybe that I'll know a little more tomorrow than I do already today.
I'll try most things once, at least I can say for sure if I don't like it that way!
If there is anything that you want to ask, or if you just want to fire up a conversation, my inbox is open... |
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