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Sugarrgerl7

Female Submissive, 22, jax, Florida
Female Submissive, 67, Long Island, New York
Dominant Couple, 30, austin, Texas
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About Sugarrgerl7

I DO NOT CHAT HERE SO DO NOT REQUEST ONE!!!!!

UPDATE 2011/2012

I am now wanting a SugarrDaddy to spoil Me and be rewarded for their generous$ ways as I see fit..... Contact Me on *



I am starting to take request for FemmeDomme&Filme Sessions ....
You Must live within My state, Be Totally Submissive/Slave Oriented, D/D free, SSC, Bi-Curious, and want RealTime only......Sessions will be filmed and posted on My New FemmeDomme&Filme Website. Participants can decide to be "anonymous" or disguised....


I look forward to hearing from interested SlubbieToys...! Contact Me on F * E *T *L *I *F *E , Sugarrgerl7 there also.....





HELLO TO ALL...;D
I HAVE "MOVED" TO Using My other afore mentioned Profile more than here. Same name SUGARRGERL7......and TONS of Session pixs added there also.

BE SURE AND ID YOURSELF TO ME WHEN YOU CONTACT ME THERE WITH YOUR PROFILE NAME HERE.
I WILL BE CHECKING IN HERE SPORADICALLY AT BEST .

LOVE8
SUGARR





WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.






ps....my favorite erotic literature is Song of Songs, yes children that is in the BIBLE......talk about devotion and submission, discipline and desire......YES!!!
When was the last time you read that chapter....????




....SUGARRGERL7 there also

I am starting to take request for FemmeDomme&Filme Sessions ....

You Must live within My state, Be Totally Submissive/Slave Oriented, D/D free, SSC, Bi-Curious, and want RealTime only......Sessions will be filmed and posted on My New FemmeDomme&Filme Website.  Participants can decide to be "anonymous" or disguised

 

I look forward to hearing from interested SlubbieToys.....CONTACT ME ON .... I am SugarrGerl7 there also, and will RARELY check in here....

 

Love8

SUGARR

U CAN CATCH ME or CONTACT ME ON F*E*T*L*I*F*E*

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif">VIA CON DIOS http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif">


LOVE8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif">
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif">OK, ...So I took a good reflective break from the "Net" and life in general....I always seem to try and "step" back I guess around My Birthday....Which was at the end of May....I turned 44!!!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif">  (tadaaah!)   YUMMMMMMEEEE!!!.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif">

And "They" had their doubts.... (...and "They" know who "They" are...http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0021.gif">)

This growing budding self life tour yingyang exploration tastetesting Yay or Nay groove thing I have going is and has been very satisfying in some good and needed ways.....Just One of which is that I have been able to fall back in love WITH just Love and Loving again, to want to Love again especially in a Romantic and Sexual AND BDSM way is just an amazing gift that I thank God for....and as I sit here and type thru the sudden tears of "Epiphany".... (which I just love those...don't U????...http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0119.gif">) for just right now...I am contented? happy? OK?Good?  ALL while still yearning and wanting and needing and laughing and having and giving and hoping and prayyyyyyING!!!!!    LMAAO..... 

So Truly realizing the -- Domme Domina Bitch Gerl Sister  Tits Ass Smile Attitude 6ft Forgiven Female Strong Black Woman that I am and can try to continue to be-- has been one hell of a trip that I hope continues for a very long time and then .....there is Heavenhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0560.gif">....Gotta Love that.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0143.gif">

Love8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0555.gif">
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif">



PS.....
Coming soon
.... It is also time for another  ...."Open Love Letter to U...."http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif">yay!!!!

Hmmmmmmmmmm..... more 'Reflection" time......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0287.gif">

I saw this and thought it was cool and interesting .....Thanks to
bdsmdom719




1/14/2010 12:00:27 AM:
Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. If you can raed tihs, psot it to yuor wlal. Olny 55% of plepoe can.
RANDOM THOUGHTS TO SHARE......  http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif">


I am thinking of taking a break from here and F*E*T*L*I*F*E*.... To be able to take the time and sort thru some of the responses I have gotten and clean out some of the BS....  I do just love running off lil babieboies who are just wannabes..... Like I said This Bitch Bites!!!!!   

I like this new definition of "Slubbie".... A good combo of Slut,Slave and Sub....which is exactly what I am looking for.... A TRUE "Slubbie" 



.....YUMMMMMMMMYY!!!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0005.gif">

Love8
SUGARR
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I should write something along the lines of "How to court a Domme".......   Hmmmmmmmm....  Any good suggestions out there?????

Love8
SUGARR
A Dear Sweet Sub sent me this...It just proves to me that I am normal..... Ahhhh...validation is such a sweet sweet nectar of a thing.....Isn't it.... http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif">.

I want to share some thoughts from Domina-Psychologist Ms. Elise Sutton which show that a Domina needs comforting and cuddling like any Woman, and that a submissive man can honor Her by providing that when needed---it does not make Her ANY leaas Dominant over him, but just expects him to fulfill a normal male duty with a Woman.

Here are Ms. Sutton's thoughts:

The dominant wife still needs that life partner to be
there to express her disappointment or frustration.
The woman who had a horrific day at work and wants to
be cuddled and comforted by her husband should
discover that the submissive male is truly interested
and is honored to be there for her. Comfort and
support is not dominance. For centuries the submissive
wife has been there to comfort and support her
husband. Society has expected this out of the woman so
now that the tables are turned, the submissive husband
needs to be there for his wife to provide emotional
support. The D&S sessions and FemDom activities should
keep the husband centered and focused on serving his
Queen, be that service domestically, sexually,
socially or emotionally. 
                                 ------------------------------

In submissive male respect and honor to Your Female Power,

pete


So, of course things have become complicated again within my own heart and emotions......What to do when You don't know what to do....?.... Keep on Keepin' on.http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0487.gif">

Love8
SUGARR

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif">RANDOM THOUGHTS PURGE TIMEhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif">




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I Need some TLC, some snuggling and cuddlin and lovin'.....
Feeling pretty vulnerable sensitive and protective and hostile all at once.....
Worn out from coping with everything.

