StrictGoddess

*Updated 12/06/2014 written by StrictGoddess*
We live in north Idaho, near the Eastern Washington/North Idaho border. It's absolutely beautiful here and where we consider 'home' to be. I've (StrictGoddess) been in the BDSM, D/s, DD and FHOH lifestyle RL for over 15 yrs and my partner for over 5 yrs. I've had ups and downs within this Lifestyle, as everyone who lives it does, but all in all, I wouldn't change a thing or leave it.
This is who I am... who we are. I have an amazing partner (male) who is my life partner and submissive, and I am not seeking other men in my life. Sorry boys, my desires are more than fulfilled in this area. I am, however, seeking the right female submissive or slave... someone who meets what I am seeking physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Someone whom I feel I have to offer what she needs and seeks. I am very specific as to what I am seeking. But please don't try to guess, just contact me and get to know me. To develop any kind of D/s dynamic, I believe we must share similar views on D/s and Power Exchange and I feel mutual respect, honesty and integrity are imperative foundations for any relationship, friendship or more.
In the past I have mentored others in D/s, BDSM, FHOH, DD, and Power Exchange dynamics, however, at this time I am not taking on any such relationships.
I am a BBW, and very confident in My looks. I realize that not every one is attracted to BBW's and that's OK. To each their own, I always say. :) And no, that doesn't make you shallow. We ALL have things we are drawn and attracted to. It's just part of being human.
Here are some things I find necessary for a relationships of any kind, platonic or otherwise: openness, honesty, authenticity, integrity, an ability to communicate intelligently without being dogmatic or judgmental of differing opinions, a positive symbiotic energy flow between us, and a respect for others as individuals, both within this lifestyle and without.
We don't participate in Online Play/Cyber, nor Cyber Relationships, nor seek casual BDSM play partners. We are strictly real life and connect best with those who are similar. This doesn't mean I will not get to know you if you are long distance, it means you need to be someone who is willing to validate who you are via phone and cam within a reasonable amount of time. Please respect this. If you are not emotionally ready and able to, or too 'fearful' to take things forward then you are not for me. Again, we are real life only.
D/s and power exchange is something I take seriously. It's not a game or a hobby for me. Not judging those who enjoy BDSM on the lighter side, that's just not what I seek. We're not into Swinging or casual sexual encounters, just an FYI.
Namaste'
Lady Holly