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***Recent thoughts***

I have always enjoyed taking photographs of myself in submissive situations, either as tasks or just for satisfaction of seeing myself like that. I would be very interested ot hear from anyone interested in some kind of photoshoot (its doesnt have to be proffessional or studio based and I can provide the camera). Would be open to doing anything which might look good on cam, and it would be nice to have photos taken in situations which I would not be able to take myself.

Any offers considered,

Thanks

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Hello all

Ive been interested in dom/sub/bdsm for a long while, and though my life experience is limited, i like to think of myself as mature enough and knowledgable enough to be a submissive that is worth talking to, and not one of the many i seem to hear so much about that make life difficult for the rest...though i guess a sub that 'is worth talking to' will be different for everyone.

Writing a sub profile is hard. Some Mistresses want you to say practically nothing and just 'kneel bitch', others want you to tell them all about you , your experience, your interests and 'what you can offer'. Truth is none of that really helps in this profile - im a submissive guy, you can read my interests, you can see some of my pictures - whether we click or not will depend on how we get on, our interests, the dynamic between us, etc, not on the quality or quantity of what i write here.

But initially, it depends on whether you feel this is a profile that makes you want to know more...I cant pretend to be something im not, hence this profile, as an attempt to just introduce myself and not make claim to any more.

Breifly about me - im not public about my bdsm passion, i am submissive in many ways. I enjoy just surrendering and not having a say in what happens. I enjoy being naked and vulnerable in front of a beautiful women. I take some pain, some insults, some humiliation - hopefully enough to call myself a worthy slave.

I enjoy cross dressing passionatly, and have never been able to explain why. Im looking for someone who will respect my privacy, will respect the hours i sometimes work, will respect my limits, but who is prepared to take control, to get to know what i have to offer and proceed to take advantage of the deep desires i have. At times i just need to surrender. I need to offer myself up and be taken. I would like to meet someone who does that for their own pleasure, not for money.

Online is fun, real time would be preferred. I want someone who makes my knees give in and makes me want to do things no vanilla girl could ever manage.

I am on offer to the right person.

Thanks

Wow, I mean...are there any dommes left on this site that arent just into money?

Dont get me wrong, some guys are into it.  And im sure a lot part with money to get their kicks, and in some cases it can be a d/s relationship.  But I would presume 90% of the financial requests here are girls not that into bdsm and probably not that good at it, taking advantage of the fact a lot of men will pay them to talk and pretend to be dominant for a while in a transaction that probably wont last, unless he keeps paying and she keeps pretending.

And the thing that gets me is when you try to make an intelligent argument against it you just get "well if you arent prepared to pay then I wont even talk to you".  And that says all I need to know about your interests in the bdsm lifestyle, its money and nothing else, and casually glancing through now its hard to find more than 1 in 10 who do not state financial considerations before personal ones. 

Not much point visiting here too often these days which is a real shame, as it used to be kinda fun... :(

I would like to say a big thank you to Princess Claire for talking to me last night.  She had me erect for 3 hours before allowing me to cum.

 

Thank you Princess.

All i ever get are messages from gay men calling me "boi".

 

Really annoying.

 

 

So Teenmistress has gone away on travels for a while, so while i remain loyal to her i am still opoen to talking to other dominants and seeing what happens. 

 

Currently however Mistress has made a brief return and i am arranging to go into chastity under her control.  This will be the first time ive been in chastity for any period, and the first time under someone elses control, so i am nervous, but excited, and feeling rather pleased with myself for deciding to committ to her in this way.

 

Waiting to find the comfortable fit with the device and get a new padlock for her to send, and i will keep updated here how it goes.

 

 

After speaking on and off for a good while, Teenmistress has asked me to manager her collarme  account for her.  I am honoured to be trusted with this and am pleased that my efforts to please her have been up to her standard.

I am a very lucky subby to be one of hers :)

Thank you Mistress x

Ive been having lots of fantasys about chastity...since i bought a little device out of curiosity...

I have an urge to habd the key over to someone on the agreement thati get released after completing a certain task....something along the lines of finding a guy/tv to fuck me and take photos...or another equally scary task which in normal circumstances i would not be interested/comfortable with...

Only a fantasy at the moment but interested from hearing from anyone who might want to discuss it with me.
Feeling terribly submissive and slutty.  Just spend an evening in my local pub, tonight being halloween, and a nice girl showed up in 'fancy dress', consisiting of a pink corset, black panies, fishnets and high heels.  Was so dirty, i loved it.  Had to get dressed up when i came home...just need someone to tell me what a naughty slut i am and the evening would be complete...
This site drives me mad.  I just emailed domme, taking time to explain who i was and what i was seeking, sending a photo, being respecful and polite but unassuming - all things i have learnt you need to do to even come close to getting noticed.  then i get a one line response telling me to 'stick to baby oil and miss right hand'.  I mean why even bother replying??  Why waste her time and mine, purely to send a random insult that has no real meaning? 

I understand there are areas of bdsm that involves verbal abuse etc, but as ive taken the time to introduce myself and say hello, where did her authority to just be an unfriendly, rude and childish idiot come from?  If you put a profile on this site, and invite people to contact you, then you should welcome all responses that are not abusive or offensive to you, even if you arent interested or dont reply. 

Rant over.
And ive just noticed that half of the people who viewed my profile were the wrong sex :-( Guys - im flattered, but no...really no...thanks
Email from user 'Ellle': do you have webcam?

Response from me:  4 words?  Is that youre entire response to my profile? 

Response from 'Ellle':  here r 2: fuck u.   

I was going to reply along the lines that unfortunately i didnt think we were going to get along but she (he?) had already blocked me.  Clearly the whole sentance i sent was was a bit much for them to handle. 

Idiot.