I like men who are curious and want to embrace a long term relationship that has aspects of Domme and sub throughout all parts of their life.. although it may not be apparent to others. My sub will do chores and enjoy doing them because it would please me. Exploring is also important as is knowing ones limits, likes an dislikes. You must be able to communicate what you need and want as well as the type of relationship you expect.
Intelligence and openness are also helpful. I do not hide who I am or what my interests are and my sub must be willing to be as open. I don't walk around with a whip at my waist and leather boots on but if the subject comes up when I am socializing I am honest. My sub must also not be a social butterfly. I am not into clubbing or going out to social events and am willing to do those if it is necessary for my subs work.
In real life I want what everyone wants and I am no different, but I do not want to do scenes. I want my life to incorporate the bdsm lifestyle into my daily life. If you want someone to rule your life, I will not do that. I don't want to control every aspect of your life, however I do want a good understanding of your life and in issues where our lives overlap we will work through them as Domme and sub.
Ask me questions, I am open any discussion or interests you might have. I also am interested in friends if that is all you are looking for.
If you live to far for a real time relationship to form please don't contact me in hope of that happening unless you are willing to travel and eventually relocate if things develop.
