I am not sure that I view this lifestyle the way that I see many Doms or submissives and it will show in a 30 second conversation with me.? Being a Dom is about guidance, trust, education and care, not just inflicting pain for the sadistic pleasure of it (although there IS that).
I am looking for submissive women who understand what it means to submit beyond the occasional tryst in the bedroom.? I am more than amply skilled in that area but the real draw to this lifestyle for me comes from the union and balance that comes from a woman who sees an unfulfilled need for a Dom in herself and is willing to give of herself to fill that need.? No one is ever complete alone.