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My interest in BDSM/fetish started young. Since a teen, I always had submissive feelings and fantasies. I was embarrassed about these desires for a long time but came to realize this is a part of 'who I am' and what makes me happy.
For the most part, I lead a normal life (professional career, busy and active, etc). By outward appearance I probably come across fairly conservative, but I have always had a spark or 'wild-streak' about me where I am fascinated by kink and fetish, I crave adventure and am curious to try new things. The BDSM lifestyle appeals to me because I am intrigued by the deviant aspect of it and it satisfies that quest for excitement and eroticism.
I'm an easy-going, laid-back guy with a somewhat reserved demeanor but am social, friendly and enjoy people. Values such as kindness, respect, manners and chivalry are important to me. With a career in corporate sales, my social skills are refined and I can make myself comfortable in most any setting--I do enjoy good conversation and interesting people. I would say my best feature is probably my sense of humor--I can be a pisser and like to make people laugh.
I have always been an enthusiastic learner and achiever; I am well educated and have diverse interests. Some of my vanilla interests are: music, cultural events, travelling/exploring, entertaining, dining/nightlife, concerts, the beach, people-watching, sitting by the fire, culinary appreciation, photography, technology, boating, motorcyles, working out and yes I am probably the only guy I know that likes shopping. I am a creative person and love the arts, design, building things and home beautification--I am a handy guy and love to tinker and improve. I originally aspired to be an artist/photographer but chose the comfort of a business career (I sometimes regret this). This is why I have a fondness for creative, eclectic people and have a need to express this aspect of myself. In the future, I would love to incorporate my creative roots more and ideally integrate my kink passions--perhaps fetish photography or video production.
My BDSM interests are diverse--some of my favorite are: sensual-sadism, corporal/impact play, B&D, predicament scenarios, worship (particularly boot & booty), T&D, CBT, strap-on & even cuckold themes. I have learned I tend to lean toward being masochistic and have a strong fetish for leather, whips, boots and more creative kink. I do tend to have a 'weakness' for a Domme with strong energy who has the capability to be both soft/sensual and sadistic and harsh. There is very little I am not open to (extreme, scat, bi, cross dress) and slightly twisted is not a bad thing with me..lol. I would say I am most excited by discipline, punishment and intense psycho-drama scenarios.
My kink test results:
Experimental 100%
Bondage 93%
Degradation Lover 89%
Submissive 86%
Masochist 86%
Switch 55%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur 50%
Sadist 46%
Dominant 25%
Vanilla 0%
Lately, I have been getting some strong switch desires and would be open to exploring that more, but I am definitely submissive at heart. I am relatively new to RL play and eager to experiement more. Life is short and I really don't want to watch from the wings or have regrets. I seek friends with similar interests and going from there.
I do not post pictures online for privacy, but would be happy to provide a pic upon request. I'm tall (6'4), clean-cut, brown hair, keep in shape and look younger than my age ..(been told I am cute/handsome, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder).
Anyway, hope you say hi!
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