Still looking for.....

Love8
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I am going to start using my profile? FxExTxLxIxFxE a whole lot more......Still?? SUGARRGERL7?? there also.....Just FYI....?http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0005.gif" />
love8
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UGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif" />
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Sweet, sweet submission?.  It is a treasure to a true Domme?.. And that, of course, is who U are dealing with?Me.

For someone to truly want to submit, willingly, conciously, purposefully, not with Their agenda or how they "think" they should submit?.. -even from first contact-?.., but how I want submission?.and How I want Y/you to submit to Me?..

Not what you want, but what I want and need....because what U want as My sub/slave, should be to fulfill my desires and needs and wants, while I in return fulfill yours as Yours' .That should be what Your need and desire is....To Please Me, so I in return can please U....Just like a big circle....the circle of life, like that Lion sings about..... http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif">


OK, So that makes sense to me...and if it does to U....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0024.gif">
love8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif">
;D(88888



love8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif">
OK RANDOM EPIPHANY TIME......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif">
I think I am trying to give the gift of myself, MY TRUE SELF, too the wrong people.....

and....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0292.gif">OUCH  http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0534.gif">

Love8
Sugarr
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WTF!.......??????


OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Saw this on a profile here...and I totally agree with it...from a Dommes perspective of course.....But part of being a Domina is understanding, Preferably from EXPERIENCE, what it is like to submit.....



" I want him for living out every fantasy I've ever had regarding relationships and I want to fulfill every fantasy he's ever had regarding them as well. Vanilla men cannot be bothered with this for the most part. Trust me, I know, I've tried. "

And I must admit, it is getting old wading thru the bs and continuing to try, and I question if it is worth it, even tho I know it is....Just still in pain from recent incidents.....

Love8
Sugarrhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0245.gif">
I have been in tears off n on all day...In tears now as I type and post this.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0020.gif">I am empty and need to be filled up and nurtured, and I am alone...... and I am hurting.  Mentally physically emotionally, spiritually, personally outwardly and inwardly.....I am hurting. http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0032.gif">  Bad....
......and being on my period IS of course only adding fuel to the flame......

How can I not LOVE....?  How can I not express it and give it and search for it and recieve it and love.....I love quickly and trust quickly, and because that is how I am, I make myself vulnerable to damage....That is not an easy thing to do or be, especially since it is natural to me to do so...It is natural for me to love and trust, but it would be a mistake to think that it is EASY for me....  Quick does not mean Easy....especially when it comes to suffering thru the broken promises and hurt damaged feelings and letting the pain exist and letting myself feel it so it can heal, so  I can LOVE again.....


love8
Sugarr
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Looking for the sub/slave Love of my life, is becoming weary and taxing to my sensitive heart and emotions.....
but I believe the pain will be worth it to find the right one/ones .... I hope it happens soon....
You know that old saying that You gotta kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince....Well Frogs are also edible....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0251.gif">
love8
Sugarr

About to get some extra time on my hands....and then who knows....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0142.gif">

 I need a vacation....to Hawaii tho>>>>.....!!!!! NOW http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0270.gif">would be good!

Listening to Aretha and Led and singing the blooos and http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0019.gif">  http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0020.gif">crying.... http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0026.gif">
It is a good day for it tho...I must admit.  And it is time for a good one.....so..http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0023.gif">


love8
Sugarr
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maybe later....time to play?http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif">....."Mabey"....
     
At the suggestion of a few to many, I have changed my profile background and hope this will make it more readable on certain comp screens......BUT.....it will live on here in my journal.....


love8
SUGARR http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif">



http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0487.gif">UPDATE APRIL 16th/2010 

I am pretty blunt and opinionated. and don't ask for what I am not willing to give.....pretty WYSIWYG.  If this profile is "too long for you to read" completely....shame on ya!  Your loss.....
 http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif">
.....so here we go....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0162.gif">
(hang on KIDS!!!!!.....)

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif">HELLO ALLhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0279.gif">
I AM NOW ACTIVELY SEEKING AND SEARCHING FOR EAGER WILLING ATTENTIVE CONSISTENT CLEAN RELIABLE TRUSTWORTHY FUNNY/SENSE OF HUMOR INTELLIGENT  SUB/SLAVE MEN TO PLAY WITH, TRAIN AND  QUEEN. .....IN REAL TIME.....  .. IE....THIS WILL BE A BAPTISM BY FIRE KIND OF THING... ...(NOT FIRE PLAY! You just don't "play" with fire....;D)....THIS WILL EVENTUALLY BECOME A LTR, 24/7 LIVE IN SITUATION IN AND  UNDER THE GIFT OF MY COLLAR, AND YOU WILL BE AT MY BECK AND CALL , OWNED AND CHERISHED BY ME.....NO BI OR CUCKHOLD PLAYING.  YOU WILL  ALSO BE KEPT IN CHASTITY  COMPLETELY IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THAT PLEASE CONTACT ME  HERE ON CM,....--AFTER YOU READ MY PROFILE COMPLETELY....,..... --WITH ANY QUESTIONS CONCERNS OR COMMENTS, AND TO PROPERLY INTRODUCE YOURSELF INCLUDING PICS.....
IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO CONTACT ME FOR ANY  OTHER REASON, (friendship, info exchange, or poss roommate)PLEASE DO SO, ESPECIALLY IF WE HAVE ALREADY BEEN IN CONTACT AND EXCHANGED MSSGS......and  PLAYING HARD TO GET WITH ME...ie NOT RESPONDING TO MSSGS SENT FROM ME OR INVITES TO CHAT,  IS A HUGE COLLOSSAL TURNOFF TO ME....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0013.gif">  so don't do it...especially if I have initiated contact with you.

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif">LOVE8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0487.gif">
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0245.gif">SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif">
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.....AND  YES....
IT IS POSSIBLE TOO HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO
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mmmmmmmmmm.....cake.



JUST FYI   HEED WHAT I SAY......ie pay attention.... especially if I repeat something or list it as a HARDLIMIT....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif">


RESPECT AND GO BY MY RULES , BECAUSE I WILL RESPECT AND GO BY YOURS, AND I WILL ALSO "GIVE YOU ENOUGH ROPE TO HANG YOURSELF WITH".....

