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Natural submissive, not into being humiliated, or sadism, dislikes being shouted at or disrespected and I don't have a need or want for pain. It is the control side that excites me as does spanking and bondage with my own someone special. I haven't had experience with lots of different Dom's its not my thing. Quality is my thing, not quantity. I don't think kindness, consideration and politeness should be beneath any Dom. It isn't a sign of weakness for a Dominant Man to be a gentleman it should be natural.
But thing's are never that black and white, and how can one explain oneself in so few words?
Not looking for someone to 'fulfill my needs' or use and abuse me; doesn't make me less of a submissive woman, and I have long given up any form of being walked all over or used for someone else's pleasure.
Feel free to contradict me and tell me there is nothing submissive about me, if you do of course you will never know! Thankfully!
I wonder why some people are so bitter about others and make nasty remarks about 'time wasters' etc. Possibly if the offenders take time to get to know others and not be a Me, Me, Me person it would help, wouldn't it be better to move on gracefully; amusing as your profiles are they don't make for a trustworthy or caring relationship.
blah, blah, blah, I'll shut up.
If friendship isn't there, then nothing else is either!
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"It is but a single glance between two people that their souls become one........ and tis but a single word....... that shatters a heart and it falls in pieces to the floor.. never to be mended again"
With kind permission from Simplywolf - 28 October 2009
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"Don't let someone be a priority in your life ............ when you are just an option in theirs'' |
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The things that unite us are far stronger than the things that keep us apart! |
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It does seem a shame that people have to come online and say bad things either in private or on their profiles. Surely by insulting people, calling them names; "players" or whatever words they use, they are showing themselves up. I do indeed wonder if natural Doms, would actually rant and rave in their profiles, wouldn't rising above it be more Domly? Shouldn't he be Mastering himself and should he really be ranting? Makes you wonder doesn't it? |
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Oh dear, its been some months since I read my own journal, which is understandable of course. But having read it, it does look as if I have met nothing but unkind, insecure and arrogant people, this really isn't so, I have some really great friends both online and for real. What one person thinks is a drama is usually another persons amusement and vice versa. As long as we treat people as we would like to be treated (as grandma would say), then what could possibly go wrong? Sounds weird in a D/s world, but i'm talking about treating people with respect and politeness. Nobody should be excused their bad behaviour it isn't the right of anyone to assume or abuse. Heck, i'm off again. But sincerely folks I'm quite happy, most of the time my glass is half full. |
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Is there anyone sincere on here? (My apology to the ones who are). If you can't expect trust and honesty from a close friend, there is no hope! |
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''Laugh at tyrants and the the trajedy they inflict. Such men welcome our tears as evidence of subservience, but our laughter condemns them to ignominy''
from Endless River |
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This is a delayed addition to my journal, something I couldn't write at the time in case I said something really cutting:
I wanted to write something on here about lost 'friends' and so called 'doms', but I kept writing things down and they all looked bitter and thats not me. But could I reiterate that if it is your intention to demand cyber sex, cam sex, or phone sex, it is not a caring friend or a submissive you need and not the actions of a respectable Dom. So please mention it at the start, NOT wait until you have heard my life story and after I have opened up my heart. I have no wish to feel like a fish on the end of a hook! So it won't matter how long I have known you online, non of the above will happen. |
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So much bitterness in some of these profiles, this isn't about ''do as i do, because what i do is right''. Whatever happens in a relationship is right for the couple concerned surely? |
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Life is what happens when you are looking the other way! |
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Committment comes from the heart, the pleasure one gets from the relationship is enhanced by the knowledge that T/they are there for each other day and night. Whether it be in spirit or in person, contact is a very necessary part of any successful relationship. Committment isn't something that can be slotted in briefly at times to suit or to while away an hour or two at night......thats fantasy; not committment, and certainly not a fulfilling or lasting relationship. This is just my own personal opinion and should be read as such. If you have read my ''wafflings'' and have actually found them interesting, then i'm pleased and i thank you |
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This poor girl is feeling sorry for herself with migraine, but also has a warm cosy glow because she knows someone cares enough to want to look after her until she feels well again! |
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If someone isn't what others want them to be, they become abusive, insulting or angry. Often people seem to have clear ideas on how others should lead their lives, but none about their own.
