sultrydesires


sultrysub Female Submissive, 53	sultrysubtx Female Submissive, 55, Cypress, Texas	SultryMomma Female Dominant, 37, Syracuse, New York

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	About sultrydesires im not real good with words all the time, but i hope i get my point across without seeming lax/disrespectful in anyway. i find myself submissive by pure nature. its a need/craving to explore this side. to become the best i can as a sub/slave/woman and person in general.. i belive true submission comes from the very depths of ones very being and soul...and there is no doubt in what is set out to be done... it grows more when nurtured/taught/trained by that one true Master who can and will guide the girl into self discovery. test and push limits...and for her to live and learn thru all of this...to set the goal on being the best she can be in any and all ways as a sub/woman and person. im different then most i think, i belive in pretty much old school ways ... where the Master/Dom is the one in control...not the other way around.... For the Master/Dom to set balance for the girl, guidelines/rules/etc for a girl to follow...to be the girl he wants...to be obedient and follow His instruction. Control/obedience....grab the mind thru this and the rest all falls into place. While sex is good yes, it is a perk, it is not the sole basis of all of this to me...again yes i know it is vital but i think control of the mind stimulates one more sometimes. that look, that tone of Ones voice....or pure silence can make or break a girl.... to deny what one truly is is only lying to themselves, it is and can also be very crushing to ones demeanor... to accept who and what you are, will only make you grow and thrive all the more. Be Well........ *trust is a very a very fragile thing and not to be taken for granted, for once it is broken it is not easily mended if at all*

its amazing speaking with different age group men and how they are....how they react, how they speak and have the nerve to call someone names ...... especially when it is their error in how they read something.... thought this was a place for adults? While I may be submissive by pure nature I am also a grown woman, I am not in kindergarten and I am not about name calling....its ridiculous...lol. I speak my mind, yet I am respectful of those deserving, if you are rude, then I will of course respond in like manner, because respect is no longer deserved.UQ

truly amazing, is it that hard for ppl to be sincere? dom or not? in speaking to someone recently, words back and forth, possibily of more? who knows...but to get to know each other was asked for then to poof away and disappear, delete account...how wounderfully good is that? guess I was taken or tried to be taken for a fool .. to fall prey to someone who means nothing of what is said out of his mouth......one more lesson learned...believe in close to nothing anymore as words are as empty as many actions... tho I wish all well dispite it all.

Gone for a while, came back, sad to see things apparently do not change. guess the same lesson learned again and again will always prevail....and trust now will never seem to happen ... because there is never any true truth.....

Guess its just that time again to take a few steps back and re-evaluate a few things...

really wondering why...

ppl can't read and respect what is said in profiles, i mean really is it that hard to understand some things said?

why some say they are interested then poof and go MIA...

truely honestly can anyone tell me why its so hard for ppl to say what they mean AND mean what they say?

is it not for the Dom/Master to answer questions that the submissive has to ease her insecurities and to make sure things are all ok? i mean even if the question was asked a few times? how can a girl or even the Dom for that matter truely learn of each other if there are no questions?

The winds of time have changed and taken me to places i thought i would never be, some good some not so good--only time can tell the rest. i am here thinking of those ppl i knew or thought i knew..but did i really? paths choosen,having in gone in different directions, like strangers in the nite passing each other by. it is now, it is my time, to decide, to choose my own path to take. where will i go? where will i end up? with my shadow at my side, being my guide -- i begin. there is no turning back, its time to move on. after all i am my one and only true protector. i go running blindly into the midst of shadows and light i say good bye to those i thought i knew. my journey now begining, as i walk alone amoungest the wicked and divine. meeting each hurdle as they come, facing them with all that i am -- i keep moving on.

Still here, still wondering why people dont read and repsect what you have to say in your profile. so many supercial wanabes...so many who are out just to get laid...so many who IM ..hey got pics? lol. thats always a great starter isnt it?

i really wonder why i stay around half the time. glutton for stupidity and punishment i guess, in hopes somewhere out there, there is a MAN not a boy not a women who will mean something...who will be respectful...of who i am as a women and submissive, and one who will respect what i have to say..not just stomp all over it and disregard it as if it were trash.

Still living and learning, still realizing most ppl dont mean a lick of what they say. i never in my life thought it would be so hard for grown adults (men) to just be honest and mean what they say. yes i know it can and does go both ways but my expereince only lies within dealing with the men.

why is that ppl ( Doms ) yes gona say Doms..assume things before even asking...being judged is not the way to make things right.

time to try something new.

Why is it so hard to reply to mails? isnt it just common courtesy as if someone bumped into you on the street ... how hard is it ... only takes 30 seconds or less.....thinks thats one of my biggest pet peeves...

i do my best to answer any and all mails even if just to respond with a simple hello and well wishes..

i am me flaws and all .... in search of my true self that somehow got lost along the way....... ~~~~~~Respect is given till its no longer deserved..trust is fragile....as honesty is vital...without any of these..you basically have nothing~~~~~~..................'Ppl who judge others really need to take a good look in the mirror at themselves before casting stones or harsh words...for the most part they do so to hide their own insecurities and flaws' *******

ever have a need not a want...but a desire & need...so deep to your very core it literally made you ache?

TRUST is a very fragile and rare comodity it seems these days...so why is it so brutally abused?

i feel RESPECT is just natural order -- to give an recieve it, its human nature; so for me its given till no longer deserved...which it an take a lot to lose respect.

TRUST on the other hand has to be earned. it has to be taken slow, nutured, grow and blossom within two ppl.

This too is where HONESTY comes into play...to be able to speak the truth and nothing less. i mean if we are here as grown adults...why is there a need to lie? why waste your breath or someone elses time? (yet i know and have learned the hard way some thrive and thril on others pain).
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i guess this lil rant comes from a semi recent situation...in thinking you know One...having them talk you into meeting....trusting....letting your guard down.....opening up to them...giving in a little....only then to be tossed to the side like you dont even exisit.

here likes the lack of honesty and respect..all do to broken trust....leaving you with nothing but regret.

i hate bad mouthing ppl but this is gona be a little rant.

i wonder why it is ppl just cant respect what is in profiles...sad..i have to wonder if anyone truely reads them and comprehends them...

i have it written pretty clearly for NO ONE under 42 waste my time and i have a little boy of 19 contacting me thinking he is gona teach me something...gota wonder..lol..how to maybe play xbox? lol...

with the life ive had i have seen more in one year of my life then he has in his entire lifetime so far.

then not to mention i have submissives wanting to submit to me, do they not read i am a submissive myself?

it gets to be tiresome and a bore when ppl come here and just dont pay attention or jsut plain dont care.

i feel true submission comes from ones very core..her very being...BUT it can and will be nutured when the Master guides her--with firm hand, kind heart, a strong shoulder for her to lean on. One who will help her up if she falls....but most of all have the patience to help her without passing judgement and turning His back and walking away.

Question of the day..

why do ppl view profile an add you as a favorite..admire you from afar YET never speak to you and if you send them a note they dont repsond?

i mean really...whats the point?

just one of those evenings where things run amok in head that prevent one from sleeping at a normal hour. here it is already 1230am....mind just seems to be in overdrive.

wondering too as i peek back here why it seems some just wish to play games.

i know i am by far not a perfect person. i have my flaws..but..dont we all?? we all have and made mistakes in our lives and can learn from them....

i do wonder tho, why it is so very difficult for those who are a grown adult to take a brief moment to respond to an email.

isnt it only commnon courtesy? woudnt they want the same in return?

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