I AM LOOKING FOR SUBMISSIVE SLAVE STRAIGHT MEN ONLY....   AND YOU WOULD BE IN SERVICE TO ME ONLY....  IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR FORCED BI PLAYING LOOK ELSEWHERE. ANYBODY ELSE WHO CONTACTS ME SHOULD BE FOR FRIENDSHIP  INFO EXCHANGE ONLY PLEASE......

MAKE SURE  THAT YOU ARE SEEKING A TRUE REAL TIME DOMME NOT CYBERING PHONE BS AND NOT SOME LONG DRAWN OUT COURTSHIP THAT GOES NO WHERE IN 6 WASTED MONTHS........
  (ie the previous "Baptism by Fire" reference)....  ......

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0004.gif">.IT IS A VERY GOOD IDEA TO ACTUALLY TAKE THE TIME AND READ MY PROFILE AND SOME OF MY JOURNAL ENTRIES BEFORE YOU CONTACT ME!!!! http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0164.gif">    THERE ARE SOME "HINTS"/INFO THAT WOULD BE GOOD TO HAVE SO WE CAN HAVE A DECENT CONVO....SUCH AS, 

HARDLIMIT>>>>>
I AM COMPLETELY
DOMMEhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0488.gif">....I DO NOT SWITCH.  WEATHER FROM THE TOP OR BOTTOM.....I AM ALSO NOT SOME  ABUSIVE IDIOT UNDER THE GUISE OF BEING DOMMEhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0017.gif">....SO IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO CONSTANTLY KICK YOUR ASS MENTALLY PHYSICALLY EMOTIONALLY AND SPIRITUALLY....LOOK ELSEWHERE...., I AM NOT INTO THAT, http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0251.gif">http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0105.gif">ANYMORE....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0279.gif">

MY GAMES MY RULES
ALWAYS in ALL WAYS!....IF THAT MEANS VANILLA THAT MEANS VANILLA, IF THAT MEANS RED STOP  GREEN GO THAT MEANS RED STOP GREEN GO!,   WHAT I SAY, GOES, PERIOD. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO SHUT OFF THEIR BRAIN  AND NOT THINK FOR THEMSELVES AND IE, NOT PAY ATTENTION OR COMMUNICATE IN A HEALTHY AND CORRECT WAY ESPECIALLY NOW...... ESPECIALLY WITHIN THIS LIFESTYLE .........ESPECIALLY ONLINE   ESPECIALLY IN REAL TIME...ESPECIALLY WITH ME.....MY GAMES MY RULES ALWAYS!!!!


I AM VERY VERY VISUAL AND NEED FACIAL PIX, NOT JUST THE  RANDOM FRONTAL NUDITY PIX PLEASE !!! THAT IS OLD ALREADY.... AND ATTACHED TO YOUR FIRST MESSAGE SENT TO ME IS ALSO A GOOD "IDEA"..... AND YES THAT IS A HINT!!!! 
PLEASE TAKE IT!!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0029.gif">

NOT HERE FOR ONLINE BS FISHING MONEY GAMES OF ANY KIND!  AND IF YOU TRY TO RUN THEM ON ME, THINGS WILL GET PRETTY UGLY PRETTY QUICKLY.  http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif">DON'T TAKE MY SMILE, KINDNESS AND GENTLE DEMEANOR AS SOMETHING WEAK OR TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OFhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif"> .....THIS BITCH BITES. 
...I repeat MY GAMES MY  RULES ALWAYS.......    AND ONE OF MY PHILOSOPHIES/ RULES IS  KIND OF ALONG THE LINES OF "FIGHT CLUB"....I WILL PURPOSEFULLY TRY TO SCARE YOU OFF AND IF I CAN SCARE YOU OFF.....GOOD, AND VIA CON DIOShttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0012.gif">......AND IF I
NEED/HAVE  TO SCARE YOU OFF....THAT IS A DIFFERENT SITUATION THAT I WILL LET MY GUARDIAN MASTER TAKE CARE OF.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0009.gif">

LET ME PUT THIS RIGHT OUT FRONT ALSO.....I AM VERY HIGH MAINTAINENCE,.... WHICH IS TO SAY THAT I KNOW WHAT I WANT AND WILL BE NOTHING BUT UPFRONT WITH MY WANTS, NEEDS AND DESIRES AND GETTTING THEM MET... BUT I AM ALSO VERY WORTH IT.  AREN'T YOU?
 I HAVE ALWAYS PRACTICED SAFE SEX SINCE I HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY ACTIVE...ALWAYS!!!!!
IE...I AM CLEAN AND HEALTHY AND EXPECT YOU TO BE ALSOhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0009.gif"> AND  I WILL CHECK YOU THE VERY FIRST TIME WE ACTUALLY MEET BEFORE ANY CONACT/PLAYING ....SO EXPECT THIS AND BE PREPARED FOR IT.   

 I SAY WHAT I MEAN PERIOD.....
  I AM AN  ADMITTED COMMITTED DOMME.....IF YOU CHOOSE TO CONTACT ME....DO NOT EXPECT ME TO BE ANYTHING ELSE FROM THE GET GOhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif">.........


MY HARDLIMITS ARE JUST THAT HARD, WRITTEN IN STONE , NOT TO BE COMPROMISED OR APPROACHED OR TESTED IN ANYWAY SHAPE OR FORM.....AND YOU SHOULD PROBABLY KNOW NOW WHAT THEY ARE...ie, READ MY PROFILE, AND I WILL KNOW IF YOU HAVE NOT, SO DON'T WASTE MY TIME OR YOURS.....


I AM NOT INTO THE EXTREME  IE DRAWS BLOOD S&M...AND I CAN DO 24/7 365 WITH VANILLA AT MY DISCRETION.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0064.gif">

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0005.gif">FYI.....CBT IS NOT JUST COCK AND BALL TORTURE.....LOOK IT UP.http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0442.gif">



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The LTR will include  being, mothered, dominated, submitting, obeying, cleaning, massaging, combing/ or playing with  my hair, cooking, chauffeuring and taking me shopping for toys and pretty frilly things to play in and experiment with at home. I am looking for the whole package, and that includes an Oral/queening sex slave also.