''Every religion says ''i have the utimate truth'', so you start to rely on the priest or rabbi or mullah, or whoever, to be responsible for your acts. Fact is, you are the only one who is responsible!'' |
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There are actually some very nice people on this site, real people whom i don't need to label as anything in particular! Thank you to the real ones and for the real chats. Points at You! |
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We have all heard the ''its not you its me'' senario, but have we all heard...''you are too much of a lady for me''.....doesn't that beat all?? So Gentlemen only need apply! Thank You! Wonder why they 'seek' a lady...hmmm, confusing, challenge maybe? |
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We are each of us angels with only one wing, and can only fly by embracing each other! |
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Such a long time since i updated my journal, and since my last entry i have actually chatted to some really nice people. Some very special in fact; must be something to do with the weather. This is the part where i say something profound.....um, er, well, to the special ones, thank you for finding me and sharing your thoughts with me |
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"All animals, except man, know that the principal business of life is to enjoy it''
Samuel Butler 1912 |
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Life can be very cruel......my thoughts are with a very special frienDD |
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Life goes on, people come and go and every now and again, you meet a 'real' person.......nice!
Hehehe, i can't stop giggling now at someones profile, He is not especially pleasing on the eye and is dictating that he wants a slim subbie and even stipulates the size he requires, looks like he wants a replacement not a soul mate. Another Dom who doesn't have a mirror!! Oh tilly how rude! No i'm not suggesting that because someone isn't pleasing to the eye they should make do, but why would they rule someone out cos she has big boobs? Maybe the same reason that some insist on big boobs! Do these guys ever get to know the real people?? Oh well, just my thoughts! Maybe i'm as bad with my 'wants'. |
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Nothing to report in a positive light, but i would just like to explain to the people who send me sympathy messages regarding my journal entries. Reallly i dont need it, i haven't actually been reeled in, used, abused and thrown away, it is just my observations. Life should be treated in a positive manner, and we should always try to look forward. Yes sometimes life and events prevent us from doing that from time to time, but look around, don't you have almost everything in life you need? Apart from a wonderful, loving sub of course, but maybe she is around the next corner! |
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Smiles at last entry, that doesn't sound like me at all...nothing aggresive about me...smiles |
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Ok you guys, stop treating women like they are a challenge! You should be ashamed of yourselves, especially you out there with daughters. We are all someones daughter, or have been in our time.....think before trying to reel in and then throwing away the ones caught earlier and used! OK? Get a porn film!
No i'm not bitter and no i'm not sad, its my observations, my thoughts not necessarily about myself and it doesn't mean long term friends i have met online that i can still depend on. Tilly knows how you guys take things personally! Smiles (thats for the 'penfriend')! |
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Why do people have to complicate things? Drama after drama, you don't need to make them, real drama's and sadness are rarely for public viewing . . . . . . . |
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There are some worthly of a second look, but even then how do you know they are real? |
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i may as well wish for the moon...in fact i have more chance of reaching that; than be with one that meets my high expectations! Special ? ..... of course i am, i'm also a woman and a person, as well as a submissive! |
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Every now and again, something good happens, which makes life very worth while, things are never as bad as they seem. Well almost never! Life; as they say, is short... and until someone you cared about isn't there anymore, you will never realise how much you cared! Tell them today. |
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Why is there always something wrong, i'm not looking for perfect, but....almost! Ok, i admit it, i am a dreamer....and a romantic one at that! |
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Please, i'm not bi and i don't switch....i'm a natural submissive, not desperate and doesn't do ''training for fun''.....thank you |
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Smile, smile, smile, funny how the messages diminished since my first blog! Ok so refinement is obsolete? How sad, that a man can't be strong and dominant and polite! Domineering and Dominant are two very different things. However, everything isn't black and white either, there is always room for discussion.  http://www.collarspace.com/htmlarea/smileys/0005.gif" align=absMiddle border=0> |
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Funny old world, lots of messages, i'm sure most are nice, but is one of them Him? In my mind i see Him, his shape anyway and his inner strength and personality. He looks quite tall, not slim or too overweight, he doesn't have a beard that i can see. Inside he is beautiful, kind and caring, nice voice .... the perfect gentleman within... maybe not in the privacy of an intimate setting, but that adds to his personality. He has the energy and power to get everything he needs from me, and will know how to treat me. He will know my body as well as; if not better than, me. He will cherish me, have control over me and will ensure my obedience. Firm, but fair! Thats Him. Ok so i'm a dreamer!
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