Sultan Murati (the Black Sultan) ruled over Turkey just before the First World War -- when Turkey was the gigantic Ottoman Empire. Sultan Murati was a welcome guest at famous royal families, used to wine and dine with top managers and organized splendid festivities in his palace. Like all sultans, also Sultan Murati had a harem of beautiful and intelligent women who considered it a high honor to serve the Sultan. Those women were treated extremely well and enjoyed a very high status all across the empire. One of the women in the harem was the Sultan's favorite. She dominated the other women of the harem and accompanied the Sultan during his most important state visits and business diners.
Now about me. I am a dominant manager (40yr, broun-grey hair, 1m72, warm eyes, often a big smile, soft hands, a good listener and a correct attitude). I am working hard to develop my own busness empire. My first successes drive me to accomplish ever more. However, this has nothing to do with money, so do not think of me as a rich and safe harbour. I am not and I will know it when that is driving you towards me. But if you enjoy being supportive to my business success, than I will welcome you in my circles. I once have read a great Chinese saying: a man has lived a great life when he has climbed a mountain, grown a tree and written a book. This kind of business passion is truly mine.
The corporate value I appreciate most is honesty. As an honest man I also know that I am not able to become the exclusive partner of one woman -- like many other man on this planet, although few will admit. Main point is that I do know and recognize the difference between loyalty and exclusivity. Loyalty means that I do not give up easily, that I remain supportive of my partners and friends, that I perseve being a shoulder to lean on. Exclusivity would mean that I would never share my bed with another woman and that to me is a bridge too far. What I do want is to build and maintain an honest and correct relationship based on loyalty with four intelligent women like you. It is not my intention to sleep around and to live the stressy life of cheating or misleading other women in promising a dream of life-long partnership in order to obtain a one-night-stand. Ladies, this is a serious profile incorporating a great ancient dream now becoming the quest of my life.
Wanting to share my bed with more than one woman in an open and honest way, is only one reason why I whish to develop my life just like Sultan Murati and create a compact harem of four intelligent women. I want to live in a lovely family that bursts from activity and culture (home theatre, private concerts, dinner parties, ...), where positive people can share much more than thoughts, where tasks are distributed over more than two persons so that much more free time becomes available for individual intellectual development or cultural outings, where there is always one or more shoulders to lean on whenever you experience problems at work, etc. This family could be yours ... if you are able to put aside the ugly instinct called jalousy, and enjoy the miracle of sharing.
Main difference between Sultan Murati's harem and my family of four, is the absence of the extremely heavy competitiveness that drove harem women into drastic actions like murder. In my opinion, harems failed because the women were competing to become the one that give birth to the Sultan's oldest son, since that gave them the most honored position of the Sultana, the mother of the next Sultan. Even if I am now looking for my first wife, you will never be a number one. Agreed, you will be the one selecting all the next, whereas the other women will always select one person less than you. But from the moment the second, third, and fourth woman will arrive, I will split responsibilities and make sure tasks are shared equally. The reduction of internal competitiveness is also why I envision four women with four different focusses. One will focus on organization, technology and finance, a second on health, sports and food, a third on social relations, receptions and parties, a fourth on decoration, clothing and culture. Each will have a specific topic in which she can become ever better, yet share the executional part of those responsibilities amongst all four. This way, sharing also implies sharing of knowledge and ideas - a very interesting cultural melting pot.
Ideal Person:
I'm looking for an attractive woman with a business image. A woman that is noticed on business receptions because of her image, her radiance, her class ànd her modesty. This woman must definitely be intelligent -- although intelligence is not measurable by diplomas or IQ tests. Anyway, EQ is more important than IQ. Of the utmost essence is that you are a trustworthy partner in business discussions and are able to lead a thorough conversation on many topics. In the same time, I whish you to adore class and style, whilst not being a heavy spender or a brand addict.
I do also hope that you love long walks in nature, as well as weekend city trips, chat as well as philosophy, open fire and candles, nice food, theater, meeting new people, home receptions and diner parties, human psychology, etc. Wanting a cousy family life will be as important as the business radiance. I hate laziness, and want all of us to perform the tasks that have to be done, yet I do understand moments of tranquillity and mental rest are needed to put that activity in balance.
What can you expect? Behind this strong man will stand four strong women. You could be one of those woman. When you want to bring your life in function of mine (and ours), I offer you a fascinating time with drive and ambition, with steaming moments and periods of sound tranquility, a passionate life with variation and discovery.
For your information. To me, BDSM is not about commands and duties. Dominance implies agreement on each others terms and limits. You will set your own boundaries of course, and together we will discuss what is and what is not possible. Respect leads to respect.
What you do not have to expect: dishonesty is the worst value I can think off. Of course no animals, kids, etc.