I am a gentle strict demanding nurturing, snuggling cuddling spanking loving attentive  sensual sexy AND high maintenace Domme
Goddess, and come by domination honestly, I am told this is because I am the "baby" of my family, (if you know what I mean)...AND THE TWO PREVIOUS MARRIAGES also contributedhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0279.gif">.....That is also how I know I am not a SUB, but love and cherish submission, especially if given willingly, immediately, and genuinely.

I also know that it is not just about being a bitch with a whip , nipple clamps and 7 inch heels 24/7, that there is a "Yin and Yang" balance to be had, and that is neccessary and essential to have a healthy beneficial loving mutual BDSM relationship.   I have alot to  continue to learn and want to continue to learn despite my extensive experience...practice makes perfect. Wanna practice with me??http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0157.gif"> 
I am not a looky loo, a slut, or an idiot, do not treat me like one or suffer my wrath.  And  so
please please please please.... only contact me if you are sincerely looking for someone to, grow with bond with and commit to and watch grow and bond with you in a committed  Mistress/slave relationship, leading to being collared.  If You can "afford" me (and that is not just a financial consideration so DO NOT WRITE ME SOME STUPID RESPONSE ABOUT JUST WANTING TO BE A FINANCIAL SERVANT),   and love BBBW( I mean 6ft and 299lbs not petite at all...and YES that is me in the pics on my profile, taken summer of 2008)....with an attitude, (gentle, when I decide to be gentle, which is most of the time)....then contact me and maybe we will go from there..../;} I only want subs/slaves who are in Colorado FOR IMMEDIATE CONSIDERATION AND REAL TIME PLAY/PRACTICE DATES.  
If you are willing to re-locate to Colorado that is another possible consideration, especially if you do that first THEN contact me... Also, I am VERY visual and tactile, and need pictures if your going to contact me....hint hint
again.....

I am not a golddigger, and can and do pay ALL of my own bills....and expect that in my man/slave/sub. So if your just looking for a "paycheck" or someone to support you financially.....move along before I slap the teeth out your head....If your willing to move in and immediately serve me domestically, that is another convo also...http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0049.gif">

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif">I have definite hard limits, and>>>> NO KIDS NO ANIMALS NO CORPSES NO ABUSE NO COUPLES NO SCAT NO WOMEN>>>>>are some of them  and http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0369.gif">.... some definite LIKES/DEMANDS/NEEDS are......TEASING AND DENIAL.....QUEENING, CBT , foreplay, kissing/makingout being just a few of those.... also some possible scenarios I want to explore and fulfill...


Really, overall, I am willing to safely explore and build trust and friendship heart mind soul body and not just wham bam thank you ma'am.....with the right man/sub/slavehttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif">...Could that be you?
You have my permission to feel free to contact me here via messaging e-mail BUT IM'ING HERE MESSES WITH MY COMP/CONNECTION SO DO NOT INVITE ME TO CHAT ONLINE HERE....IT WILL BE IGNORED......and I look forward to hearing from you.....And let the courtship begin
....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0119.gif">   (and I do mean COURTSHIP.....IE PUT SOME EFFORT INTO IT MAN!!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0486.gif">http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0557.gif">)
LOVE8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif">
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif">





WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.






ps....my favorite erotic literature is Song of Songs, yes children that is in the BIBLE......talk about devotion and submission, discipline and desire......YES!!!
When was the last time you read that chapter....????http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0004.gif">

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0009.gif">Hmmmmmmmm.........


Just spotted this quote on a profile and thought it interesting enough to share.....



"be a slave to your owner and not to Your emotions"


love8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif">

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif">Hmmmmmm...    RANDOM thought time..... http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif">How would One 'define' "Romantic Courtship" within the BDSM Lifestyle....?????  How would a true sub/slave "woo" a true Domina, such as myself......  What would that look like, what actions and words and effort would that "look" like.....

And can I find the right sub/slave/MAN that I as a Domme want too woo, and want to let court me.....?


Hmmmmmmmmm.......  http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif">



love8
SUGARR
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0487.gif">
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0157.gif">need some.........TLC




Today......




http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0251.gif">     WTF     http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0251.gif">




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ouch!, my heart......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0020.gif">
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0008.gif">WTF!!!!!!!!!


I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE DISAPPEAR ON ME!!!!!  THAT KIND OF INCONSISTENT, FLAKEY BULLSHIT PISSES ME OFF!!!!!...BECAUSE IT WASTE MY TIME....and trust me, that is just a sin and a shame!!!!!!
Just because I am Domme, does not mean I don't have feelings and emotions and true love to give from the heart......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0524.gif">
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0020.gif"> When did "Domme" come to mean "heartless" "emotionless" "uncaring"......???? 

OK...http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif">got that out...http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0026.gif">The day can only get better from here ...RIGHT....?!

love8
SUGARR


FINALLY!!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif">THE NEW PIXS I'VE BEEN WANTING, and some of you demanding....lol


What do you think????? http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif">

love8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif">
SUGARR
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A SEMI-RANDOM, POSSIBLY PONTIFICATING,FREE-FORM WRITING,MANIFESTO, STATEMENT AND CREED OF LOVE!  To YOU WHOEVER "YOU" MAY BE.....(ta-dahhh!!!)http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif">




OH HOW I LOVE YOU?..AND HOW I WISH YOU WOULD LET ME DO SO?.BECAUSE I PROMISE YOU ON THE LIVES OF MY CHILDREN AND EVERYTHING I HOLD SACRED, I AM LOVING YOU WITH ALL OF ME, WITH EVERYTHING THAT I AM OR EVER HAVE BEEN OR EVER WILL BE?..IT ACHES ME TO SEE YOU HURTING SO AND IT ACHES ME TO SEE THAT YOU ARE HAVING SO MUCH PAIN TRYING TO TRUST?.I WISH YOU WOULD TRUST ME AND LET ME LOVE YOU AND FOR YOU TO LOVE ME BACK TO TRUST ME ENOUGH TO LOVE YOU?.I AM NOT LIEING TO YOU AND I WILL NEVER EVER PURPOSEFULLY TRY TO HURT YOU?.i PROMISE NOT TO BURN YOU IF YOU PROMISE NOT TO BURN ME?.AND I WILL NOT BURN YOU, AND I WILL SAY I AM SORRY?..AS OFTEN AS I CAN OR YOU NEED ME TO??..I PROMISE TOO LOVE YOU FOREVER IF YOU WILL LET ME AND EVEN IF YOU WON?T, I STILL WILL?..You Are not the only one that ?that? is scary too?..Please let me love you?.YOU.  Burnt and all, because that is all I am asking for also?.Not perfection, but You?That is the only way I know how to do it?.  All you have to do is let me I CAN LOVE PAST THE PAIN, PAST THE BURNT THROBBING PAIN?.I promise.  I HAVE NEVER LOVED A MAN THE WAY THAT I LOVE YOU, AND I NEVER WILL AGAIN  I HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE, YOU HAVE MY HEART.



LOVE8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif">
LAYING HERE ALL SNUGGLY AND READY FOR A GOOD LAUGH AND REFLECTION ON A GOOD DAY.... http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif">

Laying here all snuggly and ready for a good laugh and reflecting on a GOOD day.  Love Sundays, always have since I was little girl and of course Saturdays for cartoons....aye...Just a lil' slice of heaven. Feeling refreshed and able to breathe...and stretch and love.  Love to Love. 
And now to bury myself in dreams.....
love8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif">
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0551.gif">
HHMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.......  what shall I do today...other than catch up on homework and play online?????.....  HHMMMMMMMMMMMMMMhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0287.gif">   Any Ideas.....?????

Love8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif">
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif">


fyi
Somebody...ie subs/slaves/men ...playing hard to get with me is a real turnoff

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0401.gif">I am so excited to be where I am at right now overall.... True I still get cranky and bitchy and emotional, but that is a Womans luxuary...Especially the Domme BBBWoman that I am.http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0430.gif">

I am looking forward to lavishing my love and Dominancehttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0402.gif"> onto a new slave that I am now actively looking/seeking/searching for and enfolding him, or them as the case may be , into my life and heart and homehttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif">....
School is trying to kick my butt, which is such a HUGE target to begin with so,  now I am kicking back,....taking names chewing bubble gum and kicking ass, as the case may be. 
Now it is time for bed and a good quick nites schnooze and then to press on, inspite of myself sometimes, is the goal of the week so I can catch up and get back ahead.....again.



 

LOVE8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif">
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0403.gif">SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0400.gif">



http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0458.gif">http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif">http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0487.gif">http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0279.gif">http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif">http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0049.gif">
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0029.gif">as i type this i am realizing how futile it is to try and squeeze a relationship of this kind into some narrow box by trying to define it.  this relationship is beyond the linear definitions of sub slave mistress dom domme boyfriend wife significant other girlfriend master husband mate... I cannot quite yet pin it down and will encompass all relevent definitions at hand, but I will not cage this beautiful bird that sings this wondrous song of love to us....for that would be a sin....What i will do is enjoy it and care and nurture it and relish every bit, and not bother to "define" it but simply let love be love, however it may come to me, however it may bless us and let "US" be. 


love8
SUGARR
AHHHH!!!
?Decisions of major life importance to make.......That is always fun huh?.....


LOVE8
SUGARR
JUST UPDATED MY PROFILE......

BEHIND IN SCHOOL ALREADY, AND THIS IS JUST THE END OF THE FIRST WEEK.....

....AND LOVIN' IT ALL!!!!!


LOVE8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0017.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
SUGARR
AAwwwwwwwwwwhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0009.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0026.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww............


First day back to school was.....wonderful.....need a good tlc session tho.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Feeling quite giddy and vunerable all at once....... My womans/artistic/hormonalhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0518.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>perogative....sohttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

luv8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0458.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
WOW!!!!.........http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0026.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0009.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Gotta love the "haters"....It was asshole central around here for a few days....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0534.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> 
I love scaring people off tho, is that a good thing???? Hmmmm....YES!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0487.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> NO ASSHOLES ALLOWEDhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0127.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0357.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>......unless your rimming mine!!!!   LOL
AND...I am finally beginning to look towards the holidays, still a lil' grinchy around the edges but..., I am going to see that as a woman's artistic license/perogative......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0245.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Still looking for a photographer, ...... and updating and learning alot...... Which I love!!!  Learning is fun!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0004.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


luv8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0523.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

OK....WTF!!!!!!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0020.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
 ....and it's NOT JUST ME....!!!!! and that is not just my opinion, some very trusted friends have confirmed this also....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0151.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>It has been ass-hole on the loose week for me.....If you know what I mean.....AND not just online!!!!!!







I am Tucking in and Tubin'.......

Via Con DIOS.......


Tomarrow is another .........(fill in the blank)



http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>luv8
Sugarr
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
WARNING:http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0138.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0408.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>VENTING POST TO FOLLOW............ 
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0080.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> ..........ENTER AT YOUR OWN RISK


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Man, it seems tonite that anybody who is contacting me is .......a freak to the 30th degree in an un-healthy way....Does that make any sense??? Or is it just me??
W T F WTF  ?!?!?!?!?!?
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0020.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0308.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0019.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

luv8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0143.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0523.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
hmmmmmmmmmmmmm......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
gonna take a nap and get rid of migraine and then..........What should I do today/tonite.....other than search for a willing photographer ...in CO. of course.....


http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0546.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>Any suggestions????????http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0156.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


luv8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0143.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0523.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>



P.S. ...."deep thought" for the day.... 

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0021.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>Submission....true submission... is such a beautiful trusting gift, to be treasured and adored, apprreciated and honored ALWAYS!!....?????  Can you imagine that?  IF you can....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0022.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
Photographer wanted....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0486.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0554.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>......amongst other things.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>




luv8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0143.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0123.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
It's Wednesday......'nuff said.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

luv8http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0143.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0123.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

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YAY!!!

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luv8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0533.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

I AM RE-POSTING THIS FROM MY JOURNAL FROM 11/19/09........


HEED WHAT I AM SAYING.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0458.gif">


NO LOOKY LOOS, NO OUT OF MY STATE  CONTACT FOR PHOTOGRAPHERS  OR SLEEPOVERS AND NO CONFUSED LIL BOYS WHO SAY THEY ARE LOOKING TO SUBMIT THEN WANT THINGS TO GO BY THEIR "RULES" OR "TIME TABLE"  ....right Harleys' "Daddy"....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif">LOL.....


MY RULES MY GAMES ALWAYS!!!!!  IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE OR FOLLOW MY INSTRUCTIONS/WANTS/DEMANDS/DESIRES/REQUEST >>>>>>.....DON'T BOTHER ME !!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0008.gif"> >>>>NOT A GOOD IDEA TO WAKE A SLEEPING HUNGRY TIGER OR FUCK WITH A MAMA BEAR!!!!

IF YOU ARE INTERESTED FOR TONITE 12/11/09   FRIDAY....CONTACT ME HERE FOR CONSIDERATION


LUV8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif">



11/19/2009 6:39:12 PM
I need a good photographerhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0484.gif">, a good free photographer not necessarily a pro.....  someone who LOVES......  and i mean LOVES .....BBBWhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0018.gif"> 
AND LIVES IN MY STATE  http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0398.gif">

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif">Just FYI...thnx

luv

sugarr
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luv8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Today.....by me.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>



today is WEDNESDAY........http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>my yingyang http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0280.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>day.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>favorite day next to Sundays.http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Wednesdays ........hump day greenday....good day.......MKMEBS day...art day....
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0020.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0030.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>..
enter at your own risk days.......re-assessing where my cheese is days.....Happy day......girl day everyday......

It's also Saturday/cartoons day coming up really quick......could use a good SpongeBob fix.............http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0551.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

luv8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

See previous posthttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0010.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


LOVE8
SUGARR
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AND PS................



THIS IS A PROFILE THAT I SAW OF A NEW FRIEND OF MINE MISTRESS VONNE IN TEXAS AND  hint hint  is looking....I ALSO RECIEVED ANOTHER SUGGESTION FROM A MALE DOM THAT MY PROFILE IS TOO.....hhmmmmmmmmm.....HOW DID HE PUT IT....."wordy" I THINK IT WAS......SO I AM CONSIDERING THIS AS A PART 2 FOR ME.  i HAVE MADE SOME MODIFICATIONS FOR MYSELF/TASTE/NEEDS/INTEREST/DESIRES/WANTS TO IT.......ENJOYhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

No picture equals no response.  No married men (unless you are local and seek to provide maintenance service).

I am a single IE UNMARRIED Domme looking for a real full time houseboy, male submissive, slave. While 24/7 is preferred, I am interested in starting on a part-time basis before converting to something more substantial and involved.  I look for someone eager to serve me and honored by that service. I prefer someone who is not a doormat; which means you have a brain and use it.  If I have to tell you to breathe, you are certainly not for me. I would like to value your opinion because you have  a MIND.  My opinion/decision is final, of course.  I have a dominant personality and have no trouble demanding what I want.   I want someone whose idea of submission actually includes submission.  In other words, MY GAMES MY RULES.....I am not impressed because you consider yourself oral.  Impress me by telling me what your submission would mean to me and how it would benefit me in practical terms, maybe even emotional terms.
I am a sadist.  A simple statement.  I can be gentle, I can be the opposite.  Heed what I am saying.  Although I am a sadist, you do not have to be the subject of this need that I have.  If you are not the subject of this need, someone else might be.
I expect the interactions here to be short and to quickly lead to us becoming more familiar with each other.  Face to Face physical contact....(not neccessarily sexual, but physical) or PHONE CONTACT IS A MUST FOR ME< so, if that is an issue......VIA CON DIOS.

 Please be single, available for 24/7 and want real time. Be between 30 and 50 and able to support yourself FINANCIALLY or BE ABLE TO PROVIDE  IMMEDIATE SERVICE TO ME. 

I prefer men with romantic ideals. You should be service oriented and curious/interested in a variety of bdsm activities.  
Note that in my world, life has more to it than BDSM.  I have other interests; you should have other interests as well. I love music, dancing, mysteries, driving, mechanical interests,  movies and mechanical things amongst other things like  the M-SET......(go google it)
I would be interested in a married  boy as a temporary maid depending on the sub and the situation.  The review would be very stringent.  I tend to do physical exams on my property.  Be prepared for this.

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>SLEEPOVER!!!!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


any takers?????



luv8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0119.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

I have scared off more people this weekhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0487.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>, and also made some really cool friends that I think will be lifers.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>yay!


Got some new "Toys" and plan on going online shoe shopping ASAP
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For now, it is quick nap time and then figure out what I am going to do tonite.....ANY SUGGESTIONS?????

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0486.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

UPDATE......755pm MST

What about a sleepover/hangout/chill/laugh nite.....hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

luv8
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0119.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
See previous post....Still looking for a willing participant.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0024.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>




luv
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0160.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0009.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm..........

I do believe it is time for some CBT practice/fun/session/love, whatever one wants to call ithttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0143.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


....and Queening, and mutual orgasms and making out,http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0018.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> a good make out session!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>....not some wham bam thank you mam' thing.....

YAY!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


Any takers....???.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>lol

luv
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0160.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

OK UPDATE!!!!  905 pm COLORADO TIME

THIS SITE JUST GOT REALLY GLITCHY WITH ME SO, CONTACT ME IF YOU WOULD LIKE AND YOU FOLLOW MY INSTRUCTIONS ON YAHOO AT

JABEZ7ABIGAIL


INSTRUCTIONShttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0009.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
******ID YOURSELF WHEN YOU ENTER IN WITH THE PROFILE NAME YOU HAVE HERE AND THAT I KNOW YOU FROM CM or http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0008.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> *************


http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0009.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>p.s.  I am still looking so........http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0021.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
gobble gobble my loves......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0279.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

This was a bittersweet Thanksgiving, as always.....
Compounded by others "issues" trying to be neatly re-packed into used luggage.....

Food was VERY good, of course, good company, good convos, and great plans for the weekend.....YAY!!!

So, I have 3 really cool guys in my life now, and......hopefully more to come....I am enjoying making friends, and weeding out what I need to.....in more ways than one.....and this "moment to moment" thing that I am still kinda going thru is refreshing, and humbling all at once.....



Quote of the day is...................   drum roll please....

"It is good to know/recognize what "good" is because it helps us to recognize/know the "bad". Truly we do not know what 'good' is, UNTIL we know what "bad" is - and we don't know what 'bad' is UNTIL we know what 'goood' is, which can only be recognized by knowing the two, thru experience.., which can be a bitch!!!...And surprisingly that "experience" can come awfully young sometimes in this day and age....Very young......"  
     Big "Momma" PROPER, "Stone Prophets", pg. 100

"I have come here to chew some bubble gum and kick some ass,....And, I am all out of bubblegum!....."  
     Rowdy Roddy Piper in "They Live"


RIP
My new neighbors recently lost a baby girl to still birth....I weep for them, and it was beautiful how many others did with them and for them also.....

My other new neighbor brought me Thanksgiving dinner because she saw me'alone' all of the time, that was beautiful! and good......

My other neighbor has already COMPLETELY decorated their front yard for Christmas, it is beautiful, and even tho I am still not looking forward to the snow, I am looking forward to the Christmas lights....(I especially want to see the ones down I-25 and the DTC).......

My other other neighbor, is one of my best friends in the whole world that I have ever had and is also a SBW, she has the guts to be herself AND to love, AND laugh and cry and freak and COOK!!....

and I think I am going to like it here, and so will MKMEBS....AND, IT IS CLEAN!






luv,
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0245.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

ps.........



6-26
BRONCOS!!!


OVER THE GIANTS
W T F.........rough last week........http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0020.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
I am a hurtin' unit right.......... now.....rough week already.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0019.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

And I have a bad headache and can't sleep,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,.....................http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0033.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>............




QUOTE TIME.......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
Laugh and Pray , Pray and Laugh

Now that the barn has burned down , I can see the moon

The Devil is a low Motherfucker.....

We fall Down, but We get up

Some people learn faster on fire....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Gotta love the haters, and that is scriptural.http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0150.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

The very thought of you.....

If you ask me too....

AWWWwwww....Hopehttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0245.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>







luv,
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0245.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

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OUCH!!!

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0023.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0033.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0292.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
 http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0458.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


Feeling a bit .....VIVID right now so........http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> 



Most of today is laugh day, and cry day and decompress, refocus, pray, laugh, whatever, and of course LAUnDRY!!!!!   I need an iron and ironing board sooooo bad......AND a good nap!!!!......

Enter at your own risk.....LOL
luvhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0164.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
11/22/09 10PM


wtf!!!!!!!
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JUST HAD 4 REALLY FUCKED UP CONVOS IN A ROW!!!!!!   I NEED A BREAK TOO HAWAII!!!!! AND A DANCING BANANA!!!


http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0021.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

/;D (88888888


I am seeing the need to UPDATE regularly a bit more.......HINTs, I guess, are needed.....

Reading my Profile is a very good idea, B4  contacting me, .........>should be at the top....Contact me with  NORMAL PIX, I am a eyes face smile VISUAL person.....Personality, sense of HUMOR, IN THIS COUNTRY OR WILLING TO RELOCATE ON YOUR OWN DIME....>>should be listed as HARDLIMIT.....


QUICK RANDOM THOUGHT TIMEhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Maybe I am being too literal.....hmmmmmmmmmmm.....too RAW?????
Is that possible....??? to be too honest or too yourself or too loving.....

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
but at this point in time...this is a baptism by fire thing with me, for me , to me......


Various things I have learned recently. include.....

Some people don't pay attention to the subtle or the obvious, and figuring out which can just be .....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0408.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>an annoying joyhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

SEX slave has moved up the list quite a bit......DEFINITE NEED DESIRE status/list......yes the list will continue to evolve...so  AND....Points can be earned with me pretty quickly, if you wanna playhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0167.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>....rewards are great....

I love http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0018.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>mutual gratshttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> for now, but...no one niters.....not a slut  HARDLIMIT

Interesting toys and scenes to play out.....I LOVE TO TEASE AND THEN ....pounce.....I also mean it when I say 'go for it".....>Teasing and fullfillment....IE ORGASM for BOTH parties is high on the list, and more  than likely will stay there.....

TRUST TRUST tryst TRUST TRUST 


I have 24/7 wants/needs/desires to be fullfilled for now right now, but only til MID DECEMBER.....I am Trying to do a combo of "Strike while the iron is hot!." kinda thing and "slooooowwwww your roll!!! "  and build trust also.....BUT>> Pretty easy to brain someone with a cold iron thohttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0293.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>....and I believe that is a quote from Churchill or Carol Burnette one or the other.....




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luvhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0164.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

I need a good photographerhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0484.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>, a good free photographer not necessarily a pro.....  someone who LOVES......  and i mean LOVES .....BBBWhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0018.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> 
AND LIVES IN MY STATE  http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0398.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>Just FYI...thnx

luv

sugarr
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http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0388.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


ouch!!!



http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0031.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0064.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

ROUGH couple of days......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0389.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

luv8
sugarr
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0487.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
quotes of the day:    ;D(88888

Everybody learns faster on fire.....
yay!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>!!!

Now that the barn has burned down, I can see the moon......

I'm praying as fast as I can.....


Isaiah 49:16
AAAAAAAAAAAAwwwwwwwwwwwwhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0551.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0549.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>ww  the sweet details of life huh??????http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0365.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0451.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>



random thought doc time.......
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0456.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0486.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>I am too much of an optimist for my own good sometimes, and it gets me into "trouble".......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0031.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>.. .......sometimeshttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

......
Still,, pretty hopeful and all....and taking what down time I can right now...

listening to, alot of sappy good songs, and......beginning to dig out and unpack some boxes.....and that is more inspiring also.....

http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0512.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0168.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

luv
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Time to purge and try to start journaling ?..again??.and it is one of the best cheap/ ie...FREE  therapies?..especially in lala land....soooooo, let's go for a ride shall we.....buckle up ok......http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0113.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>yay!

 

 I am getting ready to get VERY busy and back on a ?normal? schedule and start back to school in JAN ?10, which is right around the corner AGAIN??.time flies?..and thank GOD for something else to do??.still have some unpacking to do, and that is inspiring me to........ consider, i guess is the best word..........

I am learning about myself... some very interesting things, and what I do love and do believe and what I really want and have to have, not too much I am willing to compromise on right now, soooooooo?..this time of year does that for me especially, I guess?.maybe since August actually?? 

 

 Looking to explore things such as how much do people really pay attention?.just curious... and learning to be a better listener??OUCH!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0408.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>?.out of practice I guess?Looking forward to getting back to school and having projects to do, like words as art is something I want to explore and have a ton of stuff to go through for that, and re-doing portfolio presentation so. gotta go thru some stuff and?..and getting inspired so.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> 

 

Random thought /manifesto time again??..http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0484.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>....

          yay!!!http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0283.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


 

I believe??that I can find true love herehttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>...see previous post for cake reference....   (had some cake last nite..http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0018.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>...finally!!!....yummy)

 

Feeling pretty vulnerable and fragile still, but?..also not to be fucked with right now??.http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0015.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

 

I believe and know that I am not Domme for nothing and don?t like my feelings and emotions being played with?..or people TRYING to play with them......

I am sick of the looky loos and the liars and the bullshit and the wannabes and posers?regardless of where I am meeting them (ie...not just online)

 

I love the underdog ......always have and sometimes that can get me into trouble.

I love to laugh, and I do that daily and often.

I love to have a good cry.

I love bj?s.

I just love.

I am finally seeing the forest for the trees and  the light at the end of the tunnel.

 

I believe in the Golden time of day and greendays.  Now is good

 

Good music, good times good company good friends good food and forgiveness?..looking forward to all of that.....

 

I believe that crazy people need to go on about their business and that this gravy train has left the building?..

 

I believe in taking as much artistic license as possible and do so regularly.


I love a triumphant story  especially in music, a good anthem....and happy Hollywood endings??? sometimes.


I love, love  LOVE smart talented funny people and if allowed, I could love you too??http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0487.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


I believe.

luv,

SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0458.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

still in lala land of can't win for losin' and still very vulnerable in some ways, but also http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0407.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>ENJOYING MY SEARCH...http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0415.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>..inspite of the haters, and such....gotta love the hater's, and that is scriptual....soooooooooo http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0408.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>hmmmmppphhh!....(and the posers, and scammers and etc....liars and phishers...and the vanishing acts.......)I have also learned quite a bit about myself on this wondrous journey  I am on......and I am enjoying that also......I have been listening to alot of good music lately and laughing at some good stand-up, and of course doing research....especially on you tube.....and chatting with some old friends....but for now http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0423.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>I have way too much time on my hands......and going thru my nightowl phase......but still getting out daily and running appointments and errands and etc.....The weather here has been gorgeous.....and I am looking forward to EVERYTHING.....pick something.......school holidays good naps assignments homework cleaning laughing praying crying up down back and forth to and fro.... toys! and christmas and toys for christmas http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0406.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>and eating....hungry right this moment 631pm wednesday nov 11th......... and queening!!!!! and exploring and finding and MKMEBS and Hawaii and laughing and miracles

luv

SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0164.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
:D(88888
hmmmmmmm....got all riled up last nite and NOTHING happend!!!!! http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0483.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
 
I can't win for losin' lately.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0331.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Need a good nite out, and some good company and good laughs and good convo,  and...........

Hope that is not too much to ask,..... http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0529.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>  to have my cake and eat it too.....


mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....cake
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sugarrhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0160.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
ok..  http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0279.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>.be still my heart.http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0365.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>.........http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0525.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

I am feeling pretty vulnerable, right now.....

and very hopeful, much to my chagrins.........AND VERY ORAL......much to my delight.....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0512.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>


luv

SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0245.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

need to just chill and laugh and focus, and fuss and vent!!!!!!!!!!!!
Laugh and Pray, Pray and Laughhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0031.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0036.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0049.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0005.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0103.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0104.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0154.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

Where is a dancing banana when you really NEED one....????

SUGARR
Mean people suck....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0438.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

love,
SUGARRhttp://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0458.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
I saw this "perusing" today...and I agree with it...

I wont list my lifestyle interests here as they are ever evolving and I would much rather get to know someone as a person first and foremost. Plus, I find that curiousity is a wonderful trait for someone to have.

Also, I have realized, recently, unfortunately or finally! (whichever at the moment)...How opinionated some people think I am....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0009.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

AND....today is my cry day....finally or unfortuneately, wich ever at the moment.....I am kinda cranky also, and need a good laugh and a good cry and a grren day...Good music, good movie,  good laugh.....good cuddles and hugs.  http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0369.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>




love,http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0512.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>
Sugarr
OK....SO THIS is just FYI, if it does not apply to you, ignore it...

If you are here for games or? asking for money or any of those messed up kinds of? issues or reasons...and you contact me...

I will hunt you down, and eat your heart while it is still beating....as I step over you as you flop to the ground....
And part of me really hopes someone test this theory....that is the TRUE DOMME IN ME? /;}


LOVE and kisses...
SUGARR

Hello  Babies....http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0119.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

It was suggested to me that I should document my expeience as a New Domme, and I thought that was a very good idea from my good lil slave.../;}http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0159.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

So...to begin with, I will be documenting some of the things that I am learning about myself and what I want from my chosen lifestyle, which includes me being a believer in GOD....
I know, I know....it seems contradictory and a huge juxstaposition, but  stop and think....> Is that one of the evil lies we have been fed...?  That is my opinion and conviction.  Both of those parts of me are eager to compliment each other and not just co-exist but co-operate and nurture each other.http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0420.gif" align=absMiddle border=0>